🗒️ Seven quirks which you can relate to if you're a Muslim wife with an INTJ personality type:
1] You don't question why Allah the Most Wise legislated capable Muslim men to be married to up to four wives. Since polygyny deals with logic and you generally make decisions logically, not emotionally, you're one of the few females who choose not to complain when the husband wishes to remarry.
2] You can easily sense or guess the current emotions and motives of most people, including your husband, since Allah the Most Merciful gifted you with intuition. You can tell for instance why somebody behaved rudely towards you, either because they were having a tough day or obvious jealousy triggers them to act insecure. With your husband you're able to spoil him with fierce loyalty and being forgiving readily, as marriage life is not a plaything to be taken lightly.
3] Even if your husband may have quarrelled with you in the past and there are instances when he'd act in a way that many sensitive individuals would find offensive, you are incapable of having your feelings hurt since you view insults as opportunities to improve yourself or you quietly laugh at the so-called criticism if none of it is factual.
4] Envy is a sentiment which you can't feel at all when you notice other couples thriving in their own polygynous or monogamous marriages. You'd rather focus on staying contented in your own path towards Jannah Paradise, while helping your husband pass Allah's tests with you, than nosily peer into the different journeys of other examinees.
5] Emotional stories of divorcees and whiny complaints of any wife concerning her husband can't influence you to doubt the validity of your marriage. Even if all of your friends, colleagues, and the neighbors' pets were divorced, you'd stubbornly persist in loving your husband for Allah's sake, defending his admirable qualities like a staunch attorney who refuses to quit on a valuable client.
6] Because you're imaginative and future-oriented, divorce is an option you don't want to try. You can imagine all the awful scenarios and problematic outcomes of being a divorcee - one of which is rejecting all marriage proposals you receive from interested suitors and wanting to have a second wedding only with your first spouse.
7] As a true introvert, you don't feel "empty" or "lonely" when your husband is with his other wife, with some of his friends or colleagues, or when he's busily working or studying in a faraway city. Alhamdulillah, although you miss your dear husband, you're able to efficiently make good use of your time by reading, researching online, listening to Islamic lectures and motivational podcasts, watching educative videos, or completing some tasks etc.
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1159
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi
Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."
Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātih 5/2125
📖 Abu Sa'eed Al-Khudri RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of the intuition of the believer. Verily, he sees with the Light of Allah." Then, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam recited the verse, “Verily, in that are signs for those of discernment.” (The Noble Qur'an 15:75)
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3127
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Haythami
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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📑 Reminder to read Surah Al-Kahf every Jumuah Friday, recite Surah Al-Mulk each day and night, and include the Muslim Ummah in your Du'as.
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