💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
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💌 A to Z checklist / questionnaire regarding some actions which your husband has done and/or still does to inspire you to continue loving him with gratitude, patience and loyalty for Allah's sake:
Your husband...
A] Allows you to occasionally visit your family and friends - he is not overly jealous and insecure. ( ✓ )
B] Bought or brought you souvenirs often after arriving from duty, work and/or travel. ( ✓ )
C] Cooked for you at least twice and/or complimented you on your cooking. ( ✓ )
D] Drove you several times to destinations which you asked him to transport you. ( ✓ )
E] Economizes when necessary and encourages you to spend money for Allah's sake wisely. ( ✓ )
F] Finds a way to make you laugh and smile effortlessly. ( ✓ )
G] Gives you some space when necessary, so he isn't obnoxiously nosy and/or goes to the Masjid frequently. ( ✓ )
H] Helps you with some household chores whenever he can. ( ✓ )
I] Inspires you every night and day to become a better Muslimah. ( ✓ )
J] Jokes with you now and then, as he loves to see you in a joyful mood. ( ✓ )
K] Kisses and/or hugs you goodbye whenever he embarks on a journey. ( ✓ )
L] Listens to you patiently or eagerly whenever you complain about an issue or share with him some news. ( ✓ )
M] Massaged you oftentimes when you felt tired and manages, with Allah's Will, to motivate you to work more ambitiously for Allah's sake. ( ✓ )
N] Negotiates well when necessary. ( ✓ )
O] Optimizes his time as much as possible. He isn't one of those immature guys who waste much of their lifetime nosily spying on strangers' lives and aimlessly watching uninspiring vlogs etc. ( ✓ )
P] Played with you at least twice some games or sports like badminton etc. ( ✓ )
Q] Quietly or very gently wakes you up for Salah when the time for prayer has arrived. ( ✓ )
R] Respects your mother and/or father, as well as your relatives. ( ✓ )
S] Shared and shares with you some of his belongings, like jacket or large slippers, whenever he can. ( ✓ )
T] Tried to teach you something which you weren't familiar with before and/or shed tears with you when you both were discussing some emotional topics. ( ✓ )
U] Understands your language and overall personality. ( ✓ )
V] Valiantly apologized to you at least once. ( ✓ )
W] Washed some of your clothes or did the dishes for you at least once and/or works with admirable determination. ( ✓ )
X] Excellently recalls a lot of random facts about you, such as your date of birth and favorite color. ( ✓ )
Y] Yearns to reunite with you and his other loved ones in Jannah Paradise with Allah's Mercy. ( ✓ )
Z] Zealously does what he can to ensure that his earnings are halal / lawful. ( ✓ )
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📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "Any woman who asks her husband for a divorce when it is not absolutely necessary, the fragrance of Paradise will be forbidden to her."
Sunan Ibn Majah 2055
In-book reference: Book 10, Hadith 40
English translation: Vol. 3, Book 10, Hadith 2055
📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whenever a woman asks her husband for a divorce without a strong reason, the fragrance of Paradise becomes forbidden for her."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 2226
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut
📖 Jabir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, shaytan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations. One of them says: 'I have done this and this.' shaytan says: 'you have done nothing.' Another one says: 'I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife.' shaytan embraces him and he says: 'you have done well!'"
Source: Sahih Muslim 2813
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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