Tuesday, January 17, 2023

Note: To Stay Contented With Your Husband, Appreciate The Many Ways You're Both Alike

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 One of the many secrets to remaining grateful to Allah the Almighty for the marriage and unique love story which He Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala wisely planned for you is to appreciate at least three qualities which you and your husband have in common. 
Alhamdulillah. Seven ways in which my dear husband and I are very much alike: 
1] My husband and I used to be slim back in our late teens. After marriage, we both could be described as overweight or thickset.
2] Before I was born in Saudi Arabia, my dear mother (Allah yarhamha. Ameen.) gave birth to a baby boy but he died as a newborn (Allah yarhamhu. Ameen.). My husband also had a brother who passed away before he was born (Allah yarhamhu. Ameen.).
3] There was a time when I often played soccer during P.E. subject with some of the girls during high school. If I'm not mistaken, my husband also played soccer/football when he was in college. 
4] Alhamdulillah we both can read text in Arabic language without the harakaat / vowels. 
5] My husband and I can be talkative, quiet, serious, funny or corny depending on the situation. 
6] We try our best to be thrifty and generous instead of being overly materialistic, obnoxiously selfish and unreasonably demanding. 
7] Even though we're aware of how certain individuals despise us, we prefer to forgive those Muslims for Allah's sake, distance ourselves from any negativity and confidently move on. Indulging in futile drama and attempting to reconcile with toxic people don't intrigue us. 
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The most complete of believers in faith are those with the best character, and the best of you are the best in behavior to their women."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1162
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to At-Tirmidhi 
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is provision and the best provision in the world is a righteous woman."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Imam Muslim