Thursday, February 16, 2023

Note: Wretched Couples VS Truly Contented And Blessed Muslim Couples / Spouses

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
📝 Five qualities of wretched couples who deserve each other and who aren't worthy of envy and admiration at all: 
1:- They ignorantly disbelieve in Allah the Almighty and don't know how to properly worship Him Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala. 
2:- They lack the enthusiasm and sincerity to learn more about the truth Islam. They'd rather stay misguided or delusional than educated and well-informed. 
3:- They resemble each other in being awfully narcissistic, egoistic and obnoxiously full of themselves, appallingly obsessed with materialism or excessive consumerism. 
4:- Although they try to appear contented and confident, inwardly they're actually unsatisfied with what Allah the All-Knowing granted them while they are consistently prone to feeling intensely envious of other individuals. Their discontentment with themselves is revealed through their lousy lack of basic good manners and their inability to quit immature acts such as gossiping and instantly trusting nonsensical rumors. 
5:- They're both incompetent at controlling their gaze, casually mingling with non-mahrams of the opposite gender on a regular basis, and exactly alike in disloyalty, frequently checking out or flirting with multiple strangers despicably. 
✅ Five signs that you and your Muslim spouse are blessed by Allah the Most Merciful to be married to each other: 
1💚 This marriage which Allah the Most Wise has destined actually causes your faith Imaan to strengthen and brings you both closer to Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala. Thus, there's no remorse at all in marrying each other sincerely for Allah's sake. 
2💚 Through loving each other for Allah's sake, regardless of how busy you both can be, you're mutually enlightened and motivated to study about Islam whenever you can, striving to inspire each other (directly and indirectly) to increase in doing righteous deeds which please Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala. 
3💚 Not only has your eagerness to learn more about Islam increased, with Allah's Will and through this pure love, but you and your husband have also improved a lot in gratitude, humility, patience, adulting and empathy. 
4💚 As much as possible you and your soulmate avoid unnecessarily mixing with non-mahrams and behaving indecently with strangers. You both are knowledgeable about the true concept of loyalty. 
5💚 Instead of being selfish and overly attached to dunya, you and your other half strive to generously do Da'wah and charity whenever you can for Allah's sake. You can tell that your marriage is 
Inn-sha-Allah an enormous blessing when becoming a better and wiser Muslim has been attained.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "The most complete of believers in faith are those with the best character, and the best of you are the best in behavior to their women."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1162
Grade: Sahih 
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim