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🗒️ Question: Are there any signs indicating that I've married the right guy or the most ideal man for me? How can I tell for sure that I'm in a blessed marriage?
📝 Answer: Allah the Almighty knows best. You can sense that Allah the Most Wise blessed you with an ideal husband when:-
1] ...it's absolutely easy to forgive your spouse for Allah's sake no matter how many times his responses to a number of your text messages are delayed, how often he may talk to you with an annoyed tone of voice, and how sometimes he forgets to comply with some of your requests simply because he's a human being who goes through various challenges at times just like you etc. Even if he didn't apologize directly for a certain mistake he's done, you've already forgiven him wholeheartedly.
2] ...almost every night and day, you find yourself mentioning his name lovingly in a lot of your Du'as/supplications and prayers.
3] ...you can't stop yourself from missing your other half and soulmate whenever he's not around. Oftentimes when you're having a meal, when attending a gathering, when outdoors, a few minutes before sleeping, and even while doing the laundry or dishes, you literally miss your husband and wish he was nearby, particularly to observe your fierce loyalty towards him at all times.
4] ...every time you notice several couples online and offline flaunting how joyful they are in their love life, instead of feeling envious and insecure, you're actually inspired to appreciate and persistently respect your husband even more for Allah's sake.
5] ...you're truly unable to feel jealous whenever somebody brags about their marriage story or expresses their admiration for spouses with plenty of children. For instance, if someone tells you "so-and-so got married to a Turkish Muslim", "she and her new husband with their twin newborns reside in a ginormous mansion" and "her Saudi partner is taking her to South Korea this vacation", your reaction would be like "good for her. What's important is that she's contented from the heart and their marriage ultimately, with Allah's Will, leads to Jannah Paradise. As for me, Alhamdulillah, my contentment with the man whom Allah the Most Loving wisely chose as my soulmate and husband is undebatable, undeniable and not artificial at all. He's the only soul in the entire universe whom I'm in love with and, if truth be told, I don't regret marrying him for Allah's sake at all."
6] ...you and others have observed that ever since you willingly accepted your husband's marriage proposal for Allah's sake, the level of your faith Imaan has increased significantly and remarkably.
7] ...there's a strong probability of not wanting to marry anybody else but him if ever he decides to split up with you for whatever reason. You'd rather have a second and third wedding / Nikaah with him for Allah's sake in the future than to begrudgingly search for a different man.
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📖 Thawbaan RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best wealth is a tongue that remembers Allah, a grateful heart, and a believing wife to help one in his faith."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3094
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbaan 4252
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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