๐ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
๐ To single Muslim females who sincerely aspire
To get married someday, become dedicated wives,
And aim to please Allah more through a blessed marriage life:
Don't accept marriage proposals from the kind of guys
Who desire you after liking your photos online.
~•~
Don't marry a guy who just likes you for looking fine,
Who enjoys staring at women with wandering eyes,
And who'd quickly desert you anytime he desires
When he finds another woman who looks more sublime,
Like a child who leaves unfinished meals for sweeter bites.
~•~
Most boys who prefer brief joys to beauty from inside
Wouldn't care about how you feel and what you require
If you gained weight or revealed blemishes for some time.
Why bother agreeing to be a devoted wife
Of one who demands perfection while he's flawed likewise?
~•~
The man whom you can marry for Allah the Most Wise
Should be one who strives to be pious and who acquires
Income through lawful means and he's sincere from inside,
Willing to take good care of you, and what caught his eye
Isn't your status but your striving for Paradise.
~•~
Marry a Muslim whose belief and manners are right,
Despite not being rich yet or he has a first wife,
As long as loving you is not something he would hide.
Pray Salat Al-Istikhaara before you decide,
And throughout life seek blessings from Allah day and night.
~•~
๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If someone proposes marriage to you whose religion and character satisfies you, then you should accept it. If you do not do so, there will be trials (fitna / fitan) on the earth and the spread of corruption."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1084
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
๐ Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best wealth is a tongue that remembers Allah, a grateful heart, and a believing wife to help one in his faith."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3094
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A woman is married for four things, i.e. her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a loser."
Sahih Al-Bukhari 5090
In-book reference: Book 67 Hadith 28
USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 27
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