Sunday, February 19, 2023

Tips: Why Some Loved Ones Can't Always Answer Your Messages In A Timely Manner

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
📝 Seven probable reasons why someone who cares about you for Allah's sake (such as your spouse, sibling, relatives or colleague etc.) may not always answer your messages in a timely manner, so forgive them when their responses are delayed sometimes: 
1] Maybe they actually typed their response and pressed the "send" or "submit" button but their internet connection was unstable at that time or unknowingly they weren't connected to a WiFi network for some reason. 
2] Maybe they typed a message and sent their response but due to some temporary glitches or technical issues in the messaging application from their side or yours, some of their messages failed to reach your inbox. 
3] They probably responded but somebody who has access to your gadgets may have borrowed your cellphone and deleted their messages from your inbox for some reason, possibly due to intensely despising the sender or they believe that deleting unnecessary, irrelevant or incomprehensible messages would make inboxes appear more organized. 
4] There could be a possibility that they noticed your new messages and quickly opened the message thread or conversation panel but something else came up when they were about to respond to you. Maybe they were distracted by one of their children, nieces, nephews or an infant they were entrusted with, or they had to take an important phonecall or video call until they eventually forgot to answer your messages. 
5] Perhaps they've just had an argument with a loved one and they felt too upset or agitated to answer your messages after skimming through their inbox. 
6] Perhaps they're seriously struggling with overwork or depression and their stress or bad mood prevents them from feeling enthusiastic about answering every message they receive. 
7] Maybe they're one of those lazy or traditional individuals who aren't interested in typing messages, whether lengthy or concise, and they are more comfortable with talking to you face to face. 
If you truly love a Muslim for Allah's sake, you wouldn't easily abandon them even if they aren't very communicative at times.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of suspicion, for suspicion is the most false of tales. Do not seek out faults, do not spy on each other, do not contend with each other, do not envy each other, do not hate each other, and do not turn away from each other. Rather, be servants of Allah as brothers."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5719
Sahih Muslim 2563
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim