💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
🗒️ Question: As an INTJ-A personality type, what do you like and dislike about ISFJs? How can you tell or sense that the MBTI personality type of a person is probably ISFJ?
How do you deal with ISFJ loved ones as an INTJ?
📝 Answer: 🔸What I like or admire about some ISFJs:
•¶ . Their ability to organize many things neatly.
•¶ . Their willingness to cooperate and prove their loyalty when they truly feel connected to a group.
•¶ . Their aversion to injustice and preferential treatment (if they're not insecure).
❎ What I dislike about several ISFJs:
¶• . How a number of them could be easily prone to believing in rumors and partaking in futile gossip.
¶• . How they can be extremely sensitive or appear very shy yet ironically act like it's okay to indulge in backbiting now and then.
📑 Some signs indicating that a person is probably an ISFJ:
•|° Stereotypically they are organized in general and enjoy keeping their surroundings tidy.
•|° A lot of them tend to speak slowly, making sure that almost every word they enunciate is entirely understandable. They can struggle at times comprehending fast talkers.
•|° They are typically good at recalling certain situations which occurred in the past and remembering details.
•|° They can be obnoxiously gossipy and cowardly passive-aggressive when they're envious of you or intimidated by your assertiveness.
•|° Many of them are comfortable with sticking to tried-and-true methods or making decisions based on whatever has worked previously instead of taking risks to achieve efficiency.
✅ What I'd usually do as an INTJ when I care about some ISFJs or regard them as potential friends instead of mere strangers:
1] Instantly defend them when some individuals are irrationally criticizing them or inventing lame jokes at their expense.
2] Lovingly mention their names in my Du'as, whether or not I let them know that I supplicate for their well-being often.
3] Return their favors or reciprocate their acts of kindness as early as possible if I have the means to do so.
4] Ask for their advice or feedback when necessary.
5] Prolong conversations with them online and offline, and sometimes inquire them about themselves to gradually become more acquainted rather than perceiving them according to my own assumptions.
6] Occasionally support their halal businesses or hobby if they have one.
7] Directly approach them and advise them gently if I noticed they committed an error, instead of allowing them to sabotage themselves through ignorance or continuity of carrying out the same mistakes.
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📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is one who is trusted by the people. The Muslim is one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe (not guilty of backbiting, telling lies, and deliberately committing injustice). The emigrant (muhaajir) is one who emigrates away from evil. By the One (Allah the Almighty) in Whose Hand is my soul, a servant will not enter Paradise if his neighbor is not secure from his harm."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 515
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut
📖 Abu Dharr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Fear Allah wherever you are, follow a bad deed with a good deed and it will erase it, and behave well with good character towards the people."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1987
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to At-Tirmidhi
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