💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
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📝 Some tips from an INTJ on what you can say
To yourself if you found out you got kicked out one day
From a group chat with members who don't want you to stay,
So you can move on confidently without dismay,
Far away from fakery, toxic vibes and false claims:
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"They deleted you from that group? So what? It's okay -
For behaving like real bullies and pals who are fake,
And for partaking in gossip or deranged debates
The pointless group's members are not at all being paid.
Their lies and absolute nonsense won't enhance your faith.
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So don't fret about why they didn't want you to stay.
You're like a diamond often abandoned by snakes,
A treasure chest with pearls in the middle of a bay
But some clowns don't know your value so they walk away,
And "pirates" who evade you just dress up for cosplay.
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Don't question your self-worth. You can't force people to change
Nor urge them to connect if your goals are not the same.
They're insecure; you're confident. You're honest; they're fake.
In building true friendship there's no way if that's the case.
You're pro self-improvement; they'd rather deteriorate.
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They're obsessed with gossip and mocking people's mistakes;
You love minding your own business and thrive in your lane.
You display integrity; fakes you intimidate.
It's a blessing actually to be dismissed by fakes.
Your time in detecting their motives they kindly saved."
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📖 Suhayb RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Amazing is the affair of the believer, as there is good for him in every matter. This is not the case for anyone but for the believer. If he goes through ease (or happy moments), he thanks Allah and it is good for him. If he goes through difficulty, he shows patience and it is good for him."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2999
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is one who is trusted by the people. The Muslim is one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe (not guilty of backbiting, telling lies, and knowingly committing injustice). The emigrant (muhaajir) is one who emigrates away from evil.
By the One (Allah the Almighty) in Whose Hand is my soul, a servant will not enter Paradise if his neighbor is not secure from his harm."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 515
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: 'Allah has decreed what He wills.' Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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