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💌 From the worst advice anyone can provide, in my
Opinion is "Your husband doesn't seem to spend time
With you a lot. Of his busyness aren't you tired?
Are you not fed up with how he's so preoccupied
With work? When will you decide to find another guy?"
~•~
Excuse me? Don't act as if you care about my life.
Don't dish out tips regarding love if you've never tried
Sacrificing your ego/pride to do what is right -
To stay as your husband's patient friend and loyal wife.
Don't advise if you don't know what loyalty is like.
~•~
Marriage won't separate you from trials, stress and strife.
It's not an end goal, but means to Jannah Paradise.
It's like a challenge accepted by the brave and wise
Who won't quit the journey when some paths are blocked by ice,
Aware that storms and winter eventually subside.
~•~
Anger is temporary, fights can be put aside,
And forgiving becomes easy when you discard pride,
When your drive to please Allah Above the seven skies
Is stronger than your need to tell your husband "See? I
Was right. I knew it. You should've taken my advice."
~•~
Don't claim "You're not old yet. You can find a better guy."
Unless you're fully certain that such male never cries,
That he can't feel emotions and he never gets tired,
And he knows the best shortcut to Jannah Paradise.
Don't even bribe me to stop being my man's first wife.
~•~
📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "Any woman who asks her husband for a divorce when it is not absolutely necessary, the fragrance of Paradise will be forbidden to her."
Sunan Ibn Majah 2055
In-book reference: Book 10, Hadith 40
English translation: Vol. 3, Book 10, Hadith 2055
📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whenever a woman asks her husband for a divorce without a strong reason, the fragrance of Paradise becomes forbidden for her."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 2226
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut
📖 Jabir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, shaytan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations. One of them says: 'I have done this and this.' shaytan says: 'you have done nothing.' Another one says: 'I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife.' shaytan embraces him and he says: 'you have done well!'"
Source: Sahih Muslim 2813
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim