💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
📝 When I, as an INTJ, knows you're not worth it -
Not worth talking about because you can't be trusted,
When I decide to dislike you, quit building friendship,
I won't waste my time indulging in childish gossip.
Instead, I'll avoid you like a deflecting magnet.
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When I despise you for Allah's sake, I won't grant it -
My full attention, curiosity or interest
In getting to learn more about your past, how you live,
And your future goals - I'd be more uninterested
Than staunch non-smokers who refuse to touch cigarettes.
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If there's a program, I won't witness ridiculous
Acting. My attentiveness and support - don't expect
Them if I conclude you can no longer be trusted.
Don't expect me to stalk your Facebook profile, pages
And vids. I reject content that's false and pathetic.
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You're like an ad on YouTube which I would gladly skip,
Like dead leaves which busy tourists won't pause for and pick,
Or a book I check randomly and my thoughts on it
Are: "these phrases don't make sense.", "the title is stupid.",
And "I won't bother reading the rest of its pages.".
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Now please don't describe me as "pretentious" nor "snobbish".
When it comes to choosing friends I tend to be cautious
And selective so my faith/Imaan is safeguarded,
And so I don't earn people's sins accumulated
Through lame talks with real liars and experts at gossip.
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📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah (The Almighty), hates for the sake of Allah ,(Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala), gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith (Imaan)."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi
📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is one who is trusted by the people. The Muslim is one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe (not guilty of backbiting, knowingly telling lies, lying about themselves, and deliberately committing injustice). The emigrant (muhaajir) is one who emigrates away from evil.
By the One (Allah the Almighty) in Whose Hand is my soul, a servant will not enter Paradise if his neighbor is not secure from his harm."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 515
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut
✅ Some MBTI tests which you can try taking online to discover more about yourself and other personality types:
https://sakinorva.net/functions?lang=ar (in Arabic language)
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