💌 To ensure that at some point your marriage doesn't end,
Love your husband for Allah, be your man's loyal friend.
When fatigue causes him to act in ways that offend,
Don't fight fire with flame but with soft waves of sweet patience.
Sympathize with your guy and calm him when he's hurting.
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He scolded you? Misunderstood? Spoke in a harsh way?
Instead of taking his aches as signs to walk away,
Calmly understand and forgive if you wish to stay
In love which Allah destined - true love for Allah's sake.
Listen then solve problems together when he berates.
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That you're in a prank show or social experiment,
Or your loyalty is being briefly examined,
Imagine when your other half grants disappointment,
Rather than reacting with quitting and impatience,
Respond with empathy, advice and supplications.
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His answers to your messages or calls were delayed?
His choice to dine with his colleagues makes you feel dismayed?
His closeness to his mother and sisters aggravates?
If you truly love your spouse, you'd have the strength to wait,
To fathom your soulmate's feelings and often grant space.
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Don't be needy and clingy, or the bond gets broken.
Allow him to miss you, so he values your presence.
Real love doesn't need attention twenty-four-seven.
Note: Love that's purely for Allah is everlasting.
A blessed marriage worth keeping leads to Jannah/Heaven.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1159
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi
Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."
Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātih 5/2125
📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best wealth is a tongue that remembers Allah, a grateful heart, and a believing wife to help one in his faith."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3094
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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