Wednesday, April 7, 2021

Poem: Tips To Cope With LDR And How To Keep Loving Your Husband For Allah's Sake While He Works In Another Country/City

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Five tips to cope as a faithful wife despite distance, 
To thrive as your husband's loyal soulmate with patience, 
To keep your love alive though you don't always see him, 
Whether his frequent absence is due to employment, 
Or with more than one wife he has lawful relations:
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One: Trust Allah. Believe you'll triumph through LDR, 
Your love can stay strong no matter how far you're apart 
Physically, but deeply you're within each other's hearts.
Grow stronger in love when you pray for one another, 
And remain in touch for Allah through loving Du'as.
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Two: The distress in missing your husband's sweet presence 
Isn't as distressing as not being wed to him. 
It's a blessing that this love was by Allah written 
And since you married with the sincerest intention, 
Your romance, with Allah's Will, can be everlasting.
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Three: This marriage is blessed, as it helps you get tougher 
In faith/Imaan through maintaining Sabr and Shukr. 
Aware that the tests in dunya aren't forever 
And other wives worldwide are also in LDR, 
You strive for Allah, as your man's lover, not quitter.
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Four: The miles between you and your husband don't lessen 
Your compassion for him, but rather it just strengthens 
Your loyalty for Allah with heartfelt commitment. 
Missing him inspires you to increase supplications, 
And in connecting with Allah you find contentment.
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Five: When certain couples flaunt their love for each other, 
You're moved to make your love for your spouse even deeper, 
Unwilling to quit on him, like a fierce go-getter, 
Eager for Allah's Love each time you practice Sabr, 
Praying you and your zawj enter Jannah together.
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Though anytime you can request for separation 
Specially when silent moments become worrisome, 
It's amazing how you choose to keep on loving him, 
Knowing that challenges on earth aren't permanent, 
And your love can't change, as it's real since the beginning.
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📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best wealth is a tongue that remembers Allah, a grateful heart, and a believing wife to help one in his faith."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3094
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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