💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
📜 Question: What are some signs indicating that a person (of the same gender) whose MBTI personality type is INTJ feels comfortable around you?
📝 Answer: You know that an INTJ feels comfortable in your presence, since they regard you as a good friend or loved one, when:
1] ...they don't budge, flinch or move away if you occasionally touch their arm, shoulder or upper back gently while talking to them, or if they sometimes offer you gentle pats on your shoulder, arm or upper back when speaking with you. If an INTJ is mostly aloof, distant and prefers to minimize or avoid shaking hands with you, they probably perceive you as a stranger.
2] ...they show you their more affectionate side, clarify to you their shortcomings, are capable of being extremely sympathetic toward you, become more talkative with you than with mere acquaintances, and/or ask you if they can hug you every now and then.
3] ...they often make effort to prolong online and face-to-face conversations with you. Instead of giving you very brief and terse answers, they try to ask you several questions to be better acquainted with you, no matter how random or weird their queries may sound.
4] ...they're able to behave playfully around you or find many of your jokes amusing.
5] ...whenever they feel the need, they reach out to request your advice on some issue, for your interpretation on a strange dream they've had recently, or for your opinion on something they're about to undertake.
❎ Some factors which could prevent many INTJs (and INFJs) from feeling at ease with you:
1] Being guilty of disappointing them and proving that you're so unreliable numerous times.
2] Showing unwarranted interest in discussing the lives of other individuals and partaking in futile gossip.
3] Making it obvious that you're somebody who obnoxiously judges people according to how they look on the surface and what kind of outfits they choose to wear.
4] Actually feeling uneasy and tense around them. Usually if you feel anxious, unpleasantly awkward or insecure around some INxJ types, they can sense your uneasiness and feel unrelaxed similarly.
5] Carrying negative feelings of jealousy or uncertainty regarding their values. It can be difficult to trust any person whose acts confirm they're so envious of you.
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📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi