Saturday, March 4, 2023

Note: What This INTJ Wife Admires About Her Dear ESFJ Husband

πŸ’ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
πŸ’Œ Nine noteworthy qualities which I truly admire about my dear husband whose MBTI personality type is ESFJ with enneagram 3w2: 
1] His efforts to become a better Muslim for Allah's sake every night and day, eager to frequently pray in the Masjid and recite several Ayaat / verses from the Noble Qur'an whenever he finds the beautiful opportunity to do so.
2] His steadfast care and concern for the well-being of his family and relatives. 
3] How he generally gives more importance to group harmony than acting selfishly, how he'd rather forgive from within and avoid conflict than constantly act like an argumentative and annoying git. 
4] How he's willing to offer some helpful tips when I ask him for advice and how he's remarkable at advising if he notices me doing something incorrectly or behaving inappropriately. 
5] How he's amazingly confident, charismatic and playful with infants and children. 
6] How much respect he shows to his mother, sisters and women in general, and how, unlike certain immature males with awfully low ambitions in life, he doesn't own a single fake profile to obnoxiously spy on and stalk female users online. 
7] His awesome culinary skills and how he's a much better chef than I am. 
8] How he encourages me to be more forgiving towards my brothers and loved ones, and how he inspires me to be more lenient and easygoing most of the time. 
9] His cute sense of humor and astounding ability to make me laugh even though I'm generally a serious type who doesn't giggle easily.
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πŸ“– Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whenever a woman asks her husband for a divorce without a strong reason, the fragrance of Paradise becomes forbidden for her."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 2226
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut
πŸ“– Jabir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, shaytan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations. One of them says: 'I have done this and this.' shaytan says: 'you have done nothing.' Another one says: 'I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife.' shaytan embraces him and he says: 'you have done well!'"
Source: Sahih Muslim 2813
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim