๐ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
๐ Seven (among countless) admirable things which my dear husband has done as an ESFJ 3w2 personality type:
1] Offering some sweets and candies to several young males after he carried out circumcision. His willingness to circumcize male Muslims for free. MashaAllah.
2] Being usually the one to cook and prepare our meals during the first weeks of our marriage, while I did the dishes near him and often set the table. To this day I acknowledge the fact that he's a much better chef than I try to be.
3] The cute disappointed look on his face when he tried his best to drive me to the residence of some Tausug acquaintances and it took him a long time trying to locate it until I later insisted that I'd walk to their house since it was just a few steps away.
4] His agreement to take an MBTI personality test when I requested him to and his patient listening or attentiveness when I quickly described what the ESFJ personality means.
5] His loving gestures whenever he sometimes feeds me with his right hand while he's enjoying a meal.
6] Washing by hand some of my niqaab and clothes and teaching me how to properly do laundry while here in the Philippines and once in Malaysia. Giving advice on how to do house chores instead of arrogantly criticizing.
7] Occasionally allowing and inviting some of the students to ride with him and his kids when driving to their neighborhood from school and oftentimes giving us random car rides when he isn't busy or in a rush to go someplace.
✅ Some qualities that are common among ESFJ types, if they are healthy and not insecure:
➡️ It brings them joy whenever they succeed in being helpful and generous.
➡️ At times a lot of them are capable of sensing or accurately guessing how an individual is actually feeling, and if that loved one or stranger isn't in a good mood the ESFJ too can experience the same sentiment.
➡️ In general ESFJs can either be very talkative or quiet, humourous or serious, fully engaged or somewhat reserved depending on the circumstances and purpose. To get along with an ESFJ, display genuine care that is not only restricted for them but also demonstrate empathy to their family.
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๐ Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best of you are the best to their women."
Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 1978
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
๐ Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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