π In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
π️ Three usual instances when an individual with the INTJ personality type can become very indifferent or unconcerned:
1] When an INTJ contentedly feels indifferent to jumping on the bandwagon: Just because a lot of celebrities or social media influencers follow a particular trend or buy certain products which are high in demand, most INTJs would remain unimpressed and unwilling to participate in something which conflicts with their strongly held values.
2] When they unapologetically abstain from nosily stalking the accounts of users who "ghosted" them or excluded them from specific gatherings: If some individuals refused to invite or reconcile with an INTJ, don't expect that INTJ to stalk your online posts (so you can keep the cowardly passive-aggressive remarks and uploads to yourself since they won't bother scrutinizing them) nor watch videos (or random "vlogs") on YouTube and elsewhere which are related to the event you wrongly assumed they'd be "missing out" on.
3] When they're genuinely uninterested in absorbing content irrelevant to their goals and when they gladly desist from feeling negatively affected by people's criticism: You claimed that an INTJ is such and such? They'll probably acknowledge the fact that your disrespectful acts are a confirmation of your intense jealousy or they could guess you're struggling from severe sorrow due to your enormous load of insecurities.
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π Ali Ibn Husayn RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, part of perfection in Islam is for a person to leave what does not concern him."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2318
Grade: Sahih li ghayri (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
π Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith (Imaan)."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
Al-Azimabadi said, “That he hates for the sake of Allah does not mean he harms the one he hates. Rather, the hatred is for his unbelief and disobedience.”
Source: ‘Awn al-Ma’būd 4681
π Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Love whom you love moderately, perhaps he will become hateful to you someday. Hate whom you hate moderately, perhaps he will become your beloved friend someday."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1997
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani