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💚 Seventeen questions to avoid asking your husband to avoid unnecessary drama and preventable arguments:
1❎ "Do you really love me?"
2❎ "Who do you love more - me? Or your mother?"
3❎ "Whose cooking do you enjoy more - your mother's? Or mine?"
4❎ "Tell the truth, do you ever think about remarrying?" Or "Do you have plans on having a second wife?"
5❎ "Do you think she's pretty?" Or "Who's prettier - me? Or that woman?"
6❎ "On a scale of one to ten - how beautiful am I? Be honest!"
7❎ "Which female celebrity do you want me to look more like?"
8❎ "Who do you love more - me? Or your sister/sisters?" Or "Am I prettier than your sisters? Or do you find them better-looking than me?"
9❎ "Do you ever regret our marriage?"
10❎ "Do you feel jealous whenever I talk to non-mahram males?"
11❎ "Be as frank as you can - are you a lot happier being married or single?" Or "Do you ever wish you're still single so you have less responsibilities?"
12❎ "Are you sure you don't have another cellphone which you secretly use to communicate with non-mahram women?"
13❎ "How come you never react to any of my Facebook posts?" Or "Why won't you comment on my social media posts more regularly?"
14❎ "Who do you enjoy spending quality time with more often - your male friends or me?"
15❎ "Why do you spend more time with your male friends / brothers than with me? Are we married or what?"
16❎ "Why do you always arrive late?"
17❎ "Can you please have a makeover so you appear more handsome like this male celebrity?"
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1159
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi
Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."
Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātih 5/2125
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 4252
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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