Monday, August 14, 2023

Poem: Advice To Female Students Who Sometimes Deal With Sad "Mean Girls"

πŸ’ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

πŸ“ Quick advice to female students and those in their teens
Who sometimes deal with jealous girls who love acting mean
Or corrupt bullies who often make them feel "unseen":
Don't be saddened by sad clowns. Don't wish to join their team
Of lousy actors who are unhappy from within.
~•~
Know that their silly efforts to spoil your self-esteem
Stem from their sorrow due to their insecurities
And extreme jealousy of your real inner beauty.
They resent how you're superior to them morally
And despise the fact they're destroyed emotionally -
~•~
Emotionally destroyed by their intense envy
Of how you surpass them in manners, integrity,
Sincerity in striving to please Allah Only,
In being blessed with parents who want you to succeed
In both worlds, and in behaving better gracefully.
~•~
They're like uncivilized baboons or disturbed monkeys
Desperate to steal food from picnickers. Ugly greed
Compels them to treat people so disrespectfully.
So greedy for your attention, they try to mistreat
You to appease their threatened ego and misery.
~•~
Wherever you go, these bullies suffer inwardly
From envious feelings because your maturity
And gracious character make them feel like tiny beasts
Clearly angry that you're better than them morally.
They're jealous, that's for sure - don't absorb their misery.
~•~
For Allah's sake ignore their bad acting and gladly
Avoid them online and offline when you must, and be
Fiercely indifferent to their lies and fakery.
Be like an independent queen walking past dry leaves
That can't affect your strong faith/Imaan and self-esteem.
~•~
πŸ“– Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah (The Almighty), hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith (Imaan)."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
πŸ“– Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is one who is trusted by the people. The Muslim is one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe (not guilty of backbiting, telling lies, and deliberately committing injustice). The emigrant (muhaajir) is one who emigrates away from evil. By the One (Allah the Almighty) in Whose Hand is my soul, a servant will not enter Paradise if his neighbor is not secure from his harm."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 515
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut
πŸ“– Abu Dharr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Fear Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) wherever you are, follow a bad deed with a good deed and it will erase it, and behave well with good character towards the people."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1987
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to At-Tirmidhi
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