Tuesday, December 19, 2023

Poem: There's Always A Reason Why Allah The Most Wise Doesn't Want Certain Friendships To Continue

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
✅ It's a blessing in disguise to gladly leave behind 
Five kinds of ex-friends who shouldn't be part of your life: 
The arrogant and misguided who despise advice 
While their ugly pride makes them assume they're always "right". 
Mostly drama is produced from these deluded types.
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Two: Immature "adults" who act like a bratty child, 
And they expect you to comply with their wants and likes - 
These narcissists don't deserve to be part of your life 
If they're experts at demanding only what they like, 
There's no connection; it's one-sided - avoid these types.
~•~
Three: If they're older than you yet it's clear they're unwise, 
Deprived of good manners, and whenever they decide
They let feelings control them and let their values slide. 
Respect yourself enough to stay detached from their plight. 
Stress often arises from wasting time with these types.
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Four: For Allah's sake as well wave to these clowns goodbye -
Those obsessed with irony and enjoy telling lies, 
Not taking their faith seriously, they fail to inspire 
You to be a better Muslim - they're like futile flies 
Whose absence brings forth peace and presence is not worthwhile.
Be kind to yourself through caution when nearby these types.
~•~
Five: Those guilty of more than one trait which uglify
One's morals - reentry to your life must be denied.
Sometimes when Allah wants you closer to Paradise, 
Allah may remove some souls to shield you from their vice.
No regret. Thank Allah for such blessing in disguise.
~•~ 
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Love whom you love moderately, perhaps he will become hateful to you someday. Hate whom you hate moderately, perhaps he will become your beloved friend someday."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1997
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is not stung twice from the same hole."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5782
Sahih Muslim 2998
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi