💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Friendship with so-and-so can never ever take place
If Allah doesn't want it, it's not part of your fate,
If one envies the other despite fake smiles displayed,
And if Allah planned that they'd depart on a fixed date.
They're for real - brief friendships that gradually dissipate.
~•~
You can't force yourself to like someone whose temperament,
Conduct and interests are from yours too different.
Just as cooking oil and clear water can't nicely blend,
You and conflicting strangers can never become friends,
Specially if connecting with them wasn't destined.
~•~
Hence if you got unfriended by someone recently,
If some blocked you and you're like "that's right, don't bother me."
And you can't keep convos going with jealous colleagues,
Or you clash with some folks though you've known their names for years,
Move on, and patiently accept Qadr/Destiny.
~•~
The right souls whom Allah chose for you specifically,
Whose passion to improve match your drive and energy,
Who aren't intimidated by your piety,
And whose goals to serve Allah align with yours smoothly,
Have already been decreed. Trust Allah. Don't worry.
~•~
Feel absolutely nothing when foes show enmity
And when temporary company decide to leave.
Maintain a pure heart and aim to please Allah Only,
Aware that Allah's Prophets also had enemies.
So long as we cling to Allah, we're not "incomplete".
~•~
📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith (Imaan)."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
Al-Azimabadi said, “That he hates for the sake of Allah does not mean he harms the one he hates. Rather, the hatred is for his unbelief and disobedience.”
Source: ‘Awn al-Ma’būd 4681
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Love whom you love moderately, perhaps he will become hateful to you someday. Hate whom you hate moderately, perhaps he will become your beloved friend someday."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1997
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are like conscripted soldiers. They come together upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109
Sahih Muslim 2638
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