Monday, October 30, 2023

Poem: Don't Let Toxic People Turn You Into One Of Them

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
📝 Toxic people are like the sneeze; as soon as they leave, 
We should say "Alhamdulillah", and move on gladly 
Far away from analyzing their stupidity. 
Don't let their disappointment with themselves bring you grief 
Nor decrease your self-esteem due to their misery.
~•~
They're like silly ads promoting unnecessary
Toys which are not in line with our values and beliefs. 
Toxic people are like small dust particles, dead leaves 
And tiny pieces of torn paper which are empty - 
Their lame insults mean nothing but reflect them, really.
~•~
While we can't stop advertisements from regularly
Showing up and being obnoxious repeatedly, 
We can, with Allah's Will, skip silly ads willfully, 
Avoid them as much as we can, and relentlessly
Stay unaffected by how they're ugly inwardly.
~•~
Yes, they're abhorrent, with all that restless jealousy, 
Their awful narcissism and loud idiocy. 
Each time they act out due to their insecurities, 
Remain strong for Allah's sake, and with clear bravery, 
Refuse to be bothered by their sheer stupidity.
~•~
📖 Suhayb RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Amazing is the affair of the believer, as there is good for him in every matter. This is not the case for anyone but for the (true Muslim) believer. If he goes through ease (or happy moments), he thanks Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) and it is good for him. If he goes through difficulty, he shows patience (for Allah's sake) and it is good for him."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2999
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah (the Almighty), and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

Saturday, October 28, 2023

Note: INTJs - From The Most Introverted Of Introverts - They Care About The Quality Not Quantity Of Friends

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

🗒️ Seven things which could happen when you've become one of the few close friends of an INTJ Muslim: 
1. A lot of your problems integrate with their lists of problems to solve. They'd do whatever they can for Allah's sake to help you with your struggles even if their concern involves offering sincere advice, frequently checking your well-being, or wholeheartedly mentioning your name in many of their loving Du'as / supplications / prayers. 
2. If you're managing a halal business and own a number of Facebook pages, they'd do what they can for Allah's sake to support you, grant reactions to some of your online posts, and regularly recommend a lot of your products to others without necessarily being evident about how genuinely supportive they are. 
3. They'd try their best for Allah's sake to develop their approachability with the individuals who matter to you and maintain courtesy with them instead of remaining distant, mysterious or indifferent to your loved ones. 
4. Whenever they find the opportunity to share something or be more generous, you'll usually witness them giving you freebies, gifts or snacks without expecting anything in return from you. This is an extremely rare occurrence if there's no actual connection between you two.
5. As long as they're not preoccupied with other tasks and responsibilities, plus the internet speed in their area is not unstable, they are generally quick to answer your emails and messages rather than consistently delaying in responding or not even bothering to open the conversation thread (since it's typical for most INTJs to refuse to pay attention to negative whiners, envious gossipers and inauthentic people). 
6. When an INTJ truly cares about you, they'll invite you on a regular basis to join them in attending Islamic lectures or gatherings which they believe are of value, or send links to several articles, websites and educative or motivational videos that they hope can benefit you one way or another.
7. When an INTJ regards you as a real friend, not merely an acquaintance or coworker, you'll notice how they're surprisingly patient, forgiving and lenient or easygoing towards you compared to dozens of other individuals whom they're eager to avoid whenever possible. Also from time to time they may go out of their way to ask if they can visit you and seldom overreact when you postpone or cancel plans to meet up (on very rare occasions).
~•~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The Mufarridun (the isolated or those who like to isolate themselves) have gone ahead (in gaining rewards)." He was asked, "Who are the Mufarridun?" He Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam replied, "Those men and women who remember Allah much."
[Sahih Muslim]
Arabic/English book reference: Book 16, Hadith 1436 
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his best friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi 
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are troops collected together. They come close upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109
Sahih Muslim 2638
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 

Friday, October 27, 2023

Poem: Immature Guys Lack Good Ethics And Values

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
📝 A good Muslim husband isn't an immature guy - 
A little boy behaving like a girl who's disguised
As a male adult whose huge ego exceeds his height, 
Since the weight of his values is zero he's unwise
And lives much of his lifetime acting like a bored spy - 
~•~
Nosily spying on strangers online and offline, 
Watching pointless vlogs, not doing anything worthwhile
But like a jealous female he envies others' lives, 
While plotting to cause trouble nearly each day and night - 
He lacks ethics and ambition - this immature guy.
~•~
Quick to laugh at people's mistakes, this immature guy  
Is emotionally disturbed and empty inside. 
His foolishness can't be denied when he often fights 
With women like he's controlled by despicable pride. 
He's guilty of ugly manners - this immature guy.
~•~
Remind your husband to not be that immature guy 
Who never bothers to learn Islam but wastes his time 
On nonsense and earning sins which could spoil his next life. 
A guy is immature and so ugly from inside 
When most donkeys are more decent than him and his lies.
~•~
📖 Abu Dharr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Fear Allah (The Almighty) wherever you are, follow a bad deed with a good deed and it will erase it, and behave well with good character towards the people."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1987
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to At-Tirmidhi
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "I enjoin you to treat women well, for the woman was created from a rib and the most curved part of the rib is its highest point. If you try to straighten it, you will break it. If you leave it as it is, it will remain bent. Thus, I enjoin you to be good to women."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3153, Sahih Muslim 1468
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Note: Are All INTJs Always Arrogant?

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
🗒️ Question: A lot of individuals with the INTJ personality type seem very "arrogant", "unapproachable", "scary", "intimidating" or "snobby" while arrogance usually signifies that a stuck-up individual is insecure. In what ways do you, as an INTJ-A, display humility instead of "arrogance"?
📝 Answer: Allah the Almighty knows best. Many individuals may view most INTJs as "arrogant" because generally we: 
1. Are not afraid of speaking the truth and pointing out what needs to be rectified or corrected. 
2. Remain indifferent regarding people's opinions and assumptions about us. 
3. Stay unaffected when we can sense how certain people dispise us, while we are not bothered at all whenever we receive animosity, criticism or negative remarks online and offline.
4. Display absolute indifference when a number of individuals frequently exclude us from their artificial, pretentious or aimless gatherings while denying their undeniable envy, toxicity and insecurities.
5. Enjoy selecting my close friends cautiously and filtering out the inauthentic, unsupportive or incompatible ones when necessary. 
~•~
🌻 How I as an INTJ-A 1w9 can appear and behave more humbly at times, when I: 
1. Acknowledge my fault and mistakes then directly apologize to the person whom I've unintentionally or unknowingly offended. 
2. Try my best for Allah's sake to avoid all sorts of debts, ensuring that I, as much as possible, don't owe any human being anything.
3. Deliberately refrain from taking part in futile gossip and nonsensical debates. 
4. Gladly distance myself from those who fail to reciprocate my attempts to get to know them better and they make it obvious that they're too terrified to connect or they lack integrity.
5. For Allah's sake dismiss and want nothing to do with content and people whose goals, values or temperament immensely differ from mine yet showing readiness or willingness to learn from others if what they can teach can bring me closer to self-development.
6. Unapologetically desist from acting like an obnoxious and inwardly miserable bully.
7. Don't bother altering any aspect about my attitude and personality if I know or firmly believe that I'm not intentionally trying to disrupt anybody's peace. 
8. Refuse to judge people according to their looks and financial status.
9. Return favors and gifts often whenever I'm able to do so rather than treating a connection as though it's one-sided. 
~•~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Charity does not decrease wealth, no one forgives another but that Allah (The Almighty) increases his honor, and no one humbles himself for the sake of Allah but that Allah (Subhanaahu wa Ta'aala) raises his status."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2588
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 
📖 Abdullah Ibn Mas'ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No one who has the weight of a seed of arrogance (atom's weight of kibr / blameworthy pride) in his heart will enter Paradise." A man said, “But a man likes to have nice clothes and nice shoes.” The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) is Beautiful and He loves beauty. Arrogance is to disregard (or reject) the truth and to look down on the people."
Source: Sahih Muslim 91
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim  

Tuesday, October 24, 2023

Note: What I As An INTJ-A Have Learned From Some MBTI Personality Types

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
📑 Some advice or lessons which we can learn Alhamdulillah from some of the 16 MBTI personality types - from an INTJ: 
1. INFJ - Trust Allah the Almighty always while listening to your intuition without allowing emotions and people's perceptions to negatively influence decision making.
~•~ 
2. ENFJ - The size of a person's social circle doesn't necessarily determine their worth. Just because an individual is carefully selective concerning their choice of close friends it does not mean that they are "lonely" nor concealing bad intentions.
~•~
3. ESFJ and ISFJ - Regularly talking about other people or discussing personal matters isn't reliable evidence that they're special to you. Oftentimes one way to prove that your affection for somebody is true is by respecting their privacy and refusing to disclose sensitive information, particularly if such info actually has nothing to do with you. 
~•~
4. ISTJ - While it's an admirable trait to be organized and diligent, there are occasional moments when it is wiser or way more efficient to try being lenient and flexible.
~•~
5. ESTJ and ENTJ - While it's a positive thing to focus on obtaining results, completing tasks and accomplishing goals, make sure that your deliberate choice at times to disregard some individuals' sensitivity does not compromise your values nor conflict with your beliefs.
~•~
6. ENFP and INFP - While being creative or very imaginative can make you an interesting individual to work with (for some), don't allow excessive hope and yearning for a wide range of possibilities to cause you to become delusional or distracted from the main goal, theme, plan, purpose or idea. 
~•~
7. ISTP and INTP - Never assume that everybody whom Allah the Most Wise decrees you'll meet on earth already knows and comprehends all your thoughts and expectations. There are instances when you need to be clear and more vocal about them if you wish to see more outcomes than wishful thinking. In my opinion, it's okay to remind and emphasize one's instructions even if many may find the reminders superfluous or "annoying".
~•~
8. ESFP and ESTP - While being observant, alert and attentive to details are helpful qualities most of the time, not every single person, thing and online content always deserves your full attention. Know what and who to avoid for Allah's sake. In order to thrive or succeed
Inn-sha-Allah as a Muslim, ensure that your choices and overall conduct don't mislead you into acting like an irrational bully (some ExTPs) due to an offended ego.
~•~
9. ISFP - Sometimes what you want and desire isn't beneficial or for your own good in both worlds. Realize (to some ISFPs who selfishly care more about their wants than the consequences of their actions) that intentional stupidity, stubborn ignorance and unreasonable self-entitlement are not attractive at all.
~•~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah (The Almighty) than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 
📝 MBTI and cognitive functions test with more accurate results:

Monday, October 23, 2023

Poem: Some Tips On Dealing With Those Who Mistreat You Due To "Religious Arrogance"

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
🗒️ If I were asked "How would you deal with someone older 
Acting arrogant and "religiously superior" 
And clearly towards you they display ugly manners? 
They exclude you often, loathe it when you've got answers, 
And scowl when you've got some knowledge to share with others?"
~•~
I'd say: Avoid them for Allah's sake. Maintain Sabr. 
Following their Facebook timelines don't even bother. 
If they've got uploads on YouTube don't watch them either. 
Sly and spiteful words from them likewise mustn't matter. 
They lack inner peace with all that envy and rancor.
~•~
If they were truly contented, enriched with Sabr 
And strong faith Imaan distanced them from foul character, 
You wouldn't notice them disclosing ugly manners, 
And doubting your motives is not something they're after 
Daily, so you wonder if they're guilty of kibr -
~•~
...the kind of kibr which makes their eyes roll whenever
You ask questions, have some knowledge to share with others, 
Or correct and advise them when they're caught with errors - 
Wretched pride which compels them to presume "Whatever. 
Only I should speak. I'm religiously much better."
~•~
Whether they're sad, jealous or inwardly insecure, 
Know that Allah shall deal with them in the hereafter. 
Them being a lot older doesn't mean they're wiser. 
Wise people don't let feelings spoil values and manners. 
Rude souls train us to not copy their bad behaviors.
~•~
📖 Abdullah Ibn Mas'ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No one who has the weight of a seed (or atom) of arrogance in his heart will enter Paradise." Someone said, "But a man loves to have beautiful clothes and shoes." The beloved Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah (The Almighty) is Beautiful and He (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) loves beauty. Arrogance means rejecting the truth and looking down on the people."
In another narration, the noble Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No one who has the weight of a seed of faith (Imaan) in his heart will enter Hellfire."
Source: Sahih Muslim 91
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

Saturday, October 21, 2023

Note: When An INTJ Cancels Attending An Event Or Meeting

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
🗒️ Question: When would most INTJs cancel attending a gathering or online meeting (via Google Meet, Zoom etc.)?
📝 Answer: 1. When they've figured out, with Allah's Will and guidance from Him Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala, after thorough evaluation and reflective analysis, that staying in or doing something else is a wiser choice and more worthwhile alternative to unwillingly attending a social event or meeting, particularly if a number of the attendees include individuals whom the INTJs reasonably despise or simply won't trust. 
2. When they are so busy and preoccupied with several tasks which the INTJs affirm are more important than socializing begrudgingly or sincerely attempting to act artificial.
3. When they realize that attending such social event or online meeting is actually a lousy idea while they can visualize all the probable problematic outcomes which could result from mingling reluctantly with incompatible strangers whose integrity and background are undoubtedly questionable. 

🌼 Adjectives that would describe an INTJ who unapologetically decides to cancel going to a cheesy social event or attending an irrelevant online meeting?
Indifferent, relieved, unaffected, contented, accomplished, triumphant, victorious, impressed (by their willful decision to stay in), or Alhamdulillah grateful.
~•~
📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala), hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith (Imaan)."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to An-Nawawi
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase 'if only' opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

Monday, October 16, 2023

Poem: It's Not A Big Deal If You Got Deleted From A Group Chat

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

📝 Some tips from an INTJ on what you can say 
To yourself if you found out you got kicked out one day
From a group chat with members who don't want you to stay, 
So you can move on confidently without dismay, 
Far away from fakery, toxic vibes and false claims: 
~•~
"They deleted you from that group? So what? It's okay - 
For behaving like real bullies and pals who are fake, 
And for partaking in gossip or deranged debates 
The pointless group's members are not at all being paid.
Their lies and absolute nonsense won't enhance your faith. 
~•~
So don't fret about why they didn't want you to stay. 
You're like a diamond often abandoned by snakes, 
A treasure chest with pearls in the middle of a bay 
But some clowns don't know your value so they walk away, 
And "pirates" who evade you just dress up for cosplay.
~•~
Don't question your self-worth. You can't force people to change 
Nor urge them to connect if your goals are not the same. 
They're insecure; you're confident. You're honest; they're fake. 
In building true friendship there's no way if that's the case.
You're pro self-improvement; they'd rather deteriorate.
~•~
They're obsessed with gossip and mocking people's mistakes; 
You love minding your own business and thrive in your lane. 
You display integrity; fakes you intimidate. 
It's a blessing actually to be dismissed by fakes. 
Your time in detecting their motives they kindly saved."
~•~
📖 Suhayb RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Amazing is the affair of the believer, as there is good for him in every matter. This is not the case for anyone but for the believer. If he goes through ease (or happy moments), he thanks Allah and it is good for him. If he goes through difficulty, he shows patience and it is good for him."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2999
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 
📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is one who is trusted by the people. The Muslim is one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe (not guilty of backbiting, telling lies, and knowingly committing injustice). The emigrant (muhaajir) is one who emigrates away from evil. 
By the One (Allah the Almighty) in Whose Hand is my soul, a servant will not enter Paradise if his neighbor is not secure from his harm."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 515 
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: 'Allah has decreed what He wills.' Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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Friday, October 13, 2023

Note: The More You Love Your Husband The More You Think Of Him And Include Him In Your Du'as

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
💚 Eleven thoughts which you as a Muslim wife may often think of and relate to when missing your husband who's busy with work, employed in a different city or if you're in a polygynous marriage:- 
1. "I wonder how my dear husband is doing at this time. Is he asleep or awake?" 💭 
2. "Alhamdulillah I woke up early for Salat Al-Fajr today. I hope my husband already prayed." 💭
3. "Alhamdulillah, nice weather this morning. I wonder what the atmosphere is like where my dear hubby is, and if he's sleeping right now or wide awake?" 💭
4. "This food/drink is something which my husband would really like. I wish he was here so we could enjoy this meal together." 💭 
5. "Washing the dishes, doing the laundry and cooking are good opportunities for me to think of my dear husband and reminisce about all the amazing experiences we've enjoyed." 💭 
6. "Alhamdulillah, instead of feeling jealous and insecure whenever I notice couples demonstrating their love for one another publicly, the deep-seated loyalty I have for my beloved husband and genuine appreciation for him only increase." 💭
7. "This reminds of that time when my dear husband also........... I wish I could rewind that memorable instance again." 💭
8. "My husband would definitely love this... I wish he were here with me." 💭
9. "Alhamdulillah I'm truly contented staying married to my dear husband. In so many ways he has been such a blessing and an inspiration to me." 💭
10. "I miss my dear husband's Qur'an recitation voice. Listening to him recite is one of the main sources of inner peace. I wish he was here with me."  💭 
11. "Every time I hear somebody calling the Adhan, it reminds me of how my husband's Adhan voice is so much better and more comforting. In Jannah Paradise 
Inn-sha-Allah I look forward to spending the rest of my life with him." 💭
~•~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts the month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter (Jannah) Paradise from any gate she wishes."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibban 4252
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani 
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife." 
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A woman is married for four things: her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman otherwise you will be a loser."
Sahih Al-Bukhari 5090
In-book reference: Book 67 Hadith 28
USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 27
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Saturday, October 7, 2023

Note: Seven Signs That Your Dear Husband Is An Awesome Father To Your Child/Children

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
💚 Seven signs that your husband tries his best to be a good father to your child/children even if he is very busy with work and other responsibilities:- 
1. He tries his best to pray the obligatory Salahs/prayers in the Masjid, especially Salat Al-Fajr and Salat Al-Jumuah, regularly. [✓]
2. He does what he can to wake his family and child/children up for Salah, particularly Salat Al-Fajr, despite his tiredness and sleepiness. [✓]
3. As much as possible he ensures that his income is halal and none of his earnings comes from haraam sources - he never goes near wealth which is knowingly stolen. He does what he can to ensure that all his debts are paid on time. [✓]
4. He shows support and encouragement for his child/children whenever he can, frequently encouraging them to attend Islamic classes and loves it when he notices the enthusiasm of his loved ones to join him in learning more about Islam. [✓]
5. He tries his best to be an effective listener, educator and counselor with noteworthy empathy to both his wife (or multiple wives) and child/children regardless of his frequent busyness, eager to instil upright character and excellent manners in them also by striving to set a good example. [✓]
6. He is remarkable at joking and being charismatically playful with his wife (or multiple wives) and child/children, intelligently understanding when to take certain matters seriously and when to lighten up. He is a compassionate giver and receiver of warm hugs and reassuring words. [✓]
7. He strives for Allah's sake to be protective of his wife (or wives) and child/children, ensuring the safety of their overall well-being including their spiritual wellness in terms of their faith/Imaan. These negative adjectives "arrogant", "selfish", "unprincipled", "immature" and "egocentric" do not describe him at all. [✓]
~•~
📖 Abdullah Ibn Umar RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock. The leader of the people is a guardian and is responsible for his subjects. A man is the guardian of his family and he is responsible for them. A woman is the guardian of her husband's home and his children, and she is responsible for them. The servant of a man is a guardian of the property of his master and he is responsible for it. No doubt, every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6719
Sahih Muslim 1829
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "The most complete of believers in faith are those with the best character, and the best of you are the best in behavior towards their women."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1162
Grade: Sahih 

Note: Seriously How Can You Tell That An INTJ Loves You? When They're Forgiving And Enjoy Chatting With You

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
📝 If you're wondering how would most INTJs prove 
Their genuine care without declaring "I love you", 
Observe the following, you know that their love is true 
When they gaze at you directly while speaking to you
And rather than glaring they'll attempt to smile or soothe.
~•~
Be certain that an INTJ by choice loves you
When they're able to withstand all silly things you do 
At times, they don't mind your late replies, and they're amused 
By corny jokes you share, and the trials you go through
Amplify their loyalty and sympathy for you.
~•~
They won't ditch you quickly, when INTJs love you. 
If you've spoiled a chapter many times, they'll start anew - 
Rewinding the story, loving each journey with you, 
Wanting you to not quit since they won't give up on you. 
Projects with a purpose aren't easily eschewed.
~•~
When an INTJ enjoys conversing with you, 
Asking random questions about yourself, what you do, 
And curiously inquiring about your current moods, 
You can tell they're contented with connecting with you,
Counting you as a friend if they often defend you. 
~•~
Instead of seeming too serious, quiet and aloof, 
INTJs would adjust themselves when they love you, 
Patiently wait for you to catch up, hope you'll improve, 
And cherish your value with resolute gratitude. 
They're choosy; so it's fine if they're loved by very few.
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📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah (The Almighty), hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith (Imaan)."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
Al-Azimabadi said, “That he hates for the sake of Allah does not mean he harms the one he hates. Rather, the hatred is for his unbelief and (bad character) disobedience.”
Source: ‘Awn al-Ma’būd 4681
📖 Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu said: "A righteous companion is better than loneliness, and loneliness is better than an evil companion. A writer is better than one silent, and one silent is better than an evil writer."
Source: Rawdat Al-‘Uqalā 5

Thursday, October 5, 2023

Links: Islamic PDF "The Four Foundations Of Shirk" English Translation

📂 Islamic PDF document English translation of the book on "the four foundations of shirk / polytheism" - original book in Arabic language written by sheikh Muhammad Ibn AbdulWahhab and explanation by sheikh Salih ibn Fawzan ibn Abdullah Al-Fawzan, May Allah the Most Merciful have mercy on them, accept their good deeds and make them and all of us among the people of Jannatul Ferdaus with Allah's Mercy. Ameen. 
(as sadaqa jaariyah, document not for sale):