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๐ Five things which many INTJs can't resist doing when they truly care about you and like you for Allah's sake as a friend or loved one (if they do at least three of these, they regard you as a friend, not just an acquaintance or uninteresting stranger):
1] They deliberately find ways to prolong most of their conversations with you online and face to face, to the point of interviewing you enthusiastically with totally random questions about yourself because they're actually interested in improving the connection.
2] They frequently browse through your Facebook status updates, at least once every two weeks (instead of never visiting again ever since discovering your timeline/page/profile), and they're genuinely curious about what you can contribute. Plus points if they post some encouraging comments on a lot of your posts whenever they aren't busy.
3] They seldom complain about your delayed responses. Your act of leaving some of their messages on "seen" mode doesn't affect them at all negatively, because they understand how you can get preoccupied with other tasks and responsibilities at times. When an INTJ is deeply concerned about your well-being for Allah's sake, they're amazingly patient with you and forgive your shortcomings easily.
4] Without hesitancy, they're capable of defending you, verbally and physically, in both your presence and absence. If an INTJ quickly goes out of their way to ensure you don't feel awkward, embarrassed and uncomfortable during any meeting or large gathering, despite being an introvert, take that as a clear sign that their affection for you is 100% certain (authentic, not questionable).
5] At least once a year or every five months, they make the first move in asking if they can visit you, or if they occasionally share with you some links to a number of online Islamic lectures, or they eagerly invite you to join them for an outing etc.
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๐ Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith (Imaan)."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
๐ Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: A bedouin asked the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam “When is the Hour?” The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “What have you prepared for it?” The man said, “Love for Allah and His Messenger (SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam).” The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "You will be with those whom you love."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3435
Sahih Muslim 2639
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are like conscripted soldiers. They come together upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109
Sahih Muslim 2638
