Just Sharing Islam // Notes, poetry etc.: December 2020

Thursday, December 31, 2020

Poem: The Importance Of Lowering Your Gaze When Necessary

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Developing feelings or crushes starts with a look,

An intent stare at a person whom you think looks good,

Whose captivating qualities got your heart all hooked.

Infatuation wouldn't rise if you never looked,

Or if you lowered your gaze, like every Muslim should.

~•~

The first glance is allowed. Notice there's a non-mahram.

Talk to them briefly and only if it's important.

Look the other way. Don't examine their appearance.

Avoid staring so you're unable to imagine

What it would be like if you were smooching or dating.

~•~

Lower your gaze even if they aren't good-looking,

To evade heartbreaks and prevent zina from rising,

Whether single or married, whether man or woman.

Lowering one's gaze - one signature of tough Muslims

Who yearn for Allah's Love and have strength to leave passions.

~•~

Note: Reminder to recite Surah Al-Kahf every Jumuah Friday and include the Muslim Ummah in your Du'as.

📖 Mu’awiyah ibn Haydah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "Three eyes will not see the Hellfire: An eye standing guard in the Way of Allah, an eye weeping from fear of Allah, and an eye lowering its gaze from what Allah has forbidden."

Source: Al-Mu’jam Al-Kabīr 16375

Grade: Sahih li ghayrihi according to Al-Albani

📖 Buraydah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do not follow one glance at a woman with another. Verily, you have the first one and not the second."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2777

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Albani

📖 Ibn 'Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: Al-Fadl was riding with the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam and a woman from Khash’am came. Al-Fadl began to stare at her and she stared at him. The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam made Al-Fadl turn his face in the other direction.

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 1442

Sahih Muslim 1334

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Sa'eed Al-Khudri RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of loitering in the roads." They said, “O Messenger of Allah, we have nowhere else to sit and talk.” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If you insist, then give the road its rights." They said, “What are its rights, O Messenger of Allah?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Lower the gaze, refrain from harm, return greetings of peace, enjoin good, and forbid evil."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 2333

Sahih Muslim 2121

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Jarir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: I asked the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam about accidentally glancing at a woman. The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam ordered me to look the other way.

Source: Sahih Muslim 2159

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 Abdullah ibn Mas’ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "O young men, if you are able to support a wife, get married. Verily, it lowers the gaze and guards chastity. Whoever is not able to do so, he must fast as it will discipline his desires."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 1806

Sahih Muslim 1400

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Poem: Three Life Lessons Learned From Year 2020

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Three lessons learned from the stressful year 2020

To remind myself and others, with Allah's Mercy:

One: From noticing how most care for themselves mostly,

Concerned for their well-being and overall safety,

I recall how most may react with "Nafsee, nafsee",

~•~

"Myself, myself" when the Day of Judgment is revealed,

When humans worry about the outcome of their deeds.

So whatever you do, do it for Allah Only,

Unaffected by people's insults and mockery.

Every human deals with their own insecurities.

~•~

Two: From being enforced for some time to stay indoors,

To "social distance" and minimize going outdoors,

I recall the state of those buried under earth's floors.

Allah knows best. Good souls may be resting with rewards,

While others are chastised for the wrongs they did before.

~•~

Some from their houses busied themselves with wrongdoings

That ruined them like sexting, scamming and gossiping.

Others benefited from quarantine by learning,

Studying Islam and attending online meetings.

All humans have freewill. Goals and works are different.

~•~

Three: I've learned that the more you strive to be with Allah,

The more He guides you and you're resistant to fitna.

The more often you read the Qur'an, perform Salah,

Share something for Allah's sake, say Dhikr and Du'a,

The more you forget earth's chaos, preferring Jannah.

~•~

Despite the many protests and rants around the globe,

Avoidance and grudges from incompatible souls,

Foes slandering you, some loved ones leaving you ignored,

And the battles with toxic moods like "bored" or "alone",

You calm yourself knowing that Jannah is our real home.

~•~

So relax and trust Allah. As days and nights go by,

With more trials piling up, remember: Paradise.

Allah grants wealth to whom He chooses from humankind,

While Allah sends challenges to those He truly likes,

So we're fit for Jannah after we've been purified.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam recited this verse, "On that day, the earth will tell its stories," (Surah Az-Zalzalah 99:4) and he said, "Do you know what are its stories?" They said, "Allah and His Messenger know best." The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, its stories are that it will bear witness (testify) against every male servant and female servant to what they did on its surface, saying this person did such on such a day. These are its stories."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3353

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Tirmidhi

📖 Ibn 'Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Take advantage of five before five: Your youth before your old age, your health before your illness, your riches before your poverty, your free time before your work, and your life before your death."

Source: Shu’ab Al-Imān 9575

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.’ Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

Wednesday, December 30, 2020

Poem: Tips On How To Stay In Love With Your Husband

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 New lessons learned in marriage and tips to stay in love:

No matter where your husband goes and how far apart

You are from each other at times, you remain in touch

Through each other's frequent thoughts, dreams and loving Du'as.

~•~

Not seeing him as often as you'd want can be hard,

But recalling the rewards of patience keeps you tough,

And living as your husband's loyal wife is enough

To keep you contented. You're not with those who give up.

~•~

I've learned that when you love Allah more than your husband,

You can deal with your soulmate's absence with sweet patience,

Disappointments and frustrations can't make you question

Your marriage. Instead, they inspire you to keep going.

~•~

By loving Allah much more than your spouse, I admit

That it's no fun to feel distressed when your man is missed,

But you go on loving him despite feeling upset,

Because loving him for Allah still brings happiness.

~•~

So your marriage lasts forever, with Allah's Mercy:

Love him just for Allah. Refuse to quit easily.

Cherish good times and pray for each other frequently.

Rewind memorable moments. Love him faithfully.

~•~

Love your man not for his looks, job title or money,

But love him for Allah, like from the start you agreed

To accept him as your other half in life's journey,

Traveling together to deserve Jannah's entry.

~•~

To stay in love: Remember all his best qualities,

Such as "caring", "huggable", "hardworking" and "funny".

Teach him about Islam, together try to succeed

In not letting shaytan smile with your disunity.

~•~

📖 Abdullah ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best wealth is a tongue that remembers Allah, a grateful heart, and a believing wife to help one in his faith."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3094

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Umm Salamah RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Any woman who dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah (Paradise)".

[At-Tirmidhi, who classified it as Hadith Hasan]

Riyadh As-Salihin 286

In-book reference: Introduction, Hadith 286

Tips: How To Be Fair With All Your Friends Especially If There Are Many Of Them

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

📜 Question: How can I be fair with all of my friends?

📝 Answer: Since Allah the Almighty created everyone differently and not all of our friends have the exact same goals, interests and personality, it is impossible to be completely fair with each one of them. There will be some friends that we like more than others, because we find them more relatable, compatible and similar to us in many ways than the others. We hang out with certain friends more frequently than with others because they live nearer to us, they're more accessible, more available, and there is no conflict in our busy schedules, so meeting up with them or going on regular outings together is a lot easier than with the other friends. Our love for specific friends is also stronger when we've known them for a longer period, we're more used to each other, and we don't see each other as strangers. Another reason why we click better with some friends more than other acquaintances is we communicate and interact with them more regularly than with those who aren't close to us yet, while the feelings of care, support and respect are mutual. The friendship isn't one-sided at all, and no one is secretly jealous of the other.

You can try your best to be fair with all of your friends by making sure you always respond to their Salaams upon seeing them. If you're in a social gathering, make sure you greet everyone you're familiar with and you don't deliberately ignore anyone in the meeting.

You can be fair by preventing yourself from lying to your friends, from betraying and backbiting. All of these friends whom you love for Allah's sake should be treated with good character and courteous manners as much as possible, regardless if you've been friends with them since you were in high school or you've just met this year. Maintain a cheerful disposition and smile in their presence. Smiling doesn't make you fake nor artificial, but it displays confidence, shows you're approachable and it's a good deed that can be counted as a charity or sadaqah which any Muslim can do for the sake of Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

When your friends seek advice, give them the most helpful tips you can, even if providing assistance may lead them to becoming more successful at a field, say school or business, than you. If you have the ability to fulfill the rights of each of your friends, then do so. When invited to a friend's wedding, try to attend. If you're unable to witness their special occasion, at least congratulate them, send a loving message or mention them in a heartfelt Du'a/supplication.

If you hear news that a friend was confined in a hospital, visit them for Allah's sake, and if you can't be there to see them personally, at least text them and pray for them.

If three of your friends are getting married on the same date but at different wedding venues, you can attend all three weddings very briefly to accept the wedding invitation, or you can go to the wedding of the friend who is most closest to you, while you send gifts and congratulations to the other friends.

Being fair with all of your friends doesn't mean you spend time with each one equally and you provide every friend the exact same amount of attention as the others, but you strive to deal with them with good character, trying your best to never offend them and if you do you're strong enough to apologize and compensate for any wrong, and if ever they disappoint you, you're willing to understand their side and forgive for Allah's sake with lots of Sabr.

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are like conscripted soldiers. They come together upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109, Sahih Muslim 2638

📖 Abu Ishaq RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best of what a believing man can be given is good character, and the worst of what a man can be given is an evil heart with a beautiful appearance."

Source: Muṣannaf Ibn Abī Shaybah 24747

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Suyuti

📖 Mu’adh Ibn Jabal RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Allah the Almighty said: 'Those who love each other for the sake of My Glory will be upon pulpits of light, admired by the prophets and the martyrs.'"

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhī 2390

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

Tuesday, December 29, 2020

Tips: When Is "Ghosting" And Avoiding Someone For Allah's Sake Justifiable?

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 I completely lost my interest in wanting to befriend an ethically impoverished woman when I distinctly overheard her tell a friend of hers "here comes the lesbian (tomboy)" in her dialect and when I could sense that one of her cowardly passive-aggressive posts was meant to diss "judgmental" religious niqabis. Although an acquaintance and I occasionally greet each other with the salaam, deep inside I don't regard her as a "friend" anymore because her mistake of deliberately lying against me at one point was an instant turn-off. Recently I've unfriended another individual on Facebook after I mistakenly attempted to discuss with her concerning a personal matter only for the multiple messages to be left on seen mode despite several days going by while she continued updating her timeline.

Regardless of how old you are, inevitably you'll encounter individuals who mistreat you through gossiping about you, spreading false rumors to tarnish your name, and acting indifferent or unsupportive when you assumed they could be reliable companions.

When certain connections seem to be disintegrating gradually, it's up to you to salvage the friendship, if the merits of saving it outweigh the disadvantages of reconciling, or gladly walk away, emotionally detach and consider them as mere strangers again though you've forgiven them.

🌻 When is "ghosting" someone or distancing yourself from them justifiable:

1] When they pridefully keep doing something that clearly annoys, offends or disturbs you.

2] When they refuse to apologize for an offense that they knowingly carried out.

3] When their presence in your life weakens your faith/Imaan and they fail to inspire you to become a better Muslim.

While it is a commendable quality to be forgiving and tolerant, you deserve to protect yourself from people who are toxic, narcissistic, abusive, manipulative and secretly envious of the blessings that Allah the Almighty granted you. You're better off without them.

There are more than a million human beings on earth who can substitute their position when Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala Wills, if the rewards of patience and freedom from their negative influence aren't sufficient replacements.

~•~

Note: Reminder to join those who regularly fast Sunnah fasts on Mondays and Thursdays if you can.

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is not stung twice from the same hole."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5782

Sahih Muslim 2998

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abdullah ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: They mentioned a man in front of the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam and they said, "He only eats if he is fed! He only moves if he is made to move!" The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “You have backbitten him.” They said, “We only said what is true about him.” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "It is enough sin to mention bad things about your brother."

In another narration, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If what you said about him were not true, you would have slandered him."

Source: Musnad ‘Abd Allāh ibn Al-Mubārak 2

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Mundhiri

Poem: Contentment With Simplicity And Patience With Poverty

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 I can come across videos on YouTube showcasing

Huge house tours and grocery hauls while my reaction

Isn't "jealous" nor "they're lucky" but "indifferent".

What they've been given by Allah were all predestined.

~•~

"Outfit of the day" and "what's in my bag" videos can't

Make me feel less or insecure. They're not what I want

To be worthy of Allah's Love and pass His exams.

Money aids charity but it's not that important.

~•~

It's not crucial to be a spendthrift, live in mansions,

Drive fancy cars, dine in classy restaurants often,

Flaunt collections of gold and silver, branded clothing,

And measure people's worth by their worldly possessions.

~•~

All their expensive shoes and clothes they've been collecting,

Along with their showy job titles or positions,

Won't profit their souls when Allah decides to take them.

What benefit us in our graves are our good actions.

~•~

So call me "poor" if you like. To me, that term's nothing,

Since it's obvious I'm not wealthy. I don't earn millions,

I don't possess costly items nor own grand mountains,

And even if I were "rich", I'm still Allah's servant.

~•~

📖 Umar ibn Al-Khattab RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: I entered the room of the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam while he was lying on his side over a mat. I sat down as he drew up his lower garment and he was not wearing anything else. The mat had left marks on his side. I looked at the Prophet’s cupboard and I saw a handful of barely in a small amount, the same of mimosa leaves in the corner, and a leather bag hanging to the side. My eyes started to tear up, and the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “What makes you weep, son of Khattab?” I said, “O Prophet of Allah, why should I not cry that this mat has left marks on your side and I see little in this cupboard? Caesar and Khosrau live among fruits and springs, while you are the Messenger of Allah and His chosen one, yet this is your cupboard.” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "O son of Khattab, are you not pleased that ours is the Hereafter and for them is the world?" I said, “Of course.”

Source: Sahih Muslim 1479

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The poor Muslims will enter Paradise before the rich by half of a day, the length of which is five hundred years."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2354

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Look at those below you and do not look at those above you, for it is the best way not to belittle the favors of Allah."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6125

Sahih Muslim 2963

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Allah does not like for you to waste wealth, nor ask many unnecessary questions, nor spread gossip."

Source: Musnad Al-Bazzār 8463

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Anas ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever is concerned about the Hereafter, Allah will place richness in his heart, bring his affairs together, and the world will come to him although he is reluctant for it. Whoever is concerned about the world, Allah will place poverty between his eyes, disorder his affairs, and he will get nothing of the world but what is decreed for him."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2465

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Dharr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "O Abu Dharr, do you say an abundance of possessions is wealth?" I said 'yes.' The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do you say a lack of possessions is poverty?" I said 'yes.' The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam repeated this three times, then he said, "Wealth is in the heart and poverty is in the heart. Whoever is wealthy in his heart will not be harmed no matter what happens in the world. Whoever is impoverished in his heart will not be satisfied no matter how much he has in the world. Verily, he will only be harmed by the greed of his own soul."

Source: Al-Mu’jam Al-Kabīr 1618

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

Monday, December 28, 2020

Poem: Patiently Let Go Of Former "Friends" And Emotional Attachment

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Maybe you and certain ex-friends parted ways because

Somewhere in that connection lingered destructive "love",

A toxic bond that distanced you from Allah above.

Unhealthy thoughts of them replaced Adhkaar and Du'as.

~•~

Perhaps Allah saw how you excitedly waited

For those ex-friends' replies while prayers were neglected,

How you'd think of them a lot before going to bed,

Longing to meet them while you'd approach Salah with dread.

~•~

Allah may have witnessed how you'd get so excited

To chat with them and have their social media posts read,

Instead of having each prayer anticipated,

So Allah saved you by getting you separated.

~•~

It's for the best that they left, though you can't feel it yet.

Better to have loved and lost than be devastated

By staying glued to people who keep you distracted

From Allah and ensuring your goals are accomplished.

~•~

It's a gift with those souls you're no longer connected.

If they were good for you, if they could bring benefit,

And if their hearts didn't conceal envy or grudges,

Allah would've let them stay - you'd be undivided.

~•~

Had they remained as friends, maybe they would have misled

You to commit major sins which you'd later regret -

From zina and adultery to gossip and theft,

To having your parents or husband disrespected.

~•~

So Alhamdulillah that we're no longer attached

To temporary joys that are dangerous for us.

If they were meant to be our friends, we'd still be intact.

If they were blessings, they'd direct us to Allah's Love.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Love whom you love moderately, perhaps he will become hateful to you someday. Hate whom you hate moderately, perhaps he will become your beloved friend someday."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1997

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Qatadah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, you will never leave anything for the sake of Allah the Almighty but that Allah will replace it with something better."

Source: Musnad Ahmed 22565

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are troops collected together. They come close upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109

Sahih Muslim 2638

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Al-Nawawi said, “When bodies meet in the world, they come together or differ according to how they were created. The righteous will incline to the righteous, and the evil will incline to the evil.”

Source: Sharh Al-Nawawī ‘alá Sahih Muslim 2638

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu ‘anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.’ Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase 'if only' opens the way for the work of shaytan."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

Sunday, December 27, 2020

Poem: How To Move On From Broken Friendships

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Don't cling to people; you're not a monkey, they're not trees.

Some "friendships" ending are part of what Allah decrees.

They teach us not to trust humans, they're temporary,

And we're trained to have more patience when they disappear.

~•~

Why weep over ex-friends? Life doesn't depend on them.

They don't pay rent, they don't breastfeed nor grant nourishment,

And from what they did best were abusing your feelings,

Gossiping, lying, and envying your achievements.

~•~

When you're no longer in touch, it's fine to shed some tears,

But don't hate yourself for journeys that Allah decreed.

Note: You're no monkey nor koala, and they're not trees.

Some souls are like dark clouds; life gets brighter once they leave.

~•~

Wave goodbye to their late replies, mean indifference,

Adios and annyeong to their unpleasant influence,

Imagined tarpaulin with the word "Farewell" written

To walk away from nonsense with determination.

~•~

Listen, you're not arrogant by choosing to detach

From those who disturb you, distance you from Allah's Love,

And who can't like you back. Forgive them. Move on. Stay tough.

For years we survived without them. Allah is Enough.

~•~

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1997

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109

Sahih Muslim 2638

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Source: Sharh Al-Nawawī ‘alá Sahih Muslim 2638

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

Poem: Tips To Deal With Unlawful "Love" And Crushes

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 It's not a crime to fall in love with certain people,

As emotions can't always be put under control.

What's wrong is acting upon feelings that are doubtful,

Not lowering your gaze, staring at attractive souls,

Flirting often until passion becomes physical.

~•~

How do crushes happen? Not all are explainable,

But developing a crush with time is possible.

The more you find that special someone relatable,

Or the more you discover how they're desirable,

The more your heart feels vibes that are uncomfortable...

~•~

Unwelcoming for a soul that knows it's unlawful,

To have fantasies in a way that is immoral

With the one whom you consider irresistible.

While it's okay to admire them, keep it minimal,

And don't act upon how you feel, to avoid trouble.

~•~

That Allah is testing you with love it's possible.

Allah wants to test if you can stay chaste and faithful.

With Taqwa and firm Imaan you can pass this trial.

Don't sacrifice Jannah for joys that are temporal.

Frequent thoughts of death defeat desires that are evil.

~•~

When you're "in love" with some, think "maybe it's hormonal."

Or it's shaytan enticing you to be more sinful,

To imagine doing what's unimaginable

With multiple crushes who are beyond 'likable'.

When one-sided, this type of "love" can be too hurtful.

~•~

With trust in Allah, strive to have your feelings controlled.

Your list of "secret crushes" don't let anyone know,

Because even close friends may someday have them exposed.

You're one tough fighter as you battle against your soul,

Ensuring your body doesn't do what's not halal.

~•~

To shield yourself from fitna, don't go where your crush goes.

If you have to work with them, don't make your convos long.

Though it's hard to deny your attraction and withhold,

Recall Allah's Love is more important than this world.

Don't let crushes distract you from Jannah your main goal.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu anhu narrated that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah has pardoned my nation for their bad thoughts within themselves as long as they do not speak of them nor act upon them."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6287

Sahih Muslim 127

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Guarantee six deeds from me and I assure your acceptance into Paradise. When one of you speaks, let him not lie. When one of you promises, let him not break it. When one of you is trusted, let him not betray it. Lower your gaze, restrain your hands from harming others, and guard your chastity."

Source: Musnad Abī Ya’lá 4195

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

Hadith: Rewards Of Giving Advice, Helping And Sharing Islamic Knowledge For Allah's Sake

📖 Abu Mas’ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever guides someone to goodness will have a reward like the one who did it."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1893

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 'Uthman RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best of you are those who learn the Qur'an and teach it."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 4739

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari

📖 'Aisha RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Everything seeks forgiveness for the teacher of virtue, even the fish in the sea."

Source: Musnad Al-Bazzār 169

Grade: Sahih li ghayrihi according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Qatadah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best of what a man leaves behind are three: A righteous child who supplicates for him, ongoing charity the reward of which reaches him, and beneficial knowledge that is acted upon after him."

Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 237

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "When the human being dies, (the rewards of) his deeds come to an end except for three: Ongoing charity, beneficial knowledge, or a righteous child who prays for him."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1631

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 Mu’adh ibn Anas RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever imparts knowledge will have the reward of whoever acted upon it, without detracting from the reward of the one who performed the good deed."

Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 240

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abdullah ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Convey from me, even a single verse. Narrate from the children of Israel, for there is no blame in it. Whoever deliberately lies about me, let him take his seat in Hellfire."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3274

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari

Saturday, December 26, 2020

Poem: Praying Tahajjud Once In A While Is Better Than Not Praying It At All

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 If you have a habit of praying Qiyaam Al-Layl

And frequent Tahajjud keeps you at peace from inside,

You know what it feels like to miss it on certain nights,

Like you're missing something though you pray Fajr on time.

~•~

The distress in missing out on Tahajjud's blessings

Is more than missing your flight, exclusion from meetings,

And dismissal from a long-awaited appointment.

You wonder, "What did I do that kept me from praying?"

~•~

That's one way to know if you're close to Allah or not,

When most would sleep while Allah inspires you to wake up

To find comfort in Him (Allah) through heartfelt Du'as,

And Qiyaam Al-Layl is more calming than casual chats.

~•~

Perhaps when you sleep longer, when you fail to get up,

And you face the day with some bit of guilt in your heart,

You're reminded you're human, you get tired and whatnot,

And you're trained not to disdain those not righteous enough.

~•~

So thank Allah for His favors, honor His Mercy,

Do good deeds sincerely for Allah consistently.

When shaytan wants you to view Allah negatively,

Stay firm, as a Muslim, at least you pray and believe.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Our Lord (Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) descends to the lowest heaven in the last third of every night, and He says: 'Who is calling upon Me, so that I may answer him? Who is asking from Me, so that I may give him? Who is seeking My Forgiveness, so that I may forgive him?'"

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 1094

Sahih Muslim 758

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 'Abdullah ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, in Paradise there are rooms whose outside can be seen from inside and whose inside can be seen from outside." Abu Musa RadhiAllahu 'anhu said, “Who are they for, O Messenger of Allah?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "For those who speak gently, feed the hungry, and spend the night standing for the sake of Allah while people sleep."

Source: Musnad Ahmed 6436

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Ahmed Shakir

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Allah the Almighty said: 'Whoever shows hostility (enmity) to a righteous friend of Mine, I have declared war upon him. My servant does not grow closer to Me with anything more beloved to Me than the obligatory duties that I have imposed upon him. My servant continues to grow closer to Me with extra good works (nawaafil deeds like praying Tahajjud and fasting Sunnah fasts) until I love him. When I love him, I am his hearing with which he hears, his seeing with which he sees, his hand with which he strikes, and his foot with which he walks. Were he to ask something from Me, I would surely give it to him. Were he to ask Me for refuge, I would surely grant it to him. I do not hesitate to do anything as I hesitate to take the soul of the believer, for he hates death and I hate to disappoint him.'"

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6137

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari

📖 'Aisha RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, the believer may reach by his good character the rank of one who regularly fasts and stands for prayer at night."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4798

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The first action for which a servant of Allah will be held accountable on the Day of Resurrection will be his prayers. If they are in order, he will have prospered and succeeded. If they are lacking, he will have failed and lost. If there is something defective in his obligatory prayers, then Allah the Almighty will say: 'See if My servant has any voluntary prayers that can complete what is insufficient in his obligatory prayers.' The rest of his deeds will be judged the same way."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 413

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

Poem: Sincerity And Consistency Are Important When Doing Good For Allah's Sake

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Allah's Mercy is greater than your mom's love for you.
Don't be too hard on yourself. Do good deeds you can do,
Sincerely, consistently, and with faith that stays true,
Steadfast for Allah's sake, with patience and gratitude.
~*~
When there are days you pray Fajr late due to fatigue,
When you delay some prayers each time you oversleep,
Or lack of focus during Salah makes you repeat,
Compensate with Sunnah prayers, and refuse to quit.
~*~
When your eyes have witnessed things they're not supposed to see,
When your ears listened to what they're not allowed to hear,
Or you spoke in a way that good Muslims shouldn't speak,
Seek Allah's Forgiveness. Replace past sins with good deeds.
~*~
Don't be too hard on yourself. Know Allah can forgive.
Remember you're human, not designed to be perfect.
Whenever you sin, slip or fall, don't remain upset.
Return to Allah, and do Tawbah to pass His tests.
~*~
Being Muslim doesn't mean you never commit sins,
But when a mistake is made you rush to repentance,
Striving to deserve Jannah despite falling often,
Refusing to stop, knowing Allah is Forgiving.
~*~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do good deeds only as much as you are able, for the best deeds are those done regularly (consistently) even if they are few."
Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 4240
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: 'Allah has decreed what He wills.' Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Aisha RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Follow the right course, seek nearness to Allah, and give glad tidings. Verily, none of you will enter Paradise by his deeds alone." They said, “Not even you, O Messenger of Allah?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “Not even me, unless Allah grants me His Mercy. Know that the most beloved deed to Allah is that which is done regularly, even if it is small.”
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6099
Sahih Muslim 2818
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Poem: On Patience With People's Mockery And False Accusations

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 To the insecure and jealous, you are "arrogant",

A "narcissist" to the threatened who lack confidence,

"Snobbish" or "pretentious" to those with wrong perceptions,

And "ignorant" to those who forgot you're still learning.

~•~

You may be labeled "autistic" or "oddball" to those

Who think they've figured you out when clearly they don't know

You entirely, they're not familiar yet with your goals,

Misread your intent, condition, and most of your words.

~•~

In the eyes of those who approach you for selfish gains,

You're "unkind" or "useless" if you don't please them always.

You're "mean" or "self-centered" if you need space on some days

To those who demand that you never make a mistake.

~•~

You may have blonde hair since birth and most insist it's "fake",

Send assignments on time and still be told "you're too late",

Or be described as "ugly" while some admire your face.

Of what they choose to see in you people have their ways.

~•~

Just as Allah is our God yet many disbelieve,

And Allah is One though thousands trust in "Trinity",

People's opinions don't portray your reality.

Don't tie your self-worth to lies or insecurities.

~•~

Tips to cope when some people accuse you unfairly

Or try to dim your soul's light out of pure jealousy:

Thank Allah you're not in their place, accusing, firstly,

Not the one behaving poorly and immaturely.

~•~

Realize their slurs reflect weak personality,

Their self-loathing justifies self-imposed misery,

And feeling inferior directs them to mockery.

Give them freedom to daydream. Allah knows us truly.

~•~

📖 'Aisha RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever seeks the pleasure of Allah by displeasing the people, Allah will suffice him against the people. Whoever seeks the pleasure of the people by displeasing Allah, Allah will leave him to the patronage of the people."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2414

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Ibn Mas’ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that he was harvesting toothsticks from an Arak tree and he had tiny shins. The wind blew and made him fall over, so people laughed at him. The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "What are you laughing at?" They said, “O Prophet of Allah, at his tiny shins.” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "By the One (Allah) in Whose Hand is my soul, they will both be heavier on the Scale than the mountain of Uhud."

Source: Musnad Ahmed 3981

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Ahmed Shakir

📖 Wathilah ibn Al-Asqa’ RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The Muslim is sacred to another Muslim: His life, his honor, and his wealth. The Muslim is the brother of another Muslim. He does not wrong him or betray him. Righteousness is here," and he pointed to his heart. The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "It is enough evil for a man to look down on his Muslim brother."

Source: Musnad Ahmed 15589

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Haythami

Poem: On Dealing With Failed Friendships And Leaving Toxic Friends

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Tips to deal with failed friendships, how to forget ex-friends,

And some ways to welcome rejection with contentment:

One - Accept the truth that Allah controls everything.

Who loves then leaves you is part of what Allah destined.

~•~

Two - Regard someone's disappearance or avoidance

As a warning that dunya's joys are not permanent.

Some bonds that build up quickly gradually get boring -

Reminding us that earth's bliss are not everlasting.

~•~

Three - Recall that ex-friend's insults, faults and maltreatment.

Rewind incidents in which they denounced your presence,

Rolled their eyes when you spoke, gossiped when you were absent,

Or their silence when you expressed joy with your blessings.

~•~

Four - Respect yourself enough to grant your detachment

From those whose actions mostly bring stress and dejection.

Freeing yourself from bad comrades is more rewarding

Than tolerating toxic friends who are disturbing.

~•~

Five - You have Allah and Allah's Love is sufficient.

The Qur'an, and your good deeds can be your companions,

Along with Allah's Angels, and books you read often -

With guidance from Allah, you can move on with patience.

~•~

📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith (Imaan)."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

Al-Azimabadi said, “That he hates for the sake of Allah does not mean he harms the one he hates. Rather, the hatred is for his unbelief and disobedience.”

Source: ‘Awn al-Ma’būd 4681

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

Friday, December 25, 2020

Poem: An Open Letter To Ex-Friends And Those I'm Not Close To Anymore

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 An open letter to those whom I thought I could trust,

Whom I thought were potential friends and now we've lost touch

Due to misunderstandings that caused us to detach,

Or one of us thought the other wasn't "good enough":

~•~

Do I miss you? To be honest, no, and that's a fact.

I feel more free now that we're no longer in contact,

Freed from the worries of witnessing your misconduct,

Your disrespect, your huge pride, your unrequited "love".

~•~

I thought you could be a friend, but you wouldn't give that -

Assurance that you're someone whom I can fully trust,

Who isn't manipulative, selfish, jealous much,

Insecure or low-key envious of what I have.

~•~

You're not an enemy. This is not a long-term grudge.

My distance and avoidance are meant to protect us,

From swapping rumors and gossiping like it's a drug

To concealing truths, faking and wearing two-faced masks.

~•~

Learn from the past and remember Allah is our Judge.

My choice to disconnect doesn't signal your soul's loss.

As strangers I believe we're safer and better off.

Let's strive to earn Jannah where shaytan can't divide us.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his best friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are conscripted soldiers. They come together upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109

Sahih Muslim 2638

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1997

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

Poem: It's Human To Make Mistakes. Be Wise To Learn From Them.

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 It's human to make mistakes. Be wise to learn from them.

It's fine if you found out it was wrong to trust someone.

Take them as a note not to rely on them again.

~•~

Often you're carried away by certain sentiments,

And you overreact or utter clumsy statements.

Instead of scolding yourself with "What was I thinking?",

Be more careful next time. Don't replay that scene again.

~•~

You fell into zina due to weak self-discipline?

Behaved indecently? Enjoyed a sinful moment?

Cheated in exams? Lied on purpose? Stolen something?

Repent and return to Allah the Most Forgiving.

~•~

Betrayed another Muslim? Quarreled with your parents?

Talked badly about a friend though you were "just joking"?

Disrespected some elders? Derided some children?

Repent. Pray to Allah He pardons your ignorance.

~•~

Believe that no human is free from imperfections,

Proneness to forget and exposure to temptation.

Also believe that Allah is the Most Forgiving

Who loves those who do Tawbah and won't lose hope in Him.

~•~

📖 Ibn Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah has overlooked for my nation their honest mistakes, forgetfulness, and what they are forced into doing."

Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 2045

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "By Him in Whose Hand is my soul, if you did not sin, Allah would replace you with people who would sin and they would seek forgiveness from Allah and He would forgive them."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2749

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 Abu Bakr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No man commits a sin, then purifies himself in ablution, then prays, and then asks Allah for forgiveness, but that Allah will forgive him." Then, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam recited this verse, 'Those who, if they behave immorally or wrong themselves, they remember Allah and seek forgiveness for their sins. Who forgives sins besides Allah? And they do not insist on what they have done, while they know better.' (Surah Aal-'Imraan 3:135)"

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhī 406

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is not stung twice from the same hole."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5782

Sahih Muslim 2998

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

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Poem: To Socialize And Be Friendly Or Stay In And Self-Preserve?

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Whether you classify yourself as an introvert,

An extrovert, a homebody, or an ambivert,

You have a right to make choices that preserve yourself,

Shield your welfare and ensure your morals are conserved.

~•~

When invited to a sleepover or gathering,

When wondering if it's best to mingle or stay in,

Choose what brings you closer to Allah and pleases Him,

The option that's far from fitna or more rewarding.

~•~

Shun or minimize socializing with those whose words

Consist of lies, gossip and intentional insults,

Or whose presence makes you feel insecure or ignored,

Or who reject your favors like they're devoid of worth.

~•~

Inform them that your declining their invitation

Isn't meant to offend nor does it prove arrogance.

Qualified to decide cautiously as a Muslim,

Show wisdom in knowing what deserves your attendance.

~•~

Prior to attending events, think of Allah first,

See if going betters you, if it makes your state worse,

And if mixing with a group doesn't lead to remorse.

Nonetheless, tests are less when you're quiet and indoors.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "There will come tribulations (fitan - plural of fitna/trial) in which the one sitting will be better than the one standing. The one standing will be better than the one walking. The one walking will be better than the one running. Whoever seeks these tribulations will be destroyed by them. Whoever finds a place of shelter or refuge, let him take refuge in it."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6670

Sahih Muslim 2886

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Ibn Umar RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer who mixes with the people and endures their harm with patience has a greater reward than one who does not mix with the people nor endures their harm with patience."

Source: Musnad Ahmed 22588

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Ahmed Shakir

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is not stung twice from the same hole."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5782

Sahih Muslim 2998

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Nu’aym reported: Fudayl ibn ‘Iyad, may Allah have mercy on him, said, “If you mix with people, mix with those who have good character; it only invites to good. Do not mix with those who have bad character, for it only invites to evil.”

Source: Ḥilyat Al-Awliyā’ 11728

Wednesday, December 23, 2020

Poem: Affirmations As A Muslimah Wearing Niqab

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 I wear the niqab not because I lack confidence

To show my face nor is it worn to please my husband.

I wear it for Allah, to join the pious women,

And so I'm judged for what's in my heart, not appearance.

~•~

The niqab doesn't symbolize I'm hiding something

Nor does it convey I'm so ignorant of fashion.

The veil is an emblem of being Allah's servant,

A Muslim, who by society is not governed.

~•~

A lady's charms that Allah gave aren't for flaunting

And showcasing to anyone like a cheap item.

A Muslimah's body serves Allah and obeys Him

In valuing the hijaab, as a Muslim woman.

~•~

With the hijaab and niqaab among male non-mahrams,

We avoid causing fitna, walking as distractions,

And modesty affirms we're Allah's humble servants.

The choice to shield and guard one's treasures implies freedom.

~•~

Veiling for Allah is an option we have chosen,

Eager to comply with Allah's Laws and Commandments.

With hijaab and niqaab, we wish to be obedient,

Earning Allah's Love when tough moments enhance patience.

~•~

📖 It was narrated from Safiyyah Bint Shaybah RadhiAllahu 'anha that 'Aisha RadhiAllahu 'anha used to say: "When these words were revealed – “...and to draw their veils all over Juyoobihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms)” – they took their izaars (a kind of garment) and tore them from the edges and covered their faces with them."

Narrated by Al-Bukhaari, 4481

The following version was narrated by Abu Dawood (4102): "May Allah have mercy on the Muhaajir women. When Allah revealed the words, “and to draw their veils all over Juyoobihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms)”, they tore the thickest of their aprons (a kind of garment) and covered their faces with them."

📖 'Aisha RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: "The believing women would pray the dawn prayer with the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Then, they would return home wrapped in their mantles (long cloaks); they would not be recognized by anyone."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 365

Sahih Muslim 645

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Udhaynah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best of your women are loving, fertile, suitable, and comforting, if they fear Allah. The worst of your women unveil their beauty, take pride in their appearance, and they are hypocrites. None of them will enter Paradise except as rarely as you see a red-beaked crow."

Source: Al-Sunan Al-Kubrá 12480

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

Poem: Tips On How To Deal With Being "Ghosted" Or Ignored

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 A few tips on how to deal with those who ignore you,

Who gift you with apathy, scorn or ingratitude,

Who left your messages on seen mode, and misconstrue

Your condition and accuse you of "bad attitude":

~•~

One: Understand why they're ignoring. They're insecure,

Jealous of your blessings and cool things you get to do,

Or your intense enthusiasm leaves them confused -

Of how to measure up to your kindness they're unsure.

~•~

Two: Once you're done knocking on their doors several times,

And they reply by disregarding your many tries,

Gladly move on. A formal goodbye isn't required.

They may regret letting you evade after some time.

~•~

Let them realize what they'll be missing: Your soul's light,

Your willingness to listen to them, your kind advice,

Your eagerness to help them out and cheer when they thrive,

And saying their names in Du'as nearly day and night.

~•~

Three: Have enough self-respect to forget those who left.

No need to connect with those who bring no benefit,

Who fail to inspire you, who are too proud to forgive,

And whose obsession with gossip just produces stress.

~•~

Four: Though you've detached from some, recall your relatives.

To those connected through kinship still display respect.

Greet them with the salaam, and when you can, pay visits.

Pray that Allah guides them. Be patient when they upset.

~•~

Five: Be contented knowing that Allah always hears

And sees you even if all so-called friends disappeared.

People's avoidance or dismissal shouldn't be feared,

Because with or without them, Allah is always Near.

~•~

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

Al-Azimabadi said, “That he hates for the sake of Allah does not mean he harms the one he hates. Rather, the hatred is for his unbelief and disobedience.”

Source: ‘Awn Al-Ma’būd 4681

📖 Abdullah ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The one who keeps good relations with his family is not the one who reciprocates the good done to him. Rather, the one who keeps good relations with his family is the one who continues to be good to them despite having been cut off by them."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5645

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari

📖 Anas ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do not hate each other, do not envy each other, do not turn away from each other, but rather be servants of Allah as brothers. It is not lawful for a Muslim to boycott his brother for more than three days."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5718

Sahih Muslim 2559

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Suraqah ibn Ju’shum RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "O Suraqah, shall I tell you about the people of Paradise and Hellfire?" Suraqah said, “Of course, O Messenger of Allah.” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "As for the people of Hellfire, it is every hard-hearted, cruel, and arrogant person.

As for the people of Paradise, they are the meek and oppressed."

Source: Al-Mu’jam Al-Kabīr 6589

Grade: Sahih li ghayrihi according to Al-Albani

Tuesday, December 22, 2020

Poem: What "Friendship Breakups" Teach Us

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Some lessons from a breakup with someone I once knew,

Way back in Riyadh city, when I was in high school:

Consistency in communicating is one rule

For mutual trust to build and stronger bonds are ensured.

~•~

Forgiveness, patience and empathy are essential

For friendship to last long, low expectations as well.

What cause friends to drift apart or seem artificial

Are envy, selfish pride, excess and conflicting goals.

~•~

Connections can't survive if one friend gets all jealous

Of the other - not being caring or supportive,

Or if both are suspicious of each other's motives

Until one goes "I'm done!" and the other "Forget it."

~•~

Hurt ego and kibr/arrogance are obstacles

To potential fellowship becoming successful.

This puts effort, the other ignores their notes and calls

Till both part ways since they're clearly incompatible.

~•~

In the end, if some leave, it's not our fault entirely.

Their departure marks their final role in our story,

The joys they shared, like life's pleasures, are temporary,

And they're reminders to rely on Allah Only.

~•~

To that ex-friend and others like her: Thanks and sorry.

Thanks. You taught me there's peace in ditching toxicity.

Sorry I couldn't fulfill your wants obsessively.

No doubt, I don't need your "love". I seek Allah's Mercy.

~•~

Though we're strangers now, yet this time with some memories,

I pray that Allah guides you, improves your well-being,

And inspires you to recognize that our enemy

Is shaytan who's pleased when Muslims show disunity.

~•~

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1997

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109

Sahih Muslim 2638

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Source: Sharh Al-Nawawī ‘alá Sahih Muslim 2638

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu ‘anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.’ Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills.” Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/09/poem-to-my-ex-best-friend-wherever-she.html

Monday, December 21, 2020

Poem: Three Types Of Patience. Apply Them To Thrive In Both Worlds.

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Three types of patience are required to succeed in life:

Patience in serving Allah and doing what He likes,

Patience in avoiding sins and leaving vile desires,

And patience when trials fall, during challenging times.

~•~

Be patient for Allah in obeying His Commands,

Patient when praying, patient when reading the Qur'an,

When saying Du'a and Adhkaar whenever you can,

In Da'wah, and when teaching others about Islam.

~•~

Be patient wearing hijaab/niqaab and modest clothes,

Patient in studying Islam and Arabic words,

When you greet with the Salaam only to get ignored,

And when you advise Muslims just to receive insults.

~•~

Be patient in shunning what Allah has forbidden,

From gossiping and lying to music addiction,

From ribaa/interest to stealing and deceiving,

And doing good deeds for riyaa or recognition.

~•~

Be patient as well in fleeing the paths to zina,

In fighting the urge to expose yourself to fitna.

Patiently forget those who distance you from Allah

And substitute temptation with longing for Jannah.

~•~

Be patient when tests befall one after another,

When Allah wants to check if you truly know Sabr.

Be patient when hurt, when affairs are not in order,

When disappointed by loved ones and mocked by haters.

~•~

Be patient when you encounter financial crisis,

When someone's joys or blessings make you somewhat jealous,

When days go by too quickly and you increase in stress,

And when thinking of earth's current state makes you upset.

~•~

To be patient doesn't mean pretending you're alright

And forcing a fake smile while you feel bad from inside,

But true patience inspires you to have hope day and night,

Trusting in Allah's Power to help and make things right.

~•~

Be patient. It takes time for seeds to grow into trees,

And for dawn to appear when evening thunderstorms cease.

Be patient; Allah loves us. After hardship comes ease.

Await Jannah's entry when we're cleansed of our misdeeds.

~•~

📖 Sa’d ibn Abi Waqqas RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: I said, “O Messenger of Allah, which of the people are most severely tested?” The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "They are the prophets, then the next best (in terms of righteousness), then the next best. A man is put to trial according to his Deen/religion. If he is firm in his religion, his trials will be more severe. If he is weak in his religion, he is put to trial according to his strength in religion. The servant will continue to be put to trial until he is left walking upon the earth without any sin."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2398

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Mus’ad ibn Sa’eed RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "The servant will continue to encounter trials until he is left walking upon the earth without any sin."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2398

Grade: Sahih

📖 Abu Sa’eed Al-Khudri RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Some people from the Ansaar asked the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam and he gave them. Then they asked for charity again and he SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam gave them. Then they asked again and he SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam gave them until all that he had was gone. The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I had anything, I would not withhold it. Whoever refrains from asking others, then Allah will make him content. Whoever would be independent, then Allah will make him independent. Whoever would be patient, then Allah will make him patient. There is no gift that is better and more comprehensive than patience."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6105

Sahih Muslim 1053

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Poem: What You Can Do, As A Muslim, When Depressed

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Do you go through moments when you cry "for no reason",

Or at one point diagnosed yourself with depression

So you stand out or at least you do well at something?

This is what it's like to be depressed, as a Muslim:

~•~

On certain days you seem strong, because you have no choice

But to appear that way so opponents won't destroy

Your trust in Allah, your self-esteem and inner voice.

Often you smile despite feeling sad, lost or annoyed.

~•~

If walls could speak, they'd let others know how much you weep,

How your prayer mat and books you read get soaked with tears

Sometimes, when you're up at night crying while most would sleep.

Rarest times when you find delight are more real in dreams.

~•~

You experience sorrow like every other human,

Yet you deny sadness when it attracts derision.

Overwhelmed with frequent stress and high expectations,

Your nafs often whispers "Die now, or keep suffering".

~•~

But you're a Muslim. Thus when suicidal thoughts creep in,

You recall: Allah's Love outweighs all of your problems,

Tough circumstances are meant to wash away your sins,

And challenges, like this world, are not everlasting.

~•~

Maybe when you feel empty, that's your heart complaining

About how much it misses Qur'an recitations,

Solace in crying to Allah, calmness in praying,

And fulfillment in knowledge so your faith is strengthened.

~•~

The farther people stray from their main purpose in life,

The more they're prone to heartbreaks and feeling bad inside.

Be kind to your soul. Through evil deeds don't keep it tired.

Connect with Allah. Accept: Joy is in Paradise.

~•~

📖 Ibn Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: The Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam would say at a time of distress, "There is no god but Allah, the All-Knowing, the Forbearing. There is no god but Allah, Lord of the Great Throne. There is no god but Allah, Lord of the heavens, the earth, and the Noble Throne."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6990

Sahih Muslim 2730

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The Hour (the Day of Judgment) will not be established until a man passes by the grave of another man and he says: 'Would that I were in his place!'"

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6698

Sahih Muslim 157

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Nothing afflicts a Muslim of hardship, nor illness, nor anxiety, nor sorrow, nor harm, nor distress, not even the pricking of a thorn, but that Allah will expiate his sins by it."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5318

Sahih Muslim 2573

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Aisha RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If the sins of a servant are numerous and he does not have good deeds to compensate, Allah will afflict him with sadness as an expiation for him."

Source: Musnad Ahmed 24708

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Suyuti

Sunday, December 20, 2020

Poem: Ways To Tell If You Have A Clean Heart

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 The similitude of those who seem "clean" outwardly

Yet they carry dirty thoughts and their hearts are filthy

Is that of a golden treasure chest and it's empty,

Within are cobwebs of wounded pride, greed and envy.

~•~

Better to be average-looking with a heart that's clean

Than appear grand while concealing ugly qualities,

From constantly hating on others enviously

And gossiping to accusing Muslims unfairly.

~•~

If you're blessed with a pure heart, you wouldn't be guilty

Of doubting other Muslims' intentions unjustly,

Disdaining someone's gifts, disliking Allah's Decree,

Lying, starting fights, and backbiting despicably.

~•~

Clean minds think "MashaAllah" when Muslims are happy,

Don't invent rumors when some behave incorrectly

But sense pity, so they advise and remind kindly.

Clean hearts care for Allah's sake - with justice and mercy.

~•~

Souls beautified with clean hearts steer clear of all of these:

Arrogance - demanding service meant for VIPs,

Serving one's ego - not forgiving, too hard to please,

And acting as though one sees the whys of people's deeds.

~•~

To have a clean heart: Do good for Allah sincerely.

Be teachable. Don't roll your eyes when a Muslim speaks.

Leave toxic vibes found in those who act impudently.

Train yourself to not feel jealous of others' journeys.

~•~

The cleaner your heart is, the more you can readily

Say Dhikr, accept truth, detect real from fallacies,

Obey Allah regardless of His slaves' enmity,

And avoid misjudging hearts, as that's not your duty.

~•~

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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, when the servant commits a sin, a black mark appears upon his heart. If he abandons the sin, seeks forgiveness, and repents, then his heart will be polished. If he returns to the sin, the blackness will be increased until it overcomes his heart. It is the covering that Allah has mentioned: 'No, rather a covering is over their hearts from what they have earned.' (The Noble Qur'an 83:14)"

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3334

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Suyuti

📖 An-Nu’man ibn Bashir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "Verily, in the body is a piece of flesh which, if sound, the entire body is sound, and if corrupt, the entire body is corrupt. Truly, it is the heart."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 52

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: I said, “O Messenger of Allah, who are the best people?” The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “One with a heart swept clean and truthful in speech.” We said, “O Messenger of Allah, we know truthful in speech. What is a heart swept clean?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “One that is mindful of Allah and pure, in which there is no sin, nor aggression, nor envy.” We said, “Who shows a sign of it?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One who hates worldliness and loves the Hereafter." They said, “And who shows a sign of it?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A believer with good character."

Source: Shu’ab Al-Imān 4457

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "People whose hearts are like the hearts of birds will enter Paradise."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2840

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

An-Nawawi said, “It is interpreted to mean they are those who rely upon Allah, or those who have soft hearts.”

Source: Riyāḍh Al-Ṣāliḥīn 1/45

Poem: Quick Note To Those Whom I Love For Allah's Sake

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 May Allah unite us in Jannah Heaven.

Ameen. Special message to my dear parents,

To my Muslim family, distant loved ones,

Close friends and those with whom I haven’t spoken.

Sweet reminders again to my dear husband:

~•~

Dear husband, whom I so love for Allah’s sake,

Although we don’t see each other night and day,

Always note my loving you will still remain

Until it finds perfection up there someday,

In Jannah where there’s no worry nor dismay.

~•~

With those I love our talks on earth may be few,

Our meetings sometimes rushed, loads of jobs to do.

At times we neglect, forget, fight, misconstrue,

Yet we forgive each other, knowing it’s true

Blessed love that leads to Jannah treasures value.

~•~

Up there in Jannah there’s no separation,

No stress, distress, tiredness, loss nor depression,

No despicable traits nor comparison.

In Jannah are great things which no soul has seen,

So grand that one’s mind can’t even imagine.

~•~

Jannah’s for those who worship Allah Only,

The sincere ones who do good deeds aplenty,

The truthful supporters who love God truly.

May Allah accept our efforts, grant Mercy

And join us with those who’ll meet Him lovingly. Ameen.

In Jannah Paradise is true love without separation.

~•~

May Allah the Most Merciful accept all our good deeds, forgive all our wrongdoings, answer our du'as with His Mercy and reunite us with our Muslim loved ones in the uppermost level of Heaven Jannatul Firdaus next to Him and His beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam. Allahumma Innaka 'Afuwwun Kareemun tuhibbul 'afwa fa'fu 'annaa. Ameen.

Wasalaam~

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www.slideshare.net/JustSharingIslam/just-sharing-islam-free-ebook-of-103-islamic-poems-written-by-sister-mariam-mababaya

https://www.scribd.com/document/463360531/Free-eBook-Journeying-Back-to-Jannah-135-Poems-by-Sister-Mariam-Mababaya-2020-May

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~•~

📖 Anas ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The most privileged people in the world among the people of the Hellfire will come on the Day of Resurrection to be dipped in the Hellfire, then it will be said: 'O son of Adam, did you see any good? Did you get any blessing?' He will say: 'No, by Allah, my Lord!' Then the most miserable people in the world among the people of Paradise will come on the Day of Resurrection to be dipped in Paradise, then it will be said: 'O son of Adam, did you see any hardship? Did you have any distress?' He will say: 'No, by Allah, my Lord! I did not once see hardship or distress.'"

Source: Sahih Muslim 2807

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Allah (The Almighty) said: 'I have prepared for My righteous servants what no eye has seen, what no ear has heard, and what no human heart has conceived. Recite the verse if you wish: 'No soul knows what has been hidden for them of comfort.' (Surah As-Sajdah 32:17)'"

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3072

Sahih Muslim 2824

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Saturday, December 19, 2020

Tips: Eleven Actions That Can, With Allah's Will, Uplift Your Mood

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Eleven actions that instantly uplift your mood:

One: Reading the Noble Qur'an so your heart is soothed.

Two: Listening to Qur'an recitations as you

Reflect on Allah's Magnificence with gratitude.

~•~

Three: Seeking Islamic knowledge through the right sources,

Learning something new from podcasts or online classes.

Four: Spending quality time with kids, nephews, nieces,

Taking care of babies or visiting relatives.

~•~

Five: Counting Allah's gifts that are too many to count,

Among which are Islam and peaceful things that surround

You like cloudy skies, greenery, cats roaming around,

Sound of rainfall, stars, and simple comforts in your house.

~•~

Six: Talking to Allah, relief through supplications,

Adhkaar, tranquil naps, and relaxing meditation.

Seven: Regularly checking on a pious friend

And advising so both your faith/Imaan is strengthened.

~•~

Eight: When you can, doing charity for Allah's sake,

Tipping, sharing food, kind words to brighten someone's day.

Nine: Istighfaar and Tawbah, repenting from mistakes,

And striving to improve so you positively change.

~•~

Ten: Doing Da'wah, writing to share about Islam,

And volunteering to teach so loved ones understand.

Eleven: Remembering as often as you can,

Not the past, but future. Pray Jannah is where we'll land.

~•~

Through good deeds that please Allah, you'll be much happier.

Glue oneself to dunya or let one's soul surrender

To sins like music or drugs, and sinners just suffer.

Worship Allah with Ikhlaas, watch your mood get better.

~•~

📖 Suhayb RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Amazing is the affair of the believer, as there is good for him in every matter. This is not the case for anyone but for the believer. If he goes through ease (or happy moments), he thanks Allah and it is good for him. If he goes through difficulty, he shows patience and it is good for him."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2999

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu said:

"A righteous companion is better than loneliness, and loneliness is better than an evil companion.

A good writer is better than one silent, and one silent is better than an evil writer."

Source: Rawdat Al-‘Uqalā 56

Poem: How To React When Some Users Unfriend You

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 What should your reaction be when someone "unfriends" you,

When they blocked your account or become one you once knew?

Avoid self-doubt. Don't wonder "Oh no, what did I do?

Was it something I shared? Are they gone in real life too?"

~•~

Maybe their act of "unfriending" was an accident,

Done by someone else using their phone when it was lent,

Or they left when most of your posts make them feel threatened,

They're jealous, disturbed, or unpleasantly different.

~•~

No worries. It's not a tragedy if you're eschewed

By users who think you're "toxic" or your thoughts confuse.

Empathize. Try to visualize being in their shoes,

You'd hate seeing others thrive if you were insecure.

~•~

Reduction in the number of "fans" or "online friends"

Isn't solid evidence you're an awful person.

Often you grow stronger with someone's disappearance,

Far from their lies, bad vibes and negative influence.

~•~

By people's opposition your worth isn't reduced.

When some flee or search for shade, the sun's rays continue.

Whether "too much" or "not good enough", let them assume.

For Allah Only, not His slaves, is your servitude.

~•~

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109

Sahih Muslim 2638

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

Friday, December 18, 2020

Tips: How A Pious Wife Reacts When Her Husband Wishes To Remarry

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 If your husband works in the medical field, say as a doctor or dentist, undoubtedly he'll be surrounded by female patients and colleagues once in a while. Similarly, an eloquent speaker who is active in the field of Da'wah would unintentionally attract the attention of women who admire his proficiency, determination in sharing his Islamic knowledge, or even his handsomeness.

It is also possible for some females to express their interest in marrying a married man, not necessarily to be known as "the other woman" or "notorious homewrecker", but they genuinely believe he's "the most idealistic one" for them. His visibly noteworthy qualities such as his charisma in teaching others about Islam, admirable productivity in publishing Islamic writings, and his compassion for his family could be from the many reasons why they found him attractive.

As for the woman who tries to approach a guy whom she knows is happily married, instead of automatically considering her as a threat or troublemaker, we can assume that she probably wasn't strong enough to control her feelings of attraction.

Rather than instantly accusing her husband of infidelity and the other woman of unjustly interfering in an already stable marriage, a righteous Muslim wife would see this as a beautiful opportunity to level up her connection with Allah the Almighty. Since she cares enough about her husband to not want him involved in a haraam relationship, she encourages him to make that affair halal through a second marriage if he is unable to stop all forms of contact with her.

Accepting Allah's Qadr/Decree in permitting Muslim men to be married to up to four wives doesn't reduce the love which a loyal, grateful, devoted, strong and patient wife has for her husband.

🌻 The following are a few tips for the wife who discovers that her husband wishes to remarry or he recently reconnected with a former "girlfriend" from his high school or college days:

1] Advise him on Taqwa, his obligations to Allah the Most Wise, his responsibilities to his family, the importance of lowering one's gaze, and the need to abstain from unnecessarily mingling with non-mahram females.

2] Don't impulsively threaten him with divorce if he doesn't leave the other woman. Ask him questions that could bring him back to his senses like "Are you truly in love with this lady? Or are you only playing with her heart, as though it's a toy that you entertain yourself with anytime you like? If you adore her that much, would you be willing to take her as your second wife and promise to treat us as fairly as you can for Allah's sake? Or should you get another job and we move to a different city so our marriage life isn't ruined by a temporary distraction?"

3] Remind your husband that you still love him for Allah's sake, and since your love for Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala is a lot greater than your affection towards your spouse, you're totally fine if he is wed to multiple wives. Just noticing how you won't easily give up on him can make him feel undeniably guilty on the inside, and he may either forget about the other woman, so you're his only legal wife, or he remarries, tries his utmost to take good care of his womenfolk for Allah's sake, and persistently shows gratitude to Allah the Most Merciful for being blessed with you as his first wife.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."

Source: Sahih Ibn Ḥibbān 4252

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1159

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi

Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."

Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātīḥ 5/2125

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "If a man has two wives and he is not just between them, he will come on the Day of Resurrection with one of his sides collapsed."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1141

Grade: Sahih

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "The most complete of believers in faith are those with the best character, and the best of you are the best in behavior to their women."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1162

Grade: Sahih

📖 Abdullah ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

Hadith: On The Du'a And Supplications Of The Oppressed

📖 Mu’adh ibn Jabal RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam sent me to Yemen and he said, "Verily, you are going to people among the people of the Book, so call them to testify there is no God but Allah and I am the Messenger of Allah. If they accept that, then teach them that Allah has obligated five prayers in each day and night. If they accept that, then teach them that Allah has obligated charity to be taken from the rich and given to the poor. If they accept that, then beware not to take from the best of their wealth. Fear the supplication of the oppressed, for there is no barrier between it and Allah."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 4090

Sahih Muslim 19

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Khuzaymah ibn Thabit RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of the supplication of the oppressed, for it is carried above the clouds. Allah the Almighty says: 'By My Might and Majesty, I will help you in due time.'"

Source: Al-Mu’jam Al-Kabīr 3630

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Ibn Umar RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of the supplication of the oppressed, for it ascends to Allah as if it were a flare."

📖 Ibn Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Two supplications have no barrier between them and Allah: The supplication of the oppressed, and the supplication of a man for his brother behind his back."

Source: Al-Mu’jam Al-Kabīr 11232

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Suyuti

📖 Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, when a servant curses something, the curse ascends to the heaven and the gates of heaven close upon it. It turns right and left and if it does not find a place to go, it will return to that which was cursed, only if it deserved to be cursed; otherwise the curse will return upon the one who uttered it."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4905

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Albani

Poem: Be Grateful To Allah And Avoid Social Comparison

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Why be jealous of someone who displays confidence,

When Allah the Almighty is the One Who grants strength?

Beneath their charisma are resilience from moments

That scared them, embarrassment, insults and rejection,

And efforts in researching helpful information.

~•~

Why resent a person's commercial accomplishments,

Assuming they don't deserve the income that they earn?

The wealth they spend are from the tests which Allah gave them.

Their success in business is what Allah has destined,

Through trust in Allah, through Du'as, hope and persistence.

~•~

Why envy those whom Allah granted many children?

The process of having kids isn't an easy thing.

Why begrudge a wife who demonstrates her affection

To her husband often when that's her way of coping

With polygyny's trials and her soulmate's absence?

~•~

Why question or suspect another Muslim's talents,

When the gifts they utilize are by Allah given,

Their skills are enhanced through regular application,

Lessened hours of sleep to learn with enthusiasm,

And patience when they deal with scorn or criticism.

~•~

Why envy other humans filled with imperfections,

Worries, insecurities and tons of shortcomings?

Don't undermine yourself through social comparison.

Be happy for others. Be grateful for your blessings.

Accept Allah's Qadr patiently, as a Muslim.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of envy, for it devours good deeds just as fire devours wood or grass."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4903

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Suyuti

📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Envy consumes good deeds just as fire burns wood. Charity (Sadaqah) extinguishes sinful deeds just as water extinguishes fire. Prayer is the light of the believer and fasting is his shield from the Hellfire."

Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 4210

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Ibn Asakir

📖 Abdullah Ibn Mas’ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "There is no envy but in two cases: A man whom Allah has given wealth and he spends it rightly, and a man whom Allah has given wisdom and he judges and teaches with it."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 73

Sahih Muslim 816

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

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بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين

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