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📋 While some individuals don't talk to you a lot because they're either frequently busy or you haven't connected well yet, others are actual haters even if they pose as "approachable potential friends" and they're regularly accessible.
Seven signs that a person actually abhors you, due to intense jealousy or an unresolved conflict, so asking them for any advice and entrusting them with personal information should be avoided as much as possible:
1] On a regular basis, they don't answer your salaams online and face to face, despite knowing the importance of returning a Muslim's salaam.
2] While trying to communicate online and offline, you notice an ugly pattern in them repeatedly mispronouncing your name or spelling it incorrectly yet they're capable of saying others' names without a single error.
3] Numerous times they conducted social outings or gatherings to which you weren't invited, and ironically they'd later question why you weren't there.
4] Very rarely do they ask about your family yet they seem to expect you to inquire about how they and their loved ones are doing.
5] They're incapable of laughing whenever you try to share some comical remarks yet when you make a mistake and somebody publicly scolds you, they laugh at the situation easily.
6] The way they often look at you can be described as an obvious scowl and whenever you attempt to actively participate in a meeting or group discussion it appears as though they're rolling their eyes with annoyance, telling themselves something like "not again... attention-seeking".
7] It's so typical of them to view your chat or text messages without responding to you and you're not surprised when they leave your recent message on seen mode because that's what they recurrently do. If an individual fails to communicate with you in a decent manner, they could be depressed and their self-hatred provokes them to act obnoxiously or they treat you disrespectfully since they're guilty of despicable envy.
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📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger Of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said to me: "O young man, if you are able every morning and evening to remove any rancor (grudge) from your heart towards anyone, then do so."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2678
Grade: Hasan
📖 Ibn 'Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: I was riding behind the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam when he said to me, "Young man, I will teach you some words. Be mindful of Allah and He will protect you. Be mindful of Allah and you will find Him before you. If you ask, ask from Allah. If you seek help, seek help from Allah. Know that if the nations were to gather together to benefit you, they will not benefit you unless Allah has decreed it for you. And if the nations gathered together to harm you, they will not harm you unless Allah has decreed it for you. The pens have been lifted and the pages have dried."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2516
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to At-Tirmidhi
