بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين

بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين
May Allah the Almighty grant us more beneficial knowledge, accept our good deeds, forgive our mistakes, protect us from fitna, and join us with the righteous believers in Jannatul Ferdaus. Ameen.

Thursday, June 4, 2026

Note: Sharing Some Reminders Regarding Some Food Deliveries Here In The Philippines And Elsewhere

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

🛵 Pagbabahagi ng ilang mga aral na natutunan, Alhamdulillah, upang hindi na magaya ng iba ang pagkakamali ko na ibigay agad ang bayad sa rider bago man lang suriin ang laman ng order at basahin ang resibo o papel na nakadikit sa plastik.

Ngayon ay umorder kami ng pagkain mula sa isang South Asian na restaurant at nagkataon na may tumawag na rider. Dahil inakala kong dumating na ang aming order, pinasuyo ko sa iba na kunin ang mga pagkain at ibigay ang bayad na ₱340, habang sinasabi sa rider na maaari na niyang itabi ang karagdagang ₱5 bilang maliit na tip.

Pagkaraan ng ilang minuto, nang akala namin ay kakain na kami ng tanghalian, napansin namin na hindi pala pangalan namin ang nakasulat sa order kundi pangalan ng ibang tao.

Ito ang nakasulat sa papel na nakadikit sa plastik ng order:

FoodPanda
Order:
bqew-2623-c9dw

Punjabi Town Restaurant Gahol Avenue
13:14

Customer: Jenifer Omanglad
Pick-up Time: 14:06
4 items

At ang nakakatawa pa rito ay agad tinanggap ng rider ang ₱340 nang hindi man lang doblehin ang pag-check ng halaga.

Makalipas ang ilang minuto, dumating naman ang rider na may dala ng tunay naming order at nagpadala siya ng litrato ng mga order. Ngunit napakalabo ng larawan at hindi namin matukoy ang eksaktong lugar kung saan niya umano iniwan ang mga ito. Nakakatawa rin dahil hindi man lang niya hiningi ang bayad na ₱335, at hindi rin siya naghanap ng paraan upang makontak kami. Hindi rin niya sinasagot nang maayos ang aking mga mensahe sa Ingles at putol-putol ang kanyang Tagalog.

Nakipag-ugnayan ako sa Food Panda at ipinaalam ang nangyari. Ayon sa kanila, na-refund ang halaga, ngunit hindi ko naibalik ang ₱340 o kahit ang ₱335, kahit sa Food Panda Wallet. Gayunpaman, narito ang ilang mga aral na nais kong ibahagi:

1. Opisyal na para sa akin na mas maayos ang GrabFood kaysa FoodPanda sa maraming aspeto, maliban na lamang kung magsisikap ang FoodPanda na pagbutihin ang kanilang kakayahan at pagiging maaasahan.

2. Mas mabuting piliin ang Cash on Delivery (COD) sa karamihan ng pagkakataon kaysa magbayad nang maaga at umasa na maihahatid ng rider ang order sa tamang lokasyon.

3. Bago ibigay ang bayad sa rider, mas mabuting doblehin o triplehin pa ang pag-check sa paper bag o plastik na ibinibigay niya at tiyaking tama ang pangalan ng customer na nakasulat sa resibo o papel na nakadikit dito.

4. Marahil ay nais ni Allah, ang Pinakamaalam, na matikman namin ang ibang putahe mula sa Indian restaurant na pinag-orderan namin.

5. Sinubukan kong hanapin at kontakin si Jenifer Omanglad, at QaddarAllahu wa maa shaa-a fa'al, wala akong nahanap na epektibong paraan upang makausap siya. Kaya saan man siya naroroon, humihingi ako ng paumanhin dahil nakain namin ang kanyang brunch, tanghalian, o meryenda ngayon.

Minsan ay itinatalaga ni Allah, ang Pinakamaawain, ang ilang mga hindi inaasahang pangyayari at hindi pagkakaunawaan upang magkaroon tayo ng pagkakataong magbahagi ng mahahalagang aral sa iba, lalo na sa mga bago pa lamang gumagamit ng FoodPanda at GrabFood.

Huwag maging masyadong mabilis sa pagtanggap ng mga naihatid na order nang hindi sinusuri ang laman nito, at huwag magmadaling magbigay ng bayad sa rider. Tanungin muna sila kung magkano ang kabuuang halaga ng order. Kung ang sagot nila ay hindi tugma sa halagang inaasahan mo, maaaring nasa maling address ang rider.

Nawa’y pagkalooban tayo ni Allah, ang Makapangyarihan, ng higit pang karunungan at magsilbing aral ito sa sinumang sadyang nagpapakomplikado sa ating buhay sa anumang paraan, lalo na kaugnay ng kakulangan sa maayos na pagganap ng dalawang rider ng Food Panda.

Ameen.

HasbunAllahu wa Ni'mal Wakeel.

 

🏍️ Sharing some lessons learned Alhamdulillah so others won't follow my mistake of giving the rider the money before even checking the contents and reading the receipt or sheet of paper attached to the plastic bag.

Today we ordered some food from some South Asian restaurant and it so happened that I received a call from a rider. So assuming that the rider arrived I asked someone to collect the orders and give the payment 340 php while informing the rider he can keep the additional 5 pesos as a small tip. After some minutes when we thought we're about to have lunch we realized that the name of the customer isn't our name but somebody else's.

This was typed on the sheet of paper attached to the plastic bag of orders:
FoodPanda
order:
bqew-2623-c9dw

Punjabi Town Restaurant Gahol Avenue
13:14

Customer: Jenifer Omanglad
Pick up time 14:06 4 items

And what's funny is that the rider immediately accepted the 340 pesos without double checking the amount.

A few minutes later the rider delivering our orders arrived and sent us a photo of the orders but it was very unclear - like we couldn't tell the precise location of the orders where he accordingly dropped. It's funny he didn't even demand his payment which is 335 php nor did he ask anyone to contact us. He wasn't even answering my messages in English and putol putol Tagalog.

I contacted Food Panda and informed them about what happened and accordingly the amount was refunded but I never got the 340 pesos or 335 pesos back, not in the Food Panda wallet. Anyhow some lessons learned to share:

1. It's official that GrabFood is generally a gazillion times better than FoodPanda until FoodPanda does its best to improve in competency and reliability.
2. It's better to choose the Cash On Delivery option most of the time rather than paying for your orders in advance and hoping the rider delivers your orders to the correct destination.
3. Before giving the payment to the rider, it's better to double or even triple check the paper bags or plastic bag he or she gives you and make sure that the customer's name typed on the sheet of paper or receipt attached is correct.
4. Maybe Allah the Most Wise wanted us to try other dishes from the Indian restaurant we ordered from.
5. I tried my best to contact a Jenifer Omanglad and QaddarAllahu wa maa shaa-a fa'al I couldn't find any effective way to contact her. So wherever she is - I'm sorry we consumed your brunch or lunch or merienda today.

Sometimes Allah the Most Merciful decrees particular mishaps and misunderstandings to occur so some of us can share some valuable lessons learned with others, particularly those who may be new to using FoodPanda and GrabFood apps.

Don't be too quick in receiving the delivered items without checking the contents and don't rush in giving the rider the amount. Ask them what is the total amount of your orders and if his or her response doesn't match what you believe the price should be then perhaps that rider arrived at the incorrect address.

May Allah the Almighty grant us more wisdom and teach a lesson to all those who try to deliberately complicate our lives in any way, specifically regarding the incompetency of two riders from Food Panda. Ameen.

HasbunAllah wa Ne'm Al-Wakeel.


 May Allah the Almighty severely punish those two riders and their troublesome likes for their wrongdoings and show them Allah's Justice always in both worlds. Ameen.

Summary by ChatGPT:

The author shared a real-life delivery mishap to help others avoid making the same mistake. After receiving a call from a rider, the author assumed their food order had arrived and asked someone else to collect the package and pay ₱340, even adding a ₱5 tip. A few minutes later, they discovered that the order actually belonged to someone else—specifically a customer named Jenifer Omanglad.

The rider accepted the payment without verifying whether the amount matched the order. Later, another rider arrived with the author's actual order, but the delivery photo provided was blurry and unclear. Communication with the rider was also difficult. The author contacted FoodPanda and was informed that a refund had been processed, although there was still confusion regarding the payments involved.

The incident led the author to reflect on the importance of checking receipts, customer names, order details, and payment amounts before accepting deliveries or handing over money. The author also viewed the experience as an opportunity to learn valuable lessons and share them with others.

41 Lessons Learned

Always verify the customer's name before accepting a delivery.


Never hand over payment before checking the order.


Read the receipt or attached order slip carefully.


Confirm the order number when possible.


Double-check the restaurant name.


Verify the total amount before paying.


Don't assume a rider is carrying your order.


A few seconds of checking can prevent major inconvenience.


Avoid making decisions in haste.


Communicate clearly with anyone receiving deliveries on your behalf.


Keep screenshots of your order details.


Know the expected total cost of your purchase.


Compare the payment amount with the receipt.


Ask questions when something seems unusual.


Pay attention to small details.


Customer vigilance is important.


Riders should also verify customer information.


Professionalism matters in delivery services.


Mistakes can happen in any system.


Prevention is easier than resolution.


Documentation helps resolve disputes.


Learn the refund process of delivery platforms.


Stay calm when problems occur.


Effective communication is essential.


Proof-of-delivery photos should be clear and useful.


Technology cannot eliminate human error.


Do not rely entirely on assumptions.


Verify before trusting.


Accountability is important for both customers and riders.


Every mistake can become a learning opportunity.


Delivery issues can reveal weaknesses in a system.


Good habits save time and money.


Paying attention protects your interests.


Triple-checking is sometimes worth the effort.


One experience can educate many people.


Financial losses often teach lasting lessons.


Patience helps when dealing with customer support.


Personal responsibility remains important even when others make mistakes.


Reflection turns frustration into wisdom.


Every inconvenience can contain a valuable lesson.


Sharing experiences can help others avoid similar problems.


41 Blessings in Disguise

It highlighted the importance of verification.


It encouraged greater caution in future deliveries.


It provided a practical learning experience.


It created an opportunity to educate others.


It increased awareness of customer rights.


It encouraged better record-keeping.


It reinforced the value of attention to detail.


It improved preparedness for future delivery issues.


It revealed potential weaknesses in delivery procedures.


It encouraged patience during stressful situations.


It provided experience dealing with customer support.


It strengthened problem-solving skills.


It encouraged greater financial awareness.


It highlighted the importance of communication.


It served as a reminder not to rush decisions.


It encouraged healthier skepticism and verification.


It helped identify possible red flags.


It increased appreciation for reliable service.


It became a real-world lesson in accountability.


It reminded everyone that mistakes happen.


It encouraged better household coordination.


It promoted more careful handling of cash transactions.


It strengthened awareness of order details.


It provided insight into how delivery systems operate.


It increased appreciation for accurate documentation.


It encouraged a more organized approach to online ordering.


It offered a chance to practice patience and self-control.


It became a story worth sharing with others.


It may prevent larger losses in the future.


It encouraged learning from setbacks rather than dwelling on them.


It highlighted the importance of customer involvement in the process.


It reinforced the value of personal responsibility.


It provided an opportunity to reflect on destiny and life's unexpected events.


It encouraged gratitude despite inconvenience.


It became a reminder that not everything is within our control.


It encouraged greater wisdom in future transactions.


It helped build resilience when facing minor losses.


It reminded people to trust but verify.


It transformed an unpleasant experience into a useful lesson.


It may help many other customers avoid similar mistakes.


It turned a frustrating incident into an opportunity for growth, awareness, and community benefit.

Tuesday, May 26, 2026

Note: What To Say On Eid Al-Adha

 بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 



🌻For Allah's sake regularly say "Allahu Akbar. (3 times) 
Laa ilaaha ilAllah.
Allahu Akbar. Allahu Akbar. 
Wa Lillahil Hamd."

Common categories of Muslims before Eid Al-Adha:
1. Those busy cleaning the house and preparing their residence to welcome guests 
2. Those busy packing Eid gifts or goodie bags to distribute to the kids
3. Those who are still browsing on their gadgets for some reason not feeling sleepy 
4. Those who are busy mincing spices and arranging the kitchen to prepare themselves for cooking large quantities of dishes 
5. Those who slept early 
6. Those who are praying Tahajjud late at night or saying Du'a
7. Those who are designing their virtual Eid Mubarak greetings and getting ready for their text to quickly copy and paste 
8. Those who are planning which resorts, beaches, restaurants or parks to go to next day 
9. Those who are eating late at night because they know they won't be able to eat before the Eid prayer until after the Eid Khutbah



Monday, May 25, 2026

Note: Sharing Some Advice And Tips On How To Protect Our Hearts As Muslims

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 
الْحَمْدُ للهِ نَحْمَدُه ونستعينُه ، ونستغفرُه ، ونعوذُ باللهِ من شرورِ أنفسِنا ، ومن سيئاتِ أعمالِنا ، مَن يَهْدِهِ اللهُ فلا مُضِلَّ له ، ومَن يُضْلِلْ فلا هادِيَ له ، وأشهدُ أن لا إله إلا اللهُ وحدَه لا شريكَ له ، وأشهدُ أنَّ مُحَمَّدًا عبدُه ورسولُه .

Al-Nu’man ibn Bashir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said:

أَلَا وَإِنَّ فِي الْجَسَدِ مُضْغَةً إِذَا صَلَحَتْ صَلَحَ الْجَسَدُ كُلُّهُ وَإِذَا فَسَدَتْ فَسَدَ الْجَسَدُ كُلُّهُ أَلَا وَهِيَ الْقَلْبُ

Verily, in the body is a piece of flesh which, if sound, the entire body is sound, and if corrupt, the entire body is corrupt. Truly, it is the heart.

Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 52, Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi 

Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “Verily, when the servant commits a sin, a black mark appears upon his heart. If he abandons the sin, seeks forgiveness, and repents, then his heart will be polished. If he returns to the sin, the blackness will be increased until it overcomes his heart. It is the covering that Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) has mentioned: No, rather a covering is over their hearts from what they have earned.” (The Noble Qur'an 83:14)

Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 3334

Grade: Hasan (fair) according to Al-Albani 

عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ عَنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ إِنَّ الْعَبْدَ إِذَا أَخْطَأَ خَطِيئَةً نُكِتَتْ فِي قَلْبِهِ نُكْتَةٌ سَوْدَاءُ فَإِذَا هُوَ نَزَعَ وَاسْتَغْفَرَ وَتَابَ سُقِلَ قَلْبُهُ وَإِنْ عَادَ زِيدَ فِيهَا حَتَّى تَعْلُوَ قَلْبَهُ وَهُوَ الرَّانُ الَّذِي ذَكَرَ اللَّهُ كَلَّا بَلْ رَانَ عَلَى قُلُوبِهِمْ مَا كَانُوا يَكْسِبُونَ

3334 سنن الترمذي كتاب تفسير القرآن باب ومن سورة ويل للمطففين

 3141 المحدث الألباني خلاصة حكم المحدث حسن

عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ الْمُؤْمِنُ الْقَوِيُّ خَيْرٌ وَأَحَبُّ إِلَى اللَّهِ مِنْ الْمُؤْمِنِ الضَّعِيفِ وَفِي كُلٍّ خَيْرٌ احْرِصْ عَلَى مَا يَنْفَعُكَ وَاسْتَعِنْ بِاللَّهِ وَلَا تَعْجِزْ وَإِنْ أَصَابَكَ شَيْءٌ فَلَا تَقُلْ لَوْ أَنِّي فَعَلْتُ كَانَ كَذَا وَكَذَا وَلَكِنْ قُلْ قَدَرُ اللَّهِ وَمَا شَاءَ فَعَلَ فَإِنَّ لَوْ تَفْتَحُ عَمَلَ الشَّيْطَانِ

2664 صحيح مسلم كتاب القدر باب في الأمر بالقوة وترك العجز والاستعانة بالله وتفويض المقادير لله

قال النووي قَوْلُهُ فَإِنَّ لَوْ تَفْتَحُ عَمَلَ الشَّيْطَانِ أَيْ يُلْقِي فِي الْقَلْبِ مُعَارَضَةَ الْقَدَرِ وَيُوَسْوِسُ بِهِ الشَّيْطَانُ

16/216 شرح النووي على مسلم

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 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “The strong believer is more beloved to Allah the Almighty than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: If only I had done something else! Rather say: Allah has decreed what He (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) wills. (QaddarAllahu wa maa shaa-a fa'al) Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan.

Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim

Al-Nawawi said, “His statement, ‘It opens the way for the work of Satan,’ means he casts into the heart opposition to the divine decree, and Satan tempts him with it.”

Source: Sharḥ Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 16/216

Allah the Almighty said in Surah An-Naas: 

Surah An-Nas

Source: Translation by Muhsin Khan and Taqi-ud-Din al-Hilali

١. قُلْ أَعُوذُ بِرَبِّ ٱلنَّاسِ
“Say: ‘I seek refuge with (Allah) the Lord of mankind,”

٢. مَلِكِ ٱلنَّاسِ
“The King of mankind,”

٣. إِلَٰهِ ٱلنَّاسِ
“The Ilah (God) of mankind,”

٤. مِن شَرِّ ٱلْوَسْوَاسِ ٱلْخَنَّاسِ
“From the evil of the whisperer (devil who whispers evil in the hearts of men) who withdraws (from his whispering in one’s heart after one remembers Allah),”

٥. ٱلَّذِي يُوَسْوِسُ فِي صُدُورِ ٱلنَّاسِ
“Who whispers in the hearts of mankind,”

٦. مِنَ ٱلْجِنَّةِ وَٱلنَّاسِ
“Of jinn and men.”


عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ عَنْ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ يَدْخُلُ الْجَنَّةَ أَقْوَامٌ أَفْئِدَتُهُمْ مِثْلُ أَفْئِدَةِ الطَّيْرِ

2840 صحيح مسلم كتاب الجنة وصفة نعيمها وأهلها باب يدخل الجنة أقوام أفئدتهم مثل أفئدة الطير

قال النووي قيل معْنَاهُ مُتوَكِّلُون وقِيلَ قُلُوبُهُمْ رقِيقةٌ

 1/59 رياض الصالحين باب اليقين والتوكل

Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “People whose hearts are like the hearts of birds will enter Paradise.

Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2840

Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim

Al-Nawawi said, “It is said to mean those who rely upon Allah, or those who have soft hearts.”

Source: Riyāḍ al-Ṣāliḥīn 1/45

عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قال حُرِّمَ عَلَى عَيْنَيْنِ أَنْ تَنَالَهُمَا النَّارُ عَيْنٌ بَكَتْ مِنْ خَشْيَةِ اللهِ وَعَيْنٌ بَاتَتْ تَحْرُسُ الْإِسْلَامَ وَأَهْلَهُ مِنْ أَهْلِ الْكُفْرِ

3930 شعب الإيمان الجهاد

3323 المحدث الألباني خلاصة حكم المحدث صحيح لغيره في صحيح الترغيب

Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “Two eyes are forbidden from being consumed by the Hellfire: an eye weeping from the fear of Allah, and an eye standing guard for Islam and its people against unbelief.

Source: Shu’ab al-Imān 3930

Grade: Sahih li ghayrihi (authentic due to external evidence) according to Al-Albani 

Dear sisters in Islam of various ages and tribes,

Whether you're in college or you're done with high school life,

Or you manage a business, or you work late at night,

Or you're a busy teacher, nursing student, or wife,

Regardless of your background, please welcome some advice:

~•~

Sharing some advice, and Only Allah truly guides 

Whom He Wills to the truth and to Jannah Paradise:

Dear sisters, protect your hearts with Dhikr day and night.

Humbly say Du'a. Ask Allah for your needs and likes.

Say Du'a especially during Qiyaam Al-Layl.

~•~

When supplicating to Allah don't feel shy to cry.

Allah the Most Wise hears us and sees us at all times.

Even for minor and simple things never feel shy 

To ask Allah the All-Hearing for your needs and likes,

Like praying you'll marry a rich, righteous Muslim guy.

~•~

From the ways to shield your heart is to stay safe online.

Stay away from time-consuming reels and toxic vibes,

Far away from scammers, liars and clowns who backbite,

Away from doubtful content mostly made with AI,

And away from keyboard warriors who just waste our time.

~•~

Avoid all forms of fitna by choosing to be wise.

Be smart with spending money - myself I first remind.

Do charity when you can, and don't be way too kind - 

Too kind that you end up with debts or forget your rights.

Teacups can't fill any mug if they're empty inside.

~•~

Another way to safeguard your heart is simply by 

Abandoning every sin which Allah does not like.

Shun bid'ah, listening to music to pass the time,

Visiting fortunetellers who make money through lies,

Gambling and greedily desiring this worldly life.

~•~

More ways to ensure your heart is secure day and night,

With Allah's Will: Obey Allah. Respect Allah's Rights.

When trials sometimes arise, try not to question "why?"

But stay firm and pray that everything will be alright,

If not soon in this world then surely in Paradise.

~•~

Patiently accept Allah's Qadr when He denies, 

When He rejects, declines or withholds from us at times, 

Or when He delays certain things so we realize 

Our shortcomings, so to do Tawbah we get inspired,

And so we don't overestimate ourselves with pride.

~•~

Another thing to keep in mind if we wish to thrive 

With our faith Imaan levels remaining strong or high:

Continue seeking knowledge from sources which are right, 

Read the Noble Qur'an often, more verses recite,

Shield ourselves with Dhikr from magic and evil eyes.

~•~

Detach from shameful traits like envying others' lives,

Nosily spying on strangers online and offline,

Showing ingratitude - not easily satisfied, 

Disrespecting elders, to youngsters being unkind,

And immodesty in one's speech, actions and attire.

~•~

Don't copy silly trends. Your honor don't sacrifice.

All humans are imperfect. Don't chase applause and likes.

Don't follow crowds. Most people may not reach Paradise.

Don't go near injustice - even with those we despise.

What goes around comes around - if not on earth, next life.

~•~

Some signs of good souls with soft hearts filled with noor or light:

Shedding tears when they say Du'a, when they sympathize,

When reading the Qur'an, when the truth they recognize,

When forgiving a fellow Muslim after some fights,

And when yearning for entry to Jannah Paradise.

~•~

More signs of true believers with tender hearts alight:

One: Willingness to join circles where they are inspired 

To learn and share Islam, and serve Allah the Most Kind.

Two: Rest assured, they don't get jealous; they'll just admire - 

Look up to sincere Muslims not attached to this life.

~•~

Third sign of beautiful souls with tender hearts alive:

Eagerness to do more than what they should do. They strive 

To please Allah when opportunities they can find, 

Like praying Salat Ad-Duha, Tahajjud at night,

And fasting Sunnah fasts like in Dhul-Hijjah day nine.

~•~

May Allah Al-Ghafoor forgive us for all those times 

When we disobeyed Him when our Imaan wasn't high,

May Allah As-Samee' and Al-Haadi always guide 

Us to the correct belief and path to Paradise,

And May Allah keep us from being lost and unwise. Ameen.

~•~

Saturday, May 23, 2026

Note: Sharing A Valuable Lesson Learned From Today's Tutorial Class

 بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

📝 Alhamdulillah the tutorial / summer class today at the SarahTel hotel on the establishment with Mubaarak Fresh Food - MAIN located right beside RANIA Muslim Wear and a few walks away from Masjid and Ma'had Salmonan as well as Nor-ash Boutique went well even if I had only one patient student attending this afternoon Alhamdulillah. 

May Allah the Almighty again bless the halal businesses of dear sister Juhainah Doñasales Javier and make all her travels and journeys easy and protect her and her Muslim loved ones at all times. Ameen. 

One thing I'd like to share with those who offer tutorial classes from their homes, neighborhood or region with their own unique traits, personality and strength is:
Never be attached to any of your students or tutees. A student attending classes on some days for some time isn't a full guarantee that they'll continue with you until they receive their awards, gifts or certificates of participation and appreciation. 
We've heard of such thing as "dropouts" who discontinued their studies each one with their own reasons for discontinuing.
Possible reasons why some students may stop attending your tutorial classes:
1. They probably realized the lessons were either too difficult or too easy and they believed they're not learning what they sought to learn or be educated about.
2. Their parents or guardians couldn't afford the tuition fees and transportation fees. 
3. They found other tutors or classes and their timings conflicted with the timings of your sessions. 
4. One of their parents or guardians possibly felt extremely insecure in your presence, maybe jealous of how you appeared more successful, productive or educated than them, or they resented how their child or kids talked about you positively often, so they decided to alleviate their emotional aches or insecurities by not supporting you because they can't stand seeing you doing so much better than them in many ways. 
5. They had to relocate or move to a different city or village and they are not into online tutorial classes.

Always keep in mind that people, like feelings and emotions, are undeniably temporary. They come and go. This is why we shouldn't be attached to fellow human beings. For Allah's sake stay contented and continue doing what you hope can bring us much closer to Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala. 

The sudden loss of interest from certain customers, clients or tutees and students doesn't necessarily imply you've done a terrible job at entertaining them but their departure from our life story signifies we should trust Only Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala rather than attempting to rely on fellow servants with loads of limitations, restrictions and tendency to make bad choices now and then.

Alhamdulillah 'ala kulli haal. If some exit or transfer etc. let them be that's their decision. We were not created for every single soul out there to be glued to us or to remain in our network and circle forever.

Allah's Love may oftentimes be shown in removing particular individuals from your proximities online and offline so that we recall to only depend on Him Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala and so we get used to not expecting too much from people. 

Note: No class Inn-sha-Allah this Thursday but perhaps this Monday we can continue and next Saturday etc.
Feel free to DM to be added to the group chat if you're interested in some face to face classes here in Davao city or online classes for kids, teens and adults in English language ✨