Note: Some Reminders From An INTJ Muslimah (116)

 بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Note: Invitation To Donate To The Masjid At Wisdom Islamic School And To Attend My Upcoming Speech In English Language

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

🕌This Jumuah Friday Inn-sha-Allah March 13 (the 23rd/24th day of Ramadan 1447H) may be the last Jumuah Friday of this blessed month Ramadan.
All residents of Davao city are welcome to pray at the Masjid here and donate for Allah's sake with any amount they can sincerely give to help with repairing the windows of the Masjid at Wisdom Islamic School.

It is preferable to arrive a few minutes before 11:45 AM.

💎✨Reminder to read Surah Al-Kahf every Jumuah Friday and include the Muslim Ummah in our frequent Dua supplications.

https://bit.ly/wis-donate

➡️ Maya Wallet and GCash
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ustadh AbdurRahman Mababaya

📱💻Link to the free virtual Islamic lecture 

Inn-sha-Allah this Saturday March 14 (24th/25th day of Ramadan 1447H) from around 4:30 PM to 5:15 PM here in the Philippines and from about 11:30 AM to 12:15 PM according to the timing in Saudi Arabia

🎤 Speaker: sister Mariam Mababaya (MA Islamic Studies and one of the faculty members of Wisdom Islamic School in Davao city Philippines - also offering online distance learning for students from grade kindergarten to grade twelve)

Language: English 

💎 Topic: "From Overwhelm To Overflow: Sharing Some Tips On How To Not Let Fleeting Emotions Control Us"

You're welcome to invite other listeners ✨

http://meet.google.com/ate-bmav-wge

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/12/note-some-advice-on-how-to-manage-ones.html

Poem: It's My Choice To Wear The Hijab And Niqab For Allah's Sake

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

📑 Despite having the choice to wear whatever I like, 

From sleeveless and backless tops to pants that are so tight, 

I choose to wear the niqab whenever I'm outside 

And when I am in the presence of non-mahram guys, 

Not to imply I'm an Arab nor to terrify 

Fellow humans but to serve just Allah the Most Wise 

Who doesn't judge our looks but sees our hearts - what's inside.

~•~

I'm not oppressed by staying modest. Yes, it's my right 

To choose which of my body parts I can show and hide.

Fellow servants nearby - I don't want them judging my 

Overall self and value according to my smiles 

And whether my nose is long or my cheekbones are high.

Should we be asked how we all breathe, we could simply sigh:

Alhamdulillah you hear us talking. Don't you lie.

~•~

For Allah we dress modestly, and we're not obliged 

To follow the fashion industry nor "be in style", 

We're alive to please Only Allah through what He likes - 

By obeying Allah's Laws as much as we can try, 

Instead of impressing people - most with jealous eyes.

To us, the niqab and hijab nicely symbolize 

Servitude to Allah and detachment from this life.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah (The Almighty), and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of (our enemy) shaytan." 

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664 

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/05/note-advice-for-sisters-interested-in.html

Note: Avoid Jealous People - Don't Be Like Them In Feeling Jealous And Insecure

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

⚠️3 common bad habits of insecure females who painfully envy you:
1. They purposely go out of their way to exclude you whenever you can. For example, if they give some gifts or souvenirs to a group, they intentionally ignore you and desperately want you to know they left you out just so their emotional distress in feeling jealous of you would be relieved slightly. Or in a group chat online - they readily answer other chat members' questions yet whenever you're the one asking questions they simply leave you on "seen" or "read" mode - obnoxiously on a regular basis and it's obvious they're evading you.
2. They're consistently terrible at communicating with you. As much as possible they stay away from responding to your messages and fear being confronted by you offline because your mere presence triggers them to feel so inferior or extremely uneasy - full of intense jealousy, recalling how a lot of your notable and admirable qualities and numerous achievements or talents Alhamdulillah outshine or surpass their insecurities.
3. You notice their frequent scowls or sarcastic eye rolls whenever you must speak to them as if they're tired of hearing you talk due to feeling smaller than you or incompetent somehow. "Ugh, there she goes again talking to me as if she has to remind me she's way better than me in many ways. Every time she contributes something I feel as though I'm not as marvelous as her" etc.

✅ Three things you can do when you have no choice but to occasionally deal with very sad and envious individuals who want to upset you so they're not the only ones who are emotionally disturbed:
1. Stay unfazed and unaffected by their lousy efforts to sadden you in any way. Don't copy their unkindness. In fact, keep winning and doing better than them in having more beautiful character and maintaining basic courtesy.
2. Gladly unfollow them on social media and don't take their words seriously. Whatever news they publicly share with others - just brush them off and focus on your own road, circle and ambitions.
3. Learn to be completely different from them. Confidently refrain from making any human feel excluded as much as you can because you're not an insecure jealous overgrown bully.

May Allah the Almighty grant us more wisdom and guidance and keep us away from those who have negative motives against us. Ameen.

Note: Some Reminders From An INTJ Muslimah (115)

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