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💌 Five tips to cope with your husband's absence on Eid while he is employed in another city / country or he is with his other wife:
1] As a Muslim, Alhamdulillah, patiently accept Allah's Qadr/Decree that your husband is unable to join you for the Eid prayer. Eagerly look forward to earning more rewards and love from Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala for striving to stay patient for His sake.
2] Understand that you're not the only married female on earth whose husband is frequently unavailable. Somewhere around the globe is a wife who hasn't hugged her husband for some time because he's working or studying in a faraway country while another is capable of staying loyal despite not seeing her spouse who's been behind bars for several years.
3] Before and/or after the Eid prayer send a loving message to your husband. Confidently refrain from feeling upset or disappointed if he can't always answer your messages or calls promptly.
4] Avoid emulating shaytan in being prone to acting on jealousy. Every time you notice couples, whether Muslims or not, visibly enjoying pleasant moments together, delightedly be more inspired and motivated to remain stubbornly loyal to the man whom Allah the Most Wise chose as your soulmate.
5] Persistently remind yourself that this world, its ornaments and the trials which come with it are all temporary. Eternal bliss and actual joy can be enjoyed in Jannatul Ferdaus. Aspire to deserve Jannah Paradise with your husband, so continue mentioning him a lot in your loving supplications and being his faithful friend and wife for Allah's sake with limitless patience and empathy.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1159
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi
Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."
Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātih 5/2125
📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best wealth is a tongue that remembers Allah, a grateful heart, and a believing wife to help one in his faith."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3094
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
