بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين

بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين
May Allah the Almighty grant us more beneficial knowledge, accept our good deeds, forgive our mistakes, protect us from fitna, and join us with the righteous believers in Jannatul Ferdaus. Ameen.

Saturday, May 20, 2023

Note: 5 Things Which Some INTJs Can't Resist When They Truly Care About You For Allah's Sake

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
📝 Five things which many INTJs can't resist doing when they truly care about you and like you for Allah's sake as a friend or loved one (if they do at least three of these, they regard you as a friend, not just an acquaintance or uninteresting stranger): 
1] They deliberately find ways to prolong most of their conversations with you online and face to face, to the point of interviewing you enthusiastically with totally random questions about yourself because they're actually interested in improving the connection. 
2] They frequently browse through your Facebook status updates, at least once every two weeks (instead of never visiting again ever since discovering your timeline/page/profile), and they're genuinely curious about what you can contribute. Plus points if they post some encouraging comments on a lot of your posts whenever they aren't busy. 
3] They seldom complain about your delayed responses. Your act of leaving some of their messages on "seen" mode doesn't affect them at all negatively, because they understand how you can get preoccupied with other tasks and responsibilities at times. When an INTJ is deeply concerned about your well-being for Allah's sake, they're amazingly patient with you and forgive your shortcomings easily.
4] Without hesitancy, they're capable of defending you, verbally and physically, in both your presence and absence. If an INTJ quickly goes out of their way to ensure you don't feel awkward, embarrassed and uncomfortable during any meeting or large gathering, despite being an introvert, take that as a clear sign that their affection for you is 100% certain (authentic, not questionable). 
5] At least once a year or every five months, they make the first move in asking if they can visit you, or if they occasionally share with you some links to a number of online Islamic lectures, or they eagerly invite you to join them for an outing etc.
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📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith (Imaan)."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: A bedouin asked the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam “When is the Hour?” The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “What have you prepared for it?” The man said, “Love for Allah and His Messenger (SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam).” The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "You will be with those whom you love."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3435
Sahih Muslim 2639
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are like conscripted soldiers. They come together upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109
Sahih Muslim 2638

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Note: Five Reasons Why A Lot Of Celebrities Commit Suicide, Tips To Avoid Suicidal Thoughts

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
📝 Five probable reasons why a lot of celebrities took their own lives despite their affluence, luxurious lifestyles, artificial smiles, privilege to travel often, and popularity (Note: suicide is a major sin in Islam): 
1] They didn't have sufficient understanding of their true goals and purpose in life. Not knowing the real reason of one's existence (to worship our Only God and Creator Allah the Almighty until we meet Him Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) can cause some to consider suicide if they try to survive every night and day doing the same mundane tasks without significant meaning. 
2] Inability to tolerate or withstand the feeling of "emptiness", as though they're lacking something important for them to feel genuinely at peace from within. The more distant a servant is from his/her Master Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala, the more their heart or soul gets distressed due to failing to fulfill their actual responsibilities.
3] Feeling disappointed, unappreciated or devalued when they don't receive recognition or special treatment as they were so accustomed to the limelight and their fans' admiration, or doubting their self-worth the moment they're criticized or feel left out in a group and social events. It is impossible to attain contentment when an individual is constantly desperate for the approval of fellow servants instead of striving to please Only Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala Who always knows best what is beneficial for His slaves.
4] Instead of being granted freedom to do what they want, most of the time they felt like oppressed puppets or downtrodden slaves to their bosses, employers, publicists, parents or "supporters" etc. and they really struggled while trying to satisfy everybody's demands. There's no point in tirelessly entertaining others if you yourself aren't happy from inside.
5] Feeling defeated when rivals or other famous people surpass them in any way. As long as a person is extremely insecure, selfish, and overcome by intense jealousy, and they're in a persistent competition with most of the humans whom Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'alaa decrees that they meet, they are far from enjoying serenity.
✅ To avoid suicidal thoughts which are typically suggested by our enemy shaytan: 
1) Recall why Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala created us and focus on accomplishing that main noble mission.
2) Strive to maintain strong connection with Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala by continuously seeking authentic knowledge of Islam, saying Dhikr and Du'a regularly, appreciating Allah's numerous blessings upon you, and increasing your good deeds done sincerely for Allah's sake. 
3) Understand that all human beings are flawed and they've got their own share of problems to solve. Don't expect everyone on earth to shower you with gifts, compliments, cheerful vibes, greetings and invitations 24/7.
4) Be tough enough for Allah's sake to say no and decline certain requests when necessary. Never do something which goes against your self-respect and 'Aqeedah belief.
5) Research and learn more about Allah's Prophets including His noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam and realize that righteousness doesn't mean your life will be absolutely devoid of challenges but the closer you get to Allah the Most Wise, the more He Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala sends different trials oftentimes to expiate past sins and/or elevate your status in Jannah Paradise whose inhabitants will no longer suffer nor be tested with shaytan's evil insinuations.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Let none of you wish for death. If he is righteous, he might increase his good deeds. If he is sinful, he might repent."
In another narration, the beloved Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "When one of you dies, his deeds are terminated. Verily, the life of a believer does not increase but in goodness."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6808
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Nothing afflicts a Muslim of hardship, nor illness, nor anxiety, nor sorrow, nor harm, nor distress, nor even the pricking of a thorn, but that Allah will expiate his sins by it."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5318, Sahih Muslim 2573
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever kills himself with a piece of iron, his piece of iron in his hand will be thrust into his stomach in the fire of Hell forever and ever. Whoever drinks poison and kills himself, he will consume it in the fire of Hell forever and ever. Whoever throws himself off a mountain and kills himself, he will tumble into the fire of Hell forever and ever."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5442
Sahih Muslim 109
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

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