Note: On Fearing Only Allah The Almighty While Having An Intimidating Personality

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Three signs that you're close to Allah the Almighty and you have a good soul despite being viewed by some people as "intimidating": 

1] You continue doing deeds which you believe can please Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala, even if a number of individuals seem weirded out by your stubbornness, perseverance, and resilience. People's mockery, disapproval, and criticism don't bother you at all, which is why those with low self-confidence find you very "intimidating" or describe you as "unapproachable". 

2] Generally it's easier for you to interact with most animals, cats, birds, young children, nephews, nieces, and infants, yet when it comes to certain adults who are around your age or older, you may struggle to connect if they are jealously threatened by you or being too different from them triggers disharmony. 

3] With Allah's Love and Support, you're capable of waking up regularly to pray Tahajjud / Qiyaam Al-Layl and you're granted access to authentic Islamic knowledge, regardless of how many fans and stalkers you have. 

While Allah the Most Wise can grant wealth to anybody whom He chooses, He Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala generously bestows Islam, wisdom, and guidance only upon the special few whom He loves. 

The unwavering faith/Imaan, Taqwa, and strong personality of 'Umar ibn Al-Khattaab RadhiAllahu 'anhu are what caused shaytan to be afraid of him. Before you wonder if Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala likes you or not because some souls are terrified of approaching you, understand that not all rejected items or individuals are avoided due to their insignificant value, but whoever dismissed them probably rejected them as they couldn't afford them, the darkness they may be carrying can't handle bright vibes, or their souls are too glued to dunya's fleeting joys that they don't want to be near anyone who reminds them to focus on better alternatives in Jannah Paradise. 

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📖 Ibn 'Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: I was riding behind the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam when he said to me, "Young man, I will teach you some words. Be mindful of Allah and He will protect you. Be mindful of Allah and you will find Him before you. If you ask, ask from Allah. If you seek help, seek help from Allah. Know that if the nations were to gather together to benefit you, they will not benefit you unless Allah has decreed it for you. And if the nations gathered together to harm you, they will not harm you unless Allah has decreed it for you. The pens have been lifted and the pages have dried."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2516

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to At-Tirmidhi 

📖 Sa'd bin Abi Waqqas RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: 'Umar bin Al-Khattab RadhiAllahu 'anhu asked the permission of Allah's Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam to see him while some Quraishi women were sitting with him, talking to him and asking him for more expenses, raising their voices above the voice of Allah's Messenger SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. When 'Umar RadhiAllahu 'anhu asked for the permission to enter, the women quickly put on their veils. Allah's Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam allowed him to enter and 'Umar RadhiAllahu 'anhu came in while Allah's Messenger SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam was smiling, 'Umar RadhiAllahu 'anhu said, "O Allah's Messenger! May Allah always keep you smiling." The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "These women who have been here, roused my wonder, for as soon as they heard your voice, they quickly put on their veils." 'Umar RadhiAllahu 'anhu said, "O Allah's Messenger (SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam)! You have more right to be feared by them than I." Then 'Umar RadhiAllahu 'anhu addressed the women saying, "O enemies of yourselves! You fear me more than you do Allah's Messenger (SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam)?" They said, "Yes, for you are harsher and sterner than Allah's Messenger (SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam)." Then Allah's Messenger (SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) said, "O Ibn Al-Khattab! By Him (Allah the Almighty) in Whose Hands my life is! Never does shaytan find you going on a way, but he takes another way other than yours."

Reference: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3683

In-book reference: Book 62, Hadith 33

USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 5, Book 57, Hadith 32 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/11/poem-be-humble-all-humans-are-allahs.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/02/poem-signs-of-people-who-are.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/01/poem-tips-to-not-feel-intimidated-by.html 

Poem: What It Means To Be Truly Happy In Marriage Life

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 What does true happiness mean when you've become a wife? 

What does real joy feel like when you've entered marriage life? 

Caressing and cuddling with your spouse day and night? 

Dating your soulmate often to be spoiled with delight?

Gushing over how in many ways you seem alike? 

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Taking photos together then displaying your smiles 

On social media to inspire envy and earn likes? 

Exchanging love letters and poetry oftentimes? 

Cooking fancy meals for each other once in a while?

Receiving hugs and gifts whenever your man arrives? 

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Contentment is better than happiness, FYI, 

Because once you're contented, you're fully satisfied. 

When you're content with the guy whom Allah the Most Wise

Selected as your travel partner to Paradise,  

You won't ask for someone else; you'd love him till he dies. 

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To be happy as your husband's grateful, patient wife, 

Is to enjoy strong faith/Imaan and peace from inside. 

Increasing Shukr and Sabr are what you've acquired 

While striving to maintain contentment in marriage life. 

Through this love for Allah, you're enlightened and inspired. 

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If you're happy, don't compare yourself to other wives. 

Instead, keep mentioning your man's name each day and night 

In your loving prayers, asking Allah the Most Wise 

To always bless your marriage so you both reunite 

In Jannah where euphoria and pleasure never die.

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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "The most complete of believers in faith are those with the best character, and the best of you are the best in behavior to their women."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1162

Grade: Sahih 

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/02/poem-genuine-love-is-in-getting-married.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/03/poem-three-signs-that-your-marriage-is.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/06/note-if-you-have-good-intentions-you.html