💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Five qualities which most covert narcissists possess,
And although they seem "humble", "shy" and "introverted",
Inwardly they're conceited, most of the time selfish,
Proud enough to show disrespect, too weak to forgive,
And kibr incites them to be manipulative:
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One: Arrogance keeps them from forgiving wrongs you did.
Despite your apologies and gifts you sometimes give,
They can't pardon and move on but sink in deep hatred.
Two: They judge people based on looks and socialize with
Just those who are attractive, who share their foul motives.
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Three: Though generally they're not very talkative,
When they're with close friends they indulge in toxic gossip,
Backbiting about others like insecure critics.
Four: They'd only be "nice" if you do what they request.
They're unfair and unkind when they get disappointed.
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Five: Prone to jealousy, when others attain success
They act distant, unsupportive, uninterested,
And they'd offer wrong tips so their rivals cannot rest.
Internally they rejoice when seeing you upset,
And when you're thriving they'd pretend they didn't notice.
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Since your faith and feelings can't stay safe with narcissists
Who mainly wish to connect so their own needs are met,
Avoid them for Allah's sake, help only when needed,
And in amplifying their pride don't ever assist.
Through them, practice shunning what Allah prohibited.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Charity does not decrease wealth, no one forgives another but that Allah increases his honor, and no one humbles himself for the sake of Allah but that Allah raises his status."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2588
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Abdullah Ibn Mas'ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No one who has the weight of a seed (or atom) of arrogance in his heart will enter Paradise." Someone said, "But a man loves to have beautiful clothes and shoes." The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah is Beautiful and He loves beauty. Arrogance means rejecting the truth and looking down on the people."
In another narration, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No one who has the weight of a seed of faith in his heart will enter Hellfire."
Source: Sahih Muslim 91
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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