Poem: Dismiss shaytan's Whispers As He Tries To Disrupt Your Marriage

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Because Allah is the One Who destined your marriage, 

And your soulmate was by Allah wisely selected, 

shaytan the accursed will try his best to destroy it - 

That beautiful connection Allah planned and witnessed. 

Whatever Allah makes - shaytan attempts to damage.

~•~

Constantly comparing your man to your friends' husbands, 

Admiring the looks of male celebs and non-mahrams, 

Wishing that your husband was slightly more good-looking, 

Receiving his late messages with disappointment, 

And counting his faults are from shaytan's foul suggestions.

~•~

You wouldn't complain easily if you're contented, 

Satisfied with your soulmate whom Allah appointed. 

You wouldn't whine about your guy not being perfect, 

If you're wise enough to know you're likewise imperfect.

Your true love for Allah's sake helps you forgive defects.

~•~

Complaining about your husband's job or low income, 

Disdaining how his distance decreased your attraction, 

Disliking how his female colleagues, clients, patients, 

Students or customers get more of his attention, 

And recalling his flaws are from shaytan's deceptions.

~•~

The demon wants you to think, "Dang, this man is useless. 

With him working away from me, I don't feel married." 

When you can drop your ego, pray for your man's success, 

Support him with fierce loyalty, patience and courage, 

Preferring Jannah where you can perfectly connect.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1159

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi

Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."

Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātih 5/2125

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."

Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 4252

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Jabir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, shaytan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations. One of them says: 'I have done this and this.' shaytan says: 'you have done nothing.' Another one says: 'I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife.' shaytan embraces him and he says: 'you have done well!'"

Source: Sahih Muslim 2813

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

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Poem: Some Advice To Overcome Extreme Shyness Or Social Anxiety

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Some benefits of being shy in a pleasant way: 

Less interest in speaking. Less talk means less mistakes.

Less need to share one's thoughts. No chance to humiliate 

Or insult others and bring them to a dismal state.

Being an awesome listener is another trait.

~•~

In certain cases though, shyness can debilitate: 

When you can contribute ideas, but hesitate;

When you can't apply Islam, feeling too "shy" to pray; 

When you can help someone, but instead you walk away; 

And when you can't defend yourself since you carry shame.

~•~

Shyness isn't cute if Allah's slaves keep you afraid, 

If you fear the people more than Allah Who creates 

Different challenges to check the strength of your faith. 

Rather than worrying about what people will say, 

Focus on serving Allah. Strive to fulfill your aims.

~•~

Remember that all humans are like you in some ways: 

They have weaknesses, worries, get stressed out on some days, 

They sweat, feel nervous, they're not in perfect moods always, 

Sometimes they get nightmares, setbacks, critics full of hate, 

And when checking lists most people first search for their names.

~•~

Don't speculate people are judging you everyday. 

Your deliberate actions, choices you firmly make, 

And your style are not for humans to evaluate. 

Do what makes you happy, specially for Allah's sake. 

Don't let shyness stop you from winning on Judgment Day.

~•~

📖 Abu Sa'eed Al-Khudri RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam was more modest than a virgin in seclusion. If he SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam saw something that he disliked, we would see it on his face.

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5751 

Sahih Muslim 2320

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Modesty and reticence (being reserved) are two branches of faith. Profanity and temerity (audacity) are two branches of hypocrisy."

At-Tirmidhi said, “Reticence is to speak little. Profanity is to speak obscenely. Temerity is to speak too often (shamelessly), such as those preachers who preach at great length and with eloquence, to be praised by people in what is not pleasing to Allah.”

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2027

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase 'if only' opens the way for the work of shaytan."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/05/note-when-to-have-shyness.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/04/poem-five-tips-to-cope-with-social.html

Poem: What It Means To Be Steadfast And Consistent As A Muslim

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Seven cases to demonstrate what staying firm means, 

To give examples on doing good consistently, 

And show what it's like to strive for Allah steadfastly, 

Unaffected by obstacles, rivals' enmity, 

Distractions and moments when you doubt that you'll proceed: 

~•~

First case: When a Muslimah, for Allah's sake only, 

Wears the hijaab when outdoors and values modesty, 

And she won't give up on it even if frequently 

She receives insults from strangers, friends and family, 

Since her beauty is reserved for her husband strictly. 

~•~

Second: When a teen goes to school with unruly peers, 

Surrounded by fitna while righteous friends aren't near, 

And with their faith in Allah they choose to persevere, 

Praying on time when the Adhaan in one's phone is heard, 

And abstaining from actions whose essence is unclear.

~•~

Third: When two souls fall in love with each other deeply, 

And they both know they're into each other mutually, 

Yet since marrying is not a possibility, 

For Allah they avoid one another equally, 

Determined to control desires though it's not easy.

~•~

Fourth: When a Muslim prays Tahajjud regularly, 

And on some nights Allah decrees that they'd oversleep, 

They continue praying Qiyaam Al-Layl patiently 

When they get the chance to rise despite feeling sleepy, 

Because calling upon Allah is sweeter than sleep.

~•~

Fifth: When a worker is bullied by some employees, 

Made fun of often for their looks, background or beliefs, 

And they refuse to call in sick, so they strive bravely 

To earn halal income to support their families, 

Seeking help from Allah the Only One Whom they fear.

~•~

Sixth: When a lady wearing niqaab strongly adheres 

To her style, while most judge her to be "extreme" or "weird", 

And she maintains her identity so stubbornly, 

Even if she's viewed as "strange" by her community 

And she deals with criticism occasionally.

~•~

Seventh: When a loving wife, with savage loyalty, 

Has divorced friends, news of divorce she oftentimes hears, 

And she's one of her husband's wives, in polygyny, 

She's consistent in respecting her spouse faithfully, 

Never wanting to quit, as her love and care are real.

~•~ 

Some tips to do good deeds for Allah consistently:

Remember your true purpose - to serve Allah Only,

Joining those who are worthy of Jannah's grand entry.

Seek rewards from Allah; don't expect His slaves to cheer.

Consistency occurs when your goals are crystal clear.

~•~

📖 Sufyan Ibn Abdullah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: I said, "O Messenger of Allah, tell me of a word in Islam I will not need to ask of anyone after you." The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Say, 'I have faith in Allah,' and then remain steadfast."

Source: Sahih Muslim 38

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do good deeds only as much as you are able, for the best deeds are those done regularly (consistently) even if they are few."

Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 4240

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "You must not be impressed with anyone until you see their end. Verily, a servant may do righteous deeds throughout his life, or for a long time. If he were to die in that state, he would enter Paradise, but then he diverts himself and does evil deeds. Verily, a servant may do evil deeds for a long time. If he were to die in that state, he would enter Hellfire, but then he diverts himself and does righteous deeds. If Allah intends goodness for a servant, He puts him into action before death." They said, O Messenger of Allah, how is he put into action?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "He is guided to do righteous deeds and he holds firmly to it."

Source: Musnad Ahmed 11804

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

https://authentic-dua.com/2011/11/23/oh-turner-of-the-hearts-keep-our-hearts-firm-on-your-religion/amp/

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/05/note-on-how-to-attain-patience-and.html

Poem: What Happens When Allah The Most Wise Blesses A Muslim With A Loyal Wife

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 The fact that it's allowed to remarry your spouse twice 

Signifies the importance of: Sacrificing pride, 

Valuing loyalty between the husband and wife, 

And steadfastly forgiving so true love stays alive. 

While divorce is halal, it's an issue I dislike.

~•~

Yes I can ditch my man if I'm tired of frequent fights, 

His absence, silence, and strange conduct when he arrives, 

I can demand that he divorces me anytime, 

But I decide to love him for Allah till he dies. 

My loyalty since we first married can't be denied.

~•~

If ever he declares that I'm no longer his wife, 

For Allah's sake I'd stay firm, find ways to reunite, 

Still love him from far distance, pray for him day and night, 

Begging Allah to guide my ex-spouse to reconcile 

So we can marry each other for the second time.

~•~

And if while divorced, I see proposals from some guys, 

I'd unapologetically have them all declined.

No "I'll think about it", no "maybe", and no "next time", 

So long as my ex-husband and I view the same skies 

And some couples remind us of our former sweet times.

~•~

I believe that real love doesn't easily expire.

When it's for Allah, love grows stronger as time goes by. 

Wherever in this world you and your soulmate reside, 

If you both married for Allah, your love can survive 

Even until your souls both reach Jannah Paradise.

~•~

📖 Jabir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, shaytan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations. One of them says: 'I have done this and this.' shaytan says: 'you have done nothing.' Another one says: 'I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife.' shaytan embraces him and he says: 'you have done well!'"

Source: Sahih Muslim 2813

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/04/poem-why-i-despise-divorce-even-though.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/12/poem-demerits-of-divorce.html

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Note: What Our Initial Reaction To News Of A Muslim's Death Should Be

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 When we discover news that a Muslim has died, while that person has done or said some things in the past which a number of individuals may regard as disagreeable, as Muslims our initial reaction should be to say "Inna Lillaahi wa innaa Ilaihi raaji'oon" (we belong to Allah the Almighty and to Him Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala we shall return someday), instead of celebrating with "joy" and feeling relieved that they passed away. AstaghfurAllah Al-'Atheem.

"Alhamdulillah now that they're gone we can also rest in peace", "finally he's dead. He was a miserly guy anyway. Can't wait to marry husband number two", "life is so much easier without her. Just seeing her daily updates stresses me out with all the cringe", "you think his reckoning will be easy when he was clearly unfair with his four wives?" and "it's about time they left this world. At least I can stop worrying about how much money they still owe me." are offensive remarks which shouldn't come from any decent Muslim who is aware of the fact that Allah the All-Knowing will question us about what we chose to say and do. Negative thoughts or unpleasant memories we have concerning other Muslims must stay strictly confidential. Where a Muslim who has recently died may go to, whether Jannah/Paradise or Hell, is from the unseen matters which are known by Allah Only. A Muslim's death is an important reminder that we are next, that anytime and anyplace we must return to Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala. Thus we must try our best to prepare our meeting with Allah by doing as many good deeds as we can sincerely for His sake, saying the morning and evening Adhkaar, reciting Surah Al-Mulk before sleeping and in the daytime, and striving to treat our loved ones as though each moment could be the last time we may see them. 

~•~

📖 Shaddad Ibn Aws RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said to him, "The best way to seek forgiveness is that you say: 'O Allah, You are my Lord (Rabb). There is no God but You. You (Allah) created me and I am Your servant, I am committed to You (Allah) and Your promise, as much as I can. I seek refuge in You from the evil that I have done. I acknowledge Your favors upon me, and I acknowledge my sins, so please forgive me. Verily, no one forgives sins but You (Allah).'

The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever says this in the day with conviction (with firm belief in it) and dies before the evening, he will be among the people of Paradise. Whoever says this in the night with conviction and dies before the morning, he will be among the people of Paradise."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6306

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari

📖 'Adi Ibn Hatim RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Guard yourself from the Hellfire, even with half of a date in charity. If one cannot find it, then with a kind word."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6540 

Sahih Muslim 1016

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

https://salaficentre.com/2020/03/22/1-sayyid-al-istighfaar-with-brief-commentary-by-imaam-abdul-azeez-bin-baaz/

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Poem: Three Common Qualities Of Close Friends, And How To Know If You're Close To Allah The Almighty

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Three distinctive qualities that your close friends display: 

Consistent - With you they frequently communicate.

Persistent - Since they love you truly for Allah's sake, 

They're forgiving and don't let quarrels get in the way. 

Loyal - They know you well and can defend you always.

~•~

Close friends like talking to you, not just on certain days, 

And miss you a lot when for some time you've been away. 

In the same way, when you love Allah, you don't just pray 

The mandatory prayers but every other day 

You pray Sunnah prayers that also strengthen your faith.

~•~

Close friends may sometimes argue or make serious mistakes, 

But later forgive, as they can't afford lasting hate.

Similarly, when some Islamic rulings you break, 

You're filled with guilt, beg Allah to pardon your mistake, 

And frequent Istighfaar is a habit you maintain.

~•~

With your style, likes and dislikes, close friends love to acquaint. 

When haters diss you, close friends know what to do and say. 

Likewise, reading Qur'an keeps you in a tranquil state, 

Learning Islam doesn't tire you but rejuvenates, 

And you support the truth with the knowledge Allah gave.

~•~

You know you're near Allah when He guides you to His Way, 

When He motivates you to do good deeds for His sake, 

When He loves to hear your words each time you supplicate, 

When He grants difficulties so past sins are erased 

And you prefer Jannah, eager to see Allah's Face.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Allah the Almighty said: 'Whoever shows hostility (enmity) to a righteous friend of Mine, I have declared war upon him. My servant does not grow closer to Me with anything more beloved to Me than the obligatory duties that I have imposed upon him. My servant continues to grow closer to Me with extra good works (nawaafil deeds like praying Tahajjud and fasting Sunnah fasts) until I love him. When I love him, I am his hearing with which he hears, his seeing with which he sees, his hand with which he strikes, and his foot with which he walks. Were he to ask something from Me, I would surely give it to him. Were he to ask Me for refuge, I would surely grant it to him. I do not hesitate to do anything as I hesitate to take the soul of the believer, for he hates death and I hate to disappoint him.'"

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6137

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari

📖 Mu'awiyah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "If Allah intends goodness for someone, He gives him understanding of the religion."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 71

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi

📖 Sa'd Ibn Abi Waqqas RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah loves a servant who is righteous, independent, and obscure (unknown, unpopular, not famous)."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2965

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/05/poem-find-peace-in-allahs-love-not.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/03/poem-what-to-search-for-to-know-if.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/10/poem-enrich-your-heart-with-islam-and.html

Poem: Allah May Not Ask Us About How Much We Enjoyed Life But How We Lived Life To Worship Him

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Since Allah the Almighty made us to worship Him, 

On Judgment Day we won't be asked about worldly things. 

About how much we enjoyed life we won't be questioned, 

But rather how we lived to worship Allah our King, 

And how well we passed Allah's tests in avoiding sins. 

~•~

Allah may not ask us about how much we've eaten, 

How many cities we have traveled to, how often 

We went shopping and filled wardrobes with fancy garments, 

But we may be asked about how we earned the income 

And how kind we were with the wealth Allah has given. 

~•~

Allah may not question us if our education 

Led to earning degrees, impressive social standing, 

And opportunities to boost one's reputation, 

But we may be asked on our intention in learning 

And what we did with the knowledge Allah has given.

~•~

Allah may not inquire about how much amusement 

And entertainment were gained in chilling with loved ones, 

But Allah may ask about intentional actions, 

Decisions made, deliberately stated statements, 

And if we worked hard to please Allah or His servants.

~•~

Since we won't be asked about material enjoyment, 

It makes no sense to stress over what's impermanent. 

Awards or credentials won't carry significance 

On the Day of Judgment. What can guarantee triumph 

Are faith/Imaan, righteous deeds, and sincere intentions.

~•~

📖 Ibn Mas'ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The son of Adam (human being) will not be dismissed from his Lord (Allah the Almighty) on the Day of Resurrection until he is asked about five things: his life and how he lived it, his youth and how he used it, his wealth and how he earned it and how he spent it, and how he acted on his knowledge."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2416

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Ibn 'Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Take advantage of five before five: Your youth before your old age, your health before your illness, your riches before your poverty, your free time before your work, and your life before your death."

Source: Shu’ab Al-Imān 9575

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/04/poem-prioritize-your-life-for-allah.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/07/poem-our-main-goal-in-life-is-to.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/11/poem-advice-from-thirty-something-to.html

Poem: What It Means To Be "Pretentious" And "Unreal"

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Five examples to depict what it means to be fake, 

Pretentious and inauthentic, a toy for display, 

So we ditch lousy pretense, stay real for Allah's sake, 

And avoid imitating hypocrites' awful traits, 

As Allah sees all, and foul hypocrisy He hates: 

~•~

One: If you take selfies at the driver's seat acting 

As if you drive but can't, and lack a driver's license. 

Two: If you eat simple food at home yet when dining 

In fine restaurants, you take photos before eating 

And upload them online to upscale reputation.

~•~

Three: If you claim you don't watch films, songs you don't listen, 

And you never gossip, to show you're a true Muslim, 

When in fact you do them, when no human is watching. 

Four: When you give out Eid gifts to specific persons 

Not with kindness, but to offend those you're despising.

~•~

Five: When you take pride in your tallness and appearance, 

Ignorant of the fact Allah is our God and King,

And you carry yourself with obnoxious arrogance, 

Insulting this and that like your own sweat never stinks. 

Unless they reform, fake people are good-for-nothing.

~•~

As Muslims, be honest and truthful for Allah's sake. 

Willingly change yourself for Allah, not for His slaves, 

And don't be influenced by what people do and say. 

Pretending to have what you don't isn't a good trait 

And it suits the hypocrites whom Allah also hates.

~•~

📖 Abdullah Ibn Mas’ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "You must be truthful. Verily, truthfulness leads to righteousness and righteousness leads to Paradise. A man continues to be truthful and encourages honesty until he is recorded with Allah as a truthful person. And beware of falsehood. Verily, falsehood leads to wickedness and wickedness leads to the Hellfire. A man continues to tell lies and encourages falsehood until he is recorded with Allah as a liar."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhārī 5743 

Sahih Muslim 2607

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abdullah Ibn Mas'ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No one who has the weight of a seed (or atom) of arrogance in his heart will enter Paradise." Someone said, "But a man loves to have beautiful clothes and shoes." The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah is Beautiful and He loves beauty. Arrogance means rejecting the truth and looking down on the people."

In another narration, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No one who has the weight of a seed of faith in his heart will enter Hellfire."

Source: Sahih Muslim 91

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/11/poem-be-humble-all-humans-are-allahs.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/01/poem-what-real-arrogance-is-and-what-it.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/05/poem-nine-signs-of-actual-narcissists.html

Poem: Do Good Only For Allah, And You Won't Feel Undervalued.

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Three things to remember when you feel underrated, 

Misunderstood, or by loved ones you're not supported, 

So when you do good deeds or make uncommon choices 

That breed critics or cause some to go "I don't get it.", 

You go on, as it's for Allah, and refuse to quit:

~•~

One: Live to please Allah, not those whom He created. 

When performing noble works, hope to be rewarded 

By just Allah Who appreciates sincere motives. 

So when you wear hijab, learn Islam, pray Tahajjud, 

Await Allah's rewards. Don't expect His slaves' applause.

~•~

Two: Understand there are reasons why some won't support, 

Whether they envy you or can't relate to your goals, 

Or they've got their own race to win and problems to solve. 

Strive for Allah. Around you the world doesn't revolve. 

Real success in both worlds only Allah can bestow.

~•~

Three: Flies and worms gravitate to trash much more than gold. 

Owls would rather soar at night than smell a pleasant rose. 

"Not all share the same role and purpose," that you should know. 

Don't be surprised if even some relatives say no 

To your mission and dreams. Depend on Allah alone. 

~•~

How many customers you have, by whom you're followed, 

And how often you're acclaimed can't measure your true worth. 

Nuh ('alaihis salaam) didn't have many fans yet Allah loves him so, 

While shaytan has tons of followers around the globe 

Despite having deceptive aims and being accursed.

~•~

📖 Abu Sa'eed Al-Khudri RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that some people from the Ansaar asked Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam, and he gave them. Then they asked for charity again and he gave them. Then they asked again and he gave them until all he had was gone. The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I had anything, I would not withhold it. Whoever refrains from asking others, then Allah will make him content. Whoever would be independent, then Allah will make him independent. Whoever would be patient, then Allah will make him patient. There is no gift that is better and more comprehensive than patience."

Source: Sahih Bukhari 1400

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/11/poem-go-for-allahs-love-and-mercy-not.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/04/poem-your-trust-in-allah-and-your.html

Poem: On Not Following One's Heart When Feelings Lead To Wrongs

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 For Allah's sake, with Adhkaar and Taqwa shield your heart, 

That piece of flesh in your body where shaytan imparts 

His vile suggestions whereby logic often departs. 

Know how to control your feelings before fitna starts, 

And to defeat shaytan's plots, understand how he works.

~•~

When crushing on non-mahrams, don't let lust run its course. 

Lustful thoughts can lead to zina, which begets remorse. 

Tame your nafs. Don't stare at crushes to keep feels controlled. 

Shun needless socializing, your faith/Imaan uphold, 

And fast more Sunnah fasts to enhance your self-control.

~•~

When angry, seek refuge in Allah from the accursed 

shaytan who loves it when you're provoked so stress gets worse. 

Anger, if left uncontrolled, can bring about the urge 

To commit murder, injustice, or spread foul rumors. 

Do wudhu when mad, take naps, pray, or drink water cold.

~•~

When saddened by bad news or each time trials unfold, 

Recall Allah controls, joy doesn't last in this world, 

And we're pushed to say Du'a when sorrow is absorbed.

Strong connection with Allah can have dilemmas solved.

So don't appease shaytan when he pleads, "Please, kill yourself."

~•~

Weird emotions felt don't need to be put into words, 

Just as not every feeling must be acted upon. 

What sort of feelings should we strive to hide or withhold: 

Ones that distract us from our goals, or which promote wrongs, 

And not acting on them protects the soul in both worlds.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah has pardoned my nation for what occurs within themselves, as long as they do not speak of it or act upon it."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6287, Sahih Muslim 127

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Al-Nu'man Ibn Bashir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "Verily, in the body is a piece of flesh which, if sound, the whole body is sound, and if corrupt, the whole body is corrupt. Truly, it is the heart."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 52, Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/03/poem-overcome-your-nafs-for-allahs-sake.html

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Note: Permissibility To Fast On Friday (When It Is Not Ramadan) As Long As One Fasts The Day Before Or After It

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

🗒️ Allah the Almighty knows best. It is allowed to fast on a Friday, to complete one's obligatory fasts in Ramadan or continue the Sunnah fasting of six days of Shawwaal, as long as one fasts the day before (Thursday) and/or after it (Saturday). 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do not single out the night of Friday for voluntary prayer (Tahajjud) to the exclusion of other nights. Do not single out the day of Friday for fasting to the exclusion of other days, unless it is the routine of one of you."

In another narration, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Let not one of you fast on Friday unless he also fasts a day before or after it."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1144

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

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Poem: Some Tips To Be Your Husband's Loyal And Empathetic Wife And Friend

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Tips for fiercely loyal wives to practice empathy, 

Ways to be an empath to the man you love deeply, 

While loving Allah of course more than anybody, 

And when you're truly empathetic to your hubby, 

You can put up with LDR and polygyny: 

~•~

Since he's your other half, you'd want him to be happy, 

Even if his joy doesn't involve you directly. 

You want to see him smiling. His tears lead to worry. 

The emotions he goes through you similarly feel, 

Except when he's mad, you want his wrath to disappear. 

~•~

When you can't always give him what he requests or needs, 

Such as more babies, you permit him to remarry. 

The sight of him doing well, feeling pleased and at ease, 

Brings you relief, knowing you did your best to succeed 

In being your soulmate's grateful and faithful wifey.

~•~

When your husband fails at some of his spousal duties, 

Or work prevents him from communicating daily, 

You'd imagine being him, and forgive readily. 

Forgiving someone you care for comes so easily 

When you know they're human and cherish shared memories.

~•~

"I love him for Allah," recall that repeatedly, 

"I wish to be from the reasons why my zawj succeeds 

In both worlds, and prove our love since day one remains real." 

With trust in Allah, whilst having Sabr, empathy, 

And Shukr, your marriage can stand strong eternally.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1159

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi

Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."

Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātih 5/2125

📖 Umm Salamah RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Any woman who dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah (Paradise)".

[At-Tirmidhi, who classified it as Hadith Hasan]

Riyad As-Salihin 286

In-book reference: Introduction, Hadith 286

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/03/poem-my-brief-love-story-and-allahs.html

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Poem: Five Signs That Someone Who Has Hurt You Doesn't Deserve A Second Chance

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Not everyone you forgive deserves a second chance. 

Sometimes it's safer for you both to grant some distance, 

When reconnecting reopens doors to more problems. 

Five signs that someone must go, though they've been forgiven, 

And they can't be a close friend, but just an acquaintance: 

~•~

One: They still treat you with rudeness and indifference.

Each time you tell them something, you catch their eyes rolling, 

As though they'd prefer it if you're absent or silent. 

Two: Their apology was an act, not genuine.

Don't put up with disrespect, even if they're joking.

~•~

Three: They're the same. In their morals there's no improvement. 

They keep doing things which they know you find annoying, 

Address you often with nicknames that are demeaning, 

Receive your kind favors without properly thanking, 

And their love for gossiping toxifies their presence.

~•~

Four: You're not at peace when around them, for some reason, 

Fearing they may harshly judge you at any moment, 

Betray, or leave you in public with embarrassment.

Five: Friendship with them lacks spiritual joy and substance.

From them you can't learn, and your advice they're not taking.

~•~

Forgive them and maintain good manners, as a Muslim, 

As you avoid, for Allah's sake, their bad influence. 

When can reconciliation be rightly given? 

When they're truly sorry for their faults, not repeating 

Past mistakes, and keeping them as friends is a blessing.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is not stung twice from the same hole." 

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5782 

Sahih Muslim 2998 

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Hasan Ibn Ali RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Leave what makes you doubt for what does not make you doubt. Verily, truthfulness brings tranquility, while falsehood sows doubt."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2518

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

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Poem: Five Advantages Of Not Having Any Human As A "Close Friend"

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 Advantages of not having humans as close friends, 

Or merits of being content with independence, 

While trusting Only Allah instead of His servants, 

To comfort those who can't form meaningful connections 

Or who stand out in crowds and can't click with anyone:

~•~

One: Less time with people gives space for self-reflection, 

Inspiration to increase Adhkaar, Qur'an reading, 

Supplications, and researching for self-improvement. 

Two: Few friends or no close companions means protection 

From feigned flattery, discourtesy, and backbiting.

~•~

Three: Your secrets stay safe if you don't build connection 

With people who secretly envy your achievements, 

Or who treat your friendship as toxic competition. 

Four: Less friends or no comrades leads to better saving. 

No point in spoiling ingrates who feed on kind treatment.

~•~

Five: In times of fitna, no close friends is a blessing, 

Specially when surrounded by those who hate learning. 

You're not closely linked to disputing groups and factions, 

And by not joining specific associations, 

You're far from drama, hearing rumors, and arguments.

~•~

We're Muslim, guided by Allah. That's more important. 

Amassing tons of likes, subscribers and following 

Isn't a requirement to deserve Jannah's entrance. 

If keeping trusted friends seems like a tricky mission, 

Be patient, and with Allah's Love achieve contentment.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Allah the Almighty said: 'Whoever shows hostility (enmity) to a righteous friend of Mine, I have declared war upon him. My servant does not grow closer to Me with anything more beloved to Me than the obligatory duties that I have imposed upon him. My servant continues to grow closer to Me with extra good works (nawaafil deeds like praying Tahajjud and fasting Sunnah fasts) until I love him. When I love him, I am his hearing with which he hears, his seeing with which he sees, his hand with which he strikes, and his foot with which he walks. Were he to ask something from Me, I would surely give it to him. Were he to ask Me for refuge, I would surely grant it to him. I do not hesitate to do anything as I hesitate to take the soul of the believer, for he hates death and I hate to disappoint him.'"

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6137

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi

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Poem: Seven Things To Do To Respect Muslims Who Have Died

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Seven things to do to respect Muslims who have died: 

One: Say the prescribed Du'a when living beings die. 

We come from Allah and to Him we'll return sometime. 

While it's fine to shed tears or feel distraught from inside, 

Strive to keep calm and avoid acts which Allah dislikes. 

~•~

Two: When the corpse is being washed, try your best to hide 

Their private parts, and their flaws to others don't describe. 

Three: Ensure when they're buried, you lay them on their right, 

Facing the Qiblah if its direction you can find, 

And don't decorate gravestones as it isn't required. 

~•~

Four: Mention them in your Du'as nearly day and night. 

Pray to Allah that He forgives their mistakes and slights, 

And that their place in Barzakh is wide and full of light. 

Five: Speak of them kindly. About their sins don't backbite. 

Dissing the deceased can distress those who are alive.

~•~

Six: Make sure that they didn't leave any debts behind. 

If they owe anyone money, pay the debt on time.

And if they borrowed items, give the owners their rights. 

If they're lost, on behalf of the dead apologize. 

And if they have some missed fasts, complete them if you like.

~•~

Seven: Refrain from posting photos of them online 

And writing letters which the buried can't scrutinize. 

Instead of spreading their pictures to memorialize, 

Include them in Du'as, while praying Qiyaam Al-Layl 

And when sweet memories of them come from time to time.

~•~

📖 Al-Mughirah Ibn Shu’bah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do not abuse the dead and thus hurt the living."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1982

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Aisha RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do not abuse the dead, for they have reached what they put forward."

In another narration, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "When your companion (friend or loved one) dies, leave him alone without speaking badly about him."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 1329

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari

📖 Ibn Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: A woman came to the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam and she said, "My mother has died and she owed a month of fasting." The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do you think if she had a debt you would repay it on her behalf?" She said "yes." The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The debts of Allah are more worthy to be repaid."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 1902

Sahih Muslim 1132

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Ibn ‘Umar RadhiAllahu ‘anhuma narrated from his father that the noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The deceased is punished in his grave for the wailing done over him."

Reference: Sahih Al-Bukhari 1292

In-book reference: Book 23, Hadith 51

USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 2, Book 23, Hadith 379

📖 Ibn Mas'ud RadhiAllahu ‘anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "I prohibited you from visiting the graves, but visit them now. Verily, they will weaken your attachment to the world and remind you of the Hereafter."

Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 1571

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Suyuti

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Tips: Acting Mean Or Obnoxiously "Savage" Isn't From The Qualities Of An Ideal Muslimah

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 Some females wrongly assume that being an "ice princess" or unemotional "ice queen" portrays you're a strong woman when in reality disrespect, rudeness and unjustifiable aloofness are typical traits of the highly insecure.

While it's your absolute right to choose who gets to be in your squad of close friends, your pickiness is not valid excuse for you to obnoxiously treat others rudely, ignore other Muslims' salaam just because you don't know them, and childishly gossip about those whom you disagree with. 

People who secretly hate themselves, who are unhappy with their current lives, or who have extremely low self-esteem are more likely to channel their negative energy into others by being rude and disrespectful while maintaining an angry scowl. They're the type of individuals who instantly assume you're being fake whenever they find you smiling, or who suspect you're trying to bribe them when you behave in a friendly manner. If you give them a gift, they'll probably ask questions like "What's the occasion? Is there something you want from me?" or "Are you trying to tell me that I'm poor and you're rich? Why are you giving this to me, I didn't ask for it."

Their mindset is full of so much negativity that nearly whatever act of kindness you do they return it with disdain, scornful indifference or rejection. With these types of souls whom Allah the Most Wise decreed that we encounter, we are trained to enhance our level of patience, gain inner strength, and express gratitude Alhamdulillah that we are nothing like them. 

Even if certain acquaintances or strangers accuse us of being "plastic" or "pretentious" because they obviously are not familiar with what we're really like, we continue being kind and generous for Allah's sake whenever we can. Kindness isn't restricted to constantly spoiling friends with tangible gifts and freebies, but in sharing Islamic knowledge generously for Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala, defending them when they aren't around, cheering them up when their moods go down, praying for them regularly, and in being the trustworthy friend whom Allah expects us to be. 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is friendly, for there is no goodness in one who is neither friendly, nor befriended."

Source: Musnad Ahmed 8945

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Arna’ut

Tips: Some Signs That You And Certain People Weren't Meant To Connect

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 Signs that a person was not meant for you or destined to be with you (as a friend, spouse or business partner etc.):

1] Even if you have some things in common, you still don't feel at ease in their presence. You're not comfortable around them for some reason. You'd rather be alone sleeping, reading a book or contemplating than actively chatting with them. 

2] Interactions with them feel forced and your conversations don't flow smoothly. It's either because you're mostly the one talking, you can't relate to them or they find your overall habits too cringy. 

3] They can be your neighbors for several years yet you still wouldn't bother visiting them, since you can't think of enough topics to discuss and interesting activities to peacefully bond over with. 

4] They left your messages on seen mode numerous times. When you want to contact them, they're readily unavailable. Trying to reach out to them for a long productive discussion is something almost impossible.

5] The respect, care and trust are clearly one-sided. You're usually the one enthusiastically checking on them to see how they're doing. They rarely reciprocate or return your favors. 

✨ Signs that someone 

Inn-sha-Allah was meant to be in your circle:

1] They've appeared in front you online and offline multiple times. No matter how much effort you make in trying to avoid them, they usually show up as though they're accessible, available and approachable. 

2] Dialogues with them are generally fun, informative and beneficial. After interacting with them, you sense your faith/Imaan levels going up, and you eagerly look forward to speaking again in the future.

3] The more you get to know them and the more truths you discover about them, the more you like them for Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala. 

4] Regardless of where they reside, whether they live some miles away in the same city or they are located in another country, you wish you were neighbors so you can spend quality time with one another more frequently.

5] The love for Allah's sake, trust and respect are mutual. There is no jealousy, doubt and negative feelings between you two. Even if they may be more successful or efficient at something than you somehow, seeing them do well in their Deen and dunya can't trigger any feeling of envy because you want what's best for them, just as you hope they want you to thrive similarly. 

🔸 How to deal with those who aren't meant for us:

1] Accept Allah's Qadr/Destiny patiently. 

2] Acknowledge the fact that not everyone can agree with our beliefs and perceptions. We're here to serve Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala in a way that we believe is right, not make duplicate copies of ourselves out of Allah's creation.

3] Understand that sometimes a person may reject us because we unintentionally remind them of their weaknesses, insecurities, and shortcomings. So long as we strive to treat everyone as fairly as we can, we're not responsible for people's emotions and reactions to our existence. 

4] Why worry too much about being liked by people when they themselves are overloaded with their own set of struggles, priorities and problems? Plus on the Day of Resurrection they'll be questioned for their actions and decisions?

With Allah's Love and Guidance, we cannot be incomplete nor lonesome. 

5] None of Allah's Prophets, 'alaihim as-salaam, especially the beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam were completely loved and accepted by each and every soul who heard about them. Hundreds of unbelievers and hypocrites, including from their relatives, caused damage to their own selves by stubbornly rejecting their calls and wrongly assumed those Prophets were lying. 

Allah's Love for us does not depend on how we are treated and viewed by Allah's servants. Persistently keep doing good deeds sincerely for Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala in spite of people's criticism, doubts and opposition.

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are troops collected together. They come close upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109, Sahih Muslim 2638

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Al-Nawawi said, “When bodies meet in the world, they come together or differ according to how they were created. The righteous will incline to the righteous, and the evil will incline to the evil.”

Source: Sharh Al-Nawawī ‘alá Sahih Muslim 2638

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Poem: Concerning Loved Ones And Friends Who Avoid Excessive Closeness Or Emotional Attachment

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Three reasons why some friends, often the more private types 

And those who prefer to have feelings rationalized, 

Minimize talks with you, don't chat as much as you'd like, 

And though they care for you, they're distant most of the time, 

So you can willingly give them space once in a while:

~•~

One: From unwanted emotions they're trying to hide, 

Whether low-key jealousy of life's joys you've acquired, 

Grief whenever you remind them of loved ones who died, 

Or intense attraction that could lead to what's not right, 

And avoiding you sometimes is their way to survive.

~•~

Two: You're not in their list of tasks to prioritize, 

No offense, but just as you've got your own likes, dislikes, 

Worries, duties, and goals, they too have their special rights 

To choose which task to complete and when to grant respite.

This reminds us to trust Only Allah the Most Wise.

~•~

Three: Balance/moderation they're trying to apply. 

They refuse to interact with you each day and night 

Since extreme intimacy is something they dislike. 

Emotional attachment has several downsides, 

One of which is shock or distress when a close friend dies.

~•~

Realize some friends' aloofness doesn't signify 

At all times that you're boring or by them you're despised. 

It's their style of shielding you from things Allah dislikes, 

Such as zina, telling lies, or the urge to backbite.

True friends empathize and provide space when it's required.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Love whom you love moderately, perhaps he will become hateful to you someday. Hate whom you hate moderately, perhaps he will become your beloved friend someday."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1997

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is one who is trusted by the people. The Muslim is one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe. The emigrant (muhaajir) is one who emigrates away from evil. By the One (Allah) in Whose Hand is my soul, a servant will not enter Paradise if his neighbor is not secure from his harm."

Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 515 

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut

📖 Al-Bayhaqi reported: Abu Qilabah, may Allah have mercy on him, said, “If you hear something about your brother that you hate, then make an effort to obtain an excuse for him. If you do not find an excuse, then say to yourself: 'Perhaps my brother has an excuse I do not know.'”

Source: Hilyat Al-Awliyā’ 2485

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Poem: How To Help The Oppressed Muslims In Other Countries

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 The way to help the oppressed Muslims in other lands 

Isn't through noisy protests, waving flags with one's hands, 

Making TikTok videos so global peace you demand, 

Damaging public property, sharing online rants, 

Dancing, or making graffiti with paint or spray cans.

~•~

If groups at school were mistreated by violent gangs, 

Would you march around with banners, yelling vibrant chants? 

Would you destroy those bullies' items because "you can", 

And carry posters to show the bullied you're their fans? 

Or will you call the admin, so they shall take a stand?

~•~

Ironic how in these instances some get alarmed, 

When triggered, they're eager to use their voice as their arms, 

With much vigor to protest in a courageous stance, 

Yet when the Imaam in their area calls the Adhaan, 

To perform prayers in the Masjid, just few respond.

~•~

Try to do these, to help the oppressed in other lands: 

Advise them to make Hijrah, to migrate, if they can. 

If they can't transfer, due to a complex circumstance, 

Tell them to stay patient and await Jannah's entrance, 

While you do Da'wah so people understand Islam.

~•~

Do charity if you can, to help those who were harmed. 

Send food, medical supplies, clothes, blankets so they're warm, 

And if you can, sponsor children who've become orphans. 

The least we can do is mention them in our Du'as.

Pray for the Ummah, as we trust Allah the Most Just.

~•~

📖 Khuzaymah Ibn Thabit RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of the supplication of the oppressed, for it is carried above the clouds. Allah the Almighty says: 'By My Might and Majesty, I will help you in due time.'"

Source: Al-Mu’jam Al-Kabīr 3630

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Help your brother, whether he is an oppressor or is being oppressed." It was said, “O Messenger of Allah, we help the oppressed, but how do we help an oppressor?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "By seizing his hand (by stopping him from oppressing)."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 2312 

Sahih Muslim 2584

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is one who is trusted by the people. The Muslim is one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe. The emigrant is one who emigrates away from evil. By the One (Allah the Almighty) in Whose Hand is my soul, a servant will not enter Paradise if his neighbor (Muslim or non-Muslim) is not secure from his harm."

Source: Sahih Ibn Hibban 515

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut

Poem: Nine Signs Of Actual Narcissists Which We Muslims Must Avoid

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Nine signs that someone you know may be a narcissist, 

Which explains why they often ignore your messages 

Or treat you with disrespect when they think you're "useless", 

To be aware in advance that they can't be trusted, 

And since they're toxic, they're unworthy of your friendship: 

~•~

One: They're secretly insecure, obviously jealous, 

And by your positive traits they're intimidated. 

Envy keeps them quiet when your gifts are detected. 

Two: They act like they're devoid of flaws, oh-so-perfect,

And if you try to advise them, they'd feel insulted.

~•~ 

Three: Taking loads of selfies is from their weird habits. 

They care a lot about their looks and public image. 

Four: They'll likely befriend you only if you're famous 

Or if to rich professionals you are connected, 

Eager to boost self-importance and take advantage.

~•~

Five: Since their hearts are full of grudges and self-hatred, 

It's effortless for them to be passive-aggressive, 

Slamming doors, scowling, and ignoring you on purpose. 

Six: They strive to be the best, most idealistic.

Be careful, if you surpass them, they'd really hate it.

~•~

Seven: Lacking empathy, they're overall selfish, 

Unable to truly share, support, and offer tips. 

Eight: Frequently they gossip about those they detest. 

Ironically they backbite yet loathe it when they're dissed, 

"Savage" to their foes yet with their feels so sensitive.

~•~

Nine: Their main aim in wanting to network or connect 

With the persons they meet is to be well-respected. 

That's why, if you've got few friends, they want you avoided. 

They're desperate to gain fans and be widely noticed. 

"Me", "myself" and "I" are from their favorite subjects.

~•~

Don't expect these things from any kind of narcissist: 

Real amity, honest advice, genuine kindness, 

Sympathy, and ability to keep your secrets. 

If you've met souls with big egos or self-interest, 

Gladly avoid them. With Allah's Love stay contented.

~•~

📖 Abdullah Ibn Mas’ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No one who has the weight of a seed (or atom) of arrogance in his heart will enter Paradise." Someone said, "But a man loves to have beautiful clothes and shoes." The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah is Beautiful and He loves beauty. Arrogance means rejecting the truth and looking down on the people."

In another narration, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No one who has the weight of a seed of faith in his heart will enter Hellfire."

Source: Sahih Muslim 91

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/04/poem-what-it-means-to-be-actually.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/04/poem-avoid-kibrarrogance.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/01/poem-what-real-arrogance-is-and-what-it.html

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=pYpI4WtaSgk

Poem: Five Reasons Why Zina (Fornication And Adultery) Is Haraam/Forbidden

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Five reasons why in Islam zina is unlawful, 

Why Muslims can't go on dates that are premarital, 

Why zina is a sin for both married and single, 

Whether zina occurs between a male and female, 

Or among same genders who are not marriageable: 

~•~

One: Allah's forbiddance of zina to the people 

Is a test, a trial to detect who is faithful, 

To determine who from His slaves are firmly loyal, 

And to see who's strong enough to resist obstacles, 

Without scorning Allah's Laws, being servants humble.

~•~

Two: Another cause in zina being illegal 

Is to prevent Muslims from mimicking animals 

And beasts which lack rationale, morals and self-control. 

We're not enslaved by lust, by our nafs we're not controlled,   

And Taqwa makes this avoidance more manageable.

~•~

Three: "Fun" found in zina is unblessed, superficial, 

And enjoyable only for a very short while. 

Doubtlessly, from its outcomes are feeling remorseful, 

Guilty for displeasing Allah, while being shameful.

True joy can't be felt in doing what's deplorable.

~•~

Four: You either live to serve Allah the Powerful, 

Or you surrender to shaytan the detestable, 

Regarding the devil's tricks as irresistible. 

Worshipping Allah while satisfying His rival 

Resembles the style of one who's hypocritical.

~•~

Five: Performing what Allah made impermissible 

While Allah is watching and one is nearby Angels 

Could imply one is ignorant or disrespectful, 

Or their disobedience depicts they prefer this world, 

And to wait for Jannah's real bliss they seem unable.

~•~

So your boycotting of zina becomes successful, 

And avoiding captivating souls is workable: 

Recall that pleasing Allah is our primary goal. 

Death isn't a joke. Prepare with good deeds. Be careful. 

Ignore shaytan who can make muddy filth look like gold.

~•~

📖 Abdullah Ibn Mas’ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "O young men, if you are able to support a wife, get married. Verily, it lowers the gaze and guards chastity. Whoever is not able to do so, then he must fast as it (fasting regularly for Allah's sake) will discipline his desires."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 1806

Sahih Muslim 1400

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah has written for the son of Adam his portion of adultery (zina / fornication) which he will inevitably commit: the adultery of the eyes is the lustful look, the adultery of the tongue is the lustful speech. The soul craves and yearns; the passions will affirm it (the unlawful desire) or deny it."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6612 

Sahih Muslim 2657

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Remember often the destroyer of pleasures," by which he meant death.

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2307

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/06/note-tips-on-how-to-get-over-crush.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/10/poem-for-allahs-sake-avoid-fitna-and.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/04/poem-to-each-muslimah-whos-currently.html

Poem: Five Tips To Befriend Yourself And Practice Self-Respect

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Five tips to befriend yourself and practice self-respect, 

While trusting Allah and with His Love you're contented, 

Unbothered by grudges from those whom He created, 

So through quality time with Allah you're comforted, 

And solitude boosts inner peace and self-awareness: 

~•~

One: Live for Allah. Strive to do what Allah ordered. 

Serve Allah, not vile desires. Aim to pass Allah's tests. 

The more you please Allah through sincere acts of worship, 

Like reading Qur'an often, at least a few pages, 

The stronger your faith and the more serene your heart gets.

~•~

Two: Guard your nafs. Avoid what Allah prohibited. 

To refrain from major and minor sins do your best. 

Stay away from sinning, while aware you're not perfect, 

Because wrongdoings like backbiting lead to regret, 

A heart that feels empty, or emotional unrest.

~•~

Three: Gladly like yourself. Never chase people's respect. 

Strong bond with Allah, which leads to inward happiness, 

Can assure bliss without befriending each soul you've met. 

The close friends you socialize with carefully select, 

Since links with troublesome persons breed unhappiness.

~•~

Four: Gifts Allah distributed patiently accept. 

Don't discredit yourself by choosing to feel upset 

And jealous of another Muslim's blessings and test. 

Strangers' vlogs and posts that can trigger envy forget. 

Focus on self-improvement. Don't stalk others' progress. 

~•~

Five: Treat yourself kindly. It's fine if you're imperfect. 

It's human to make mistakes and carry some defects. 

What's foul is forgetting that Allah loves to forgive. 

Do what you can to obey Allah, and when you slip, 

When you fall into fitna, seek Allah's Forgiveness.

~•~

Again, what we must do to maintain wise self-respect: 

Live for Allah. No attachments to the created. 

Ensure our duties to Allah are not neglected.

Discard from ourselves qualities which Allah detests, 

And for Allah's Guidance and Mercy always request.

~•~

📖 Abu Bakr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: He said to the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam, “O Messenger of Allah, teach me a supplication (Du'a) to say in my prayers.” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Say: 'O Allah, indeed I have wronged myself with many wrongs and none forgives sins but You, so forgive me with forgiveness from You and have mercy upon me. Verily, You alone are the Forgiving, the Merciful.'"

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6953 

Sahih Muslim 2705

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do good deeds only as much as you are able, for the best deeds are those done regularly (consistently) even if they are few."

Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 4240

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/10/tips-things-that-lead-to-self-sabotage.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/01/poem-what-to-avoid-in-order-to-be-happy.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/04/poem-how-to-achieve-happiness-as-muslim.html

Poem: Be Your Husband's Grateful Wife, Loyal Friend And Soulmate, Not "Gold Digger"

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Affirmations to myself and wives who can relate, 

To each loyal wife who loves her spouse for Allah's sake, 

And whose husband financially struggles on some days, 

When he oft explains, "my wages they had to delay,",

"That's all I can give for now," and "they reduced my pay.":

~•~

Remember, you remain married because you love him, 

You love him for Allah, and want to see him thriving 

In both worlds, as a patient and hardworking Muslim. 

You didn't marry his money, job, and possessions. 

His soul, so you both reach Jannah, is more important.

~•~

Understand that his career won't be easy always. 

Don't be surprised when he comes home from work, tired and states, 

"There were no customers/patients for several days," 

"Please accept what I can provide, while I try to save," 

And "It's not much, but at least halal income I make."

~•~

In tough times when you and your spouse receive small earnings, 

Turn this trial into a blessing, practice patience, 

Take such moments as chances to have your love proven, 

Still loyal to your spouse despite financial problems, 

And recall that Jannah is our real destination.

~•~

If you love your man, then you should be able to wait, 

To await better days, while hands in Du'as are raised, 

Patiently waiting for Allah to grant ease someday. 

Your man's decreased or delayed salary doesn't change 

The fact you love your soulmate truly for Allah's sake.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1159

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi

Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."

Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātih 5/2125

📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best wealth is a tongue that remembers Allah, a grateful heart, and a believing wife to help one in his faith."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3094

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Dharr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "O Abu Dharr, do you say an abundance of possessions is wealth?" I said 'yes.' The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do you say a lack of possessions is poverty?" I said 'yes.' The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam repeated this three times, then he said, "Wealth is in the heart and poverty is in the heart. Whoever is wealthy in his heart will not be harmed no matter what happens in the world. Whoever is impoverished in his heart will not be satisfied no matter how much he has in the world. Verily, he will only be harmed by the greed of his own soul."

Source: Al-Mu’jam Al-Kabīr 1618

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/07/note-pious-wife-is-not-materialistic.html

Tips: Trust Allah The Almighty And Do Not Worry About Matters Which We Can't Always Control

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

🗒️ Do not overthink about three things: 

1] Do not overthink about poverty (or insufficient income), because doing so can increase your worries and sorrow, and it could lead to being overly obsessed with dunya/worldly matters. 

2] Do not overthink about the injustices done by those who have oppressed you, as your heart may become hardened out of resentment, your grudge intensifies, emotional unrest or bitterness is prolonged.

3] And do not overthink about longevity or living a long life in this temporal world, as doing so can make a person love hoarding, waste most of one's lifetime pursuing unproductive interests, and procrastinate the more important duties and responsibilities related to thriving in the Hereafter. 

At all times trust Allah the Almighty Who controls everything and do not worry about matters which we humans can't always control.

📖 Umar Ibn Al-Khattab RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If you were to rely upon Allah with reliance due to Him, He (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) would provide for you just as He provides for the birds. They go out in the morning with empty stomachs and return full (satisfied)."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2344

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

Hadith: Concerning The Three Masaajid / Mosques That We're Encouraged To Visit

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do not undertake a religious journey except to three mosques: The Sacred Mosque in Mecca (Makkah), the Mosque of the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam (in Madinah), and the Farthest Mosque in Jerusalem (Masjid Al-Aqsa in Palestine)."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 1132

 Sahih Muslim 1397

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

https://www.salafisounds.com/helping-our-brothers-and-sisters-in-palestine-and-the-issue-of-boycotting-by-abu-khadeejah/

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=kDrNyzYvHPs

Poem: Three Tips To Patiently Cope With Feelings Of Regret

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Three tips to patiently cope with feelings of regret, 

To stop dwelling on mistakes you ignorantly did, 

To quit scolding yourself for past incorrect choices, 

And to be able to move on, glad and contented, 

As Muslims, accepting what Allah prevents and gives:

~•~

One: The stronger your faith in Allah, the easier 

It becomes to accept Allah's Qadr with Sabr, 

Aware that Allah has full control of all matters, 

And when you're from Allah's allies, He only offers 

What's best for your soul in this world and the Hereafter. 

~•~

Two: You gain nothing from crying over what happened, 

Opportunities missed, and perplexing incidents. 

Since your deeds with their outcomes were by Allah destined, 

One way to deal with problems is to practice patience. 

Allah loves believers who for His sake stay patient.

~•~

Three: Each occurrence may carry important lessons, 

Such as: Next time, slow down. Check your inbox more often. 

Avoid rushing when you can. Don't trust the wrong persons. 

If you feel reluctant, your secrets don't reveal them. 

Choose your words carefully. You're safer when you're silent.

~•~

Say "Alhamdulillah" for every lesson you've learned. 

The fact that we sometimes make errors and misjudgements 

Reminds us we're Allah's servants; we're only humans. 

This inspires us to ask Allah for further guidance, 

And when we fail any test, we rush to repentance.

~•~

📖 Abu Sa'eed Al-Khudri RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that some people from the Ansaar asked Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam, and he gave them. Then they asked for charity again and he gave them. Then they asked again and he gave them until all he had was gone. The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I had anything, I would not withhold it. Whoever refrains from asking others, then Allah will make him content. Whoever would be independent, then Allah will make him independent. Whoever would be patient, then Allah will make him patient. There is no gift that is better and more comprehensive than patience."

Source: Sahih Bukhari 1400

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari

📖 Ibn 'Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: I was riding behind the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam when he said to me, "Young man, I will teach you some words. Be mindful of Allah and He will protect you. Be mindful of Allah and you will find Him before you. If you ask, ask from Allah. If you seek help, seek help from Allah. Know that if the nations were to gather together to benefit you, they will not benefit you unless Allah has decreed it for you. And if the nations gathered together to harm you, they will not harm you unless Allah has decreed it for you. The pens have been lifted and the pages have dried."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2516

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to At-Tirmidhi

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu ‘anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.’ Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills.” Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/03/poem-allah-almighty-controls-all-things.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/04/poem-regrets-in-life-should-be-lessons.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/06/poem-learn-from-your-mistakes.html

Poem: Seven Signs That Indicate Jealousy In Friends Or Acquaintances

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Seven warning signs or red flags your "friend" is jealous, 

Things to watch out for to spot someone who's envious, 

So you can take a step back, ensure you're protected 

From confiding in disguised foes who conceal hatred 

And who'd celebrate if your image is demolished:

~•~

One: With tips and compliments they're absurdly selfish. 

Seeing you in a good mood makes them feel discouraged. 

Two: They expect you to support their works and projects 

Yet when it comes to your goals, they're so unsupportive. 

Attempts to connect with them prove the bond's one-sided.

~•~

Three: When talking to them, the usual discussed topics 

Involve their dear selves, their problems, plans and tasks they did. 

When it's your turn to speak, they'd ditch you or go quiet. 

Four: They joke at your expense, laugh when you're embarrassed, 

And seldom defend you when you're hurt or insulted.

~•~

Five: To inflate their ego or sense they're accomplished, 

They copy your style not so rapport is established 

But to steal your joys through being too competitive. 

Six: They sulk when by others you're congratulated. 

Not once you got from them "Congrats!", "Mabrook!", "You've made it!"

~•~

Seven: Your kind heart, gifts or skills they can't acknowledge, 

Yet when it comes to your mistakes, mishaps and defects,

They're excited to diss, throw shade, or micromanage. 

Be patient with their jealousy - self-imposed distress.

Shun souls consumed by envy to save them from unrest.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do not envy each other, do not outbid each other, do not hate each other, do not turn away from each other, and do not outsell each other. Rather, be servants of Allah as brothers. The Muslim is the brother of another Muslim. He does not wrong him, nor humiliate him, nor look down upon him. Righteousness is here," and he pointed to his chest three times. The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "It is enough evil for a man to look down upon his Muslim brother. The entirety of the Muslim is sacred to another Muslim: his life, his wealth, and his reputation."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2564

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 Wathilah Ibn al-Asqa’ RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The Muslim is sacred to another Muslim: his life, his honor, and his wealth. The Muslim is the brother of another Muslim. He does not wrong him or betray him. Righteousness is here," and he pointed to his heart. The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "It is enough evil for a man to look down on his Muslim brother."

Source: Musnad Ahmed 15589

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Haythami

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: I said, “O Messenger of Allah, who are the best people?” The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One with a heart swept clean and truthful in speech." We said, “O Messenger of Allah, we know truthful in speech. What is a heart swept clean?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One that is mindful of Allah and pure, in which there is no sin, nor aggression, nor envy." We said, “Who shows a sign of it?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One who hates worldliness and loves the Hereafter." They said, “And who shows a sign of it?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A believer with good character."

Source: Shu’ab Al-Imān 4457

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/04/note-eleven-qualities-of-good-muslim.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/01/poem-clear-signs-of-jealous-people-even.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/01/poem-advice-on-how-to-deal-with-people.html

Poem: Three Reasons Why We Cannot Click With Certain People (On Incompatibility)

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 Three likely reasons why we can't vibe with certain souls, 

Why convos with some people seem fishy, fake, and forced, 

And why though their figures and names are loads of times shown, 

It's hard to like them, we're glad if they leave us alone, 

And we're aware our feelings can't always be controlled:

~•~

First reason: We're different. There's conflict in our goals. 

If we choose to go upwards, they take the downward slope, 

If their vibes conceal dark lies, while ours shine bright like gold, 

If we strive for Jannah's joys, as they're glued to this world, 

In later becoming close friends there's no chance at all.

~•~

Second: They're a threat, or vice versa. There's no comfort 

In their company. No good can be gained from their words. 

Their love for gossip or drama just makes matters worse. 

One envies the other, or there's envy in you both, 

And the more you interact, grudge and doubts only grow. 

~•~

Third: Your disaccord was destined since long time ago. 

Allah the Most Wise didn't decree you'd get along. 

Regardless of disharmony, bad manners don't show. 

Treat them politely. From their unpleasantries move on. 

Aim for Allah's Love, not to be liked by every soul.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are like conscripted soldiers. They come together upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109 

Sahih Muslim 2638

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Poem: Ways To React To People's Rudeness And Disrespect

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 Five ways to deal with people's rudeness and disrespect - 

How to cope with species whose morals are pathetic, 

Who mistreat you when their expectations aren't met, 

Who act passive-aggressive when they're hurt or upset, 

Or lack of ethics is their way to feel safeguarded: 

~•~

One: Know that there are others who've been disrespected, 

Like Allah's Prophets, including Prophet Muhammad (SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) 

Who often encountered harms from the polytheists 

And hypocrites who want Muslims to be defeated. 

When people's goals and traits clash, conflict is expected.

~•~

Two: People's hatred may be from Allah's myriad tests, 

To train patience, and for Sabr you'll be rewarded. 

Three: Learn from them. Their misdeeds are to be avoided. 

Don't bother copying their foul characteristics. 

Be glad you're not the one morally poor and distressed.

~•~

Four: Sympathize. Maybe they seem rude as they're jealous, 

Stressed, or about basic manners uneducated. 

Five: Reject the urge to duplicate their low tactics. 

While they're mean and gossipy, you stay kind. Don't gossip.

Don't be an insecure troll who's full of bitterness.

~•~

Respecting all doesn't require spoiling them with gifts 

Or attention, but it's to ensure they're not oppressed. 

Strive to treat others the way you'd want to be treated.

If you can't practice kindness, then at least don't oppress, 

As a Muslim, not one of those badly brought up kids.

~•~

📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said to me, "Young man, if you are able every morning and evening to remove any malice in your heart towards anyone, do so." Then, the Prophet SallAllahu' alaihi wa sallam said to me, "Young man, that is my Sunnah. Whoever revives my Sunnah has loved me, and whoever loves me will be with me in Paradise."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2678

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "When one of you arrives in a gathering, let him greet them with peace. When he intends to leave, let him depart with greetings of peace. The first greeting is not more worthy than the last."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 5208

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: I said, “O Messenger of Allah, who are the best people?” The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One with a heart swept clean and truthful in speech." We said, “O Messenger of Allah, we know truthful in speech. What is a heart swept clean?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One that is mindful of Allah and pure, in which there is no sin, nor aggression, nor envy." We said, “Who shows a sign of it?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One who hates worldliness and loves the Hereafter." They said, “And who shows a sign of it?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A believer with good character."

Source: Shu’ab Al-Imān 4457

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

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Hadith: Virtues Of Fasting Six Days In Shawwal After Completing One's Fasts In Ramadan

📖 Abu Ayyub RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever fasts the month of Ramadan and then follows it with six days of fasting in the month of Shawwal, it will be as if he fasted for the entire year."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1164

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

Poem: Allah The Most Wise Already Decreed Your Sustenance, Rizq And Provisions

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Know that, as a Muslim, everything has been decreed - 

How much income you'd receive, how much you'd drink and eat, 

What you can afford, what you'd consume, who you would feed, 

What gifts you'd give and to whom, and what you'd take freely - 

Your rizq is written, and part of Qadr/destiny.

~•~

Those dishes you enjoyed at gatherings and parties, 

Meals you ate which were cooked by loved ones generously, 

Food you fully finished despite not being tasty,

And snacks given by some friends, even reluctantly - 

Were all decreed by Allah, and part of destiny. 

~•~

Canned foods you bought for yourself but then you so kindly 

Used them to grant sustenance to stray cats in the streets, 

Edibles you've dropped because you slipped or were clumsy, 

And meals you aspired to devour but couldn't complete - 

Were all planned by Allah. Accept Qadr/destiny. 

~•~

Huge amount of food savored by those who seem greedy, 

Takeouts taken by visitors in large quantities, 

Neighbors or passersby who picked fruits from trees for free, 

And servings of your meal which you shared begrudgingly - 

Were all meant for them. Allah designed their destiny.

~•~

Next time you go through moments when "fairness" seems unclear, 

When you wonder, "I just got few. And them? Too many!" 

Or wish, "If only everyone on earth were wealthy", 

Recall, Allah distributed His blessings fairly. 

Increase Du'as to hopefully improve destiny.

~•~

📖 Abdullah Ibn Mas’ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam, narrated to us for he is the truthful and the trusted, "Verily, the creation of each one of you is brought together in his mother’s womb for forty days as a drop, then he is a clot for a similar period, then a morsel for a similar period, then there is sent to him the angel who blows the spirit into him and he is commanded regarding four matters: To write down his provision (rizq), his life span, his deeds, and whether he is unhappy or happy. By Allah, other than whom there is no God, one of you acts like the people of Paradise until he is but an arm’s length from it, and what is written overtakes him so he acts like the people of Hellfire and he enters it. Verily, one of you acts like the people of Hellfire until he is but an arm’s length from it, and what is written overtakes him so he acts like the people of Paradise and he enters it."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 7454 

Sahih Muslim 2643

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Umar Ibn Al-Khattab RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If you were to rely upon Allah with reliance due to Him, He (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) would provide for you just as He provides for the birds. They go out in the morning with empty stomachs and return full."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2344

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Salman RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Nothing repels the divine decree (Qadr) but supplication, and nothing increases life span but righteousness."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2139

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Albani

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