بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين

بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين
May Allah the Almighty grant us more beneficial knowledge, accept our good deeds, forgive our mistakes, protect us from fitna, and join us with the righteous believers in Jannatul Ferdaus. Ameen.

Saturday, October 28, 2023

Note: INTJs - From The Most Introverted Of Introverts - They Care About The Quality Not Quantity Of Friends

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

🗒️ Seven things which could happen when you've become one of the few close friends of an INTJ Muslim: 
1. A lot of your problems integrate with their lists of problems to solve. They'd do whatever they can for Allah's sake to help you with your struggles even if their concern involves offering sincere advice, frequently checking your well-being, or wholeheartedly mentioning your name in many of their loving Du'as / supplications / prayers. 
2. If you're managing a halal business and own a number of Facebook pages, they'd do what they can for Allah's sake to support you, grant reactions to some of your online posts, and regularly recommend a lot of your products to others without necessarily being evident about how genuinely supportive they are. 
3. They'd try their best for Allah's sake to develop their approachability with the individuals who matter to you and maintain courtesy with them instead of remaining distant, mysterious or indifferent to your loved ones. 
4. Whenever they find the opportunity to share something or be more generous, you'll usually witness them giving you freebies, gifts or snacks without expecting anything in return from you. This is an extremely rare occurrence if there's no actual connection between you two.
5. As long as they're not preoccupied with other tasks and responsibilities, plus the internet speed in their area is not unstable, they are generally quick to answer your emails and messages rather than consistently delaying in responding or not even bothering to open the conversation thread (since it's typical for most INTJs to refuse to pay attention to negative whiners, envious gossipers and inauthentic people). 
6. When an INTJ truly cares about you, they'll invite you on a regular basis to join them in attending Islamic lectures or gatherings which they believe are of value, or send links to several articles, websites and educative or motivational videos that they hope can benefit you one way or another.
7. When an INTJ regards you as a real friend, not merely an acquaintance or coworker, you'll notice how they're surprisingly patient, forgiving and lenient or easygoing towards you compared to dozens of other individuals whom they're eager to avoid whenever possible. Also from time to time they may go out of their way to ask if they can visit you and seldom overreact when you postpone or cancel plans to meet up (on very rare occasions).
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The Mufarridun (the isolated or those who like to isolate themselves) have gone ahead (in gaining rewards)." He was asked, "Who are the Mufarridun?" He Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam replied, "Those men and women who remember Allah much."
[Sahih Muslim]
Arabic/English book reference: Book 16, Hadith 1436 
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his best friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi 
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are troops collected together. They come close upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109
Sahih Muslim 2638
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim