بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين

بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين
May Allah the Almighty grant us more beneficial knowledge, accept our good deeds, forgive our mistakes, protect us from fitna, and join us with the righteous believers in Jannatul Ferdaus. Ameen.

Wednesday, December 30, 2020

Poem: Tips On How To Stay In Love With Your Husband

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 New lessons learned in marriage and tips to stay in love:

No matter where your husband goes and how far apart 

You are from each other at times, you remain in touch 

Through each other's frequent thoughts, dreams and loving Du'as.

~•~

Not seeing him as often as you'd want can be hard, 

But recalling the rewards of patience keeps you tough, 

And living as your husband's loyal wife is enough 

To keep you contented. You're not with those who give up.

~•~

I've learned that when you love Allah more than your husband, 

You can deal with your soulmate's absence with sweet patience, 

Disappointments and frustrations can't make you question 

Your marriage. Instead, they inspire you to keep going.

~•~

By loving Allah much more than your spouse, I admit

That it's no fun to feel distressed when your man is missed,

But you go on loving him despite feeling upset, 

Because loving him for Allah still brings happiness.

~•~

So your marriage lasts forever, with Allah's Mercy: 

Love him just for Allah. Refuse to quit easily. 

Cherish good times and pray for each other frequently.

Rewind memorable moments. Love him faithfully.

~•~

Love your man not for his looks, job title or money, 

But love him for Allah, like from the start you agreed 

To accept him as your other half in life's journey,

Traveling together to deserve Jannah's entry.

~•~

To stay in love: Remember all his best qualities, 

Such as "caring", "huggable", "hardworking" and "funny".

Teach him about Islam, together try to succeed 

In not letting shaytan smile with your disunity.

~•~

📖 Abdullah ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best wealth is a tongue that remembers Allah, a grateful heart, and a believing wife to help one in his faith."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3094

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Umm Salamah RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Any woman who dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah (Paradise)".

[At-Tirmidhi, who classified it as Hadith Hasan]

Riyadh As-Salihin 286

In-book reference: Introduction, Hadith 286