💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Tips for fiercely loyal wives to practice empathy,
Ways to be an empath to the man you love deeply,
While loving Allah of course more than anybody,
And when you're truly empathetic to your hubby,
You can put up with LDR and polygyny:
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Since he's your other half, you'd want him to be happy,
Even if his joy doesn't involve you directly.
You want to see him smiling. His tears lead to worry.
The emotions he goes through you similarly feel,
Except when he's mad, you want his wrath to disappear.
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When you can't always give him what he requests or needs,
Such as more babies, you permit him to remarry.
The sight of him doing well, feeling pleased and at ease,
Brings you relief, knowing you did your best to succeed
In being your soulmate's grateful and faithful wifey.
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When your husband fails at some of his spousal duties,
Or work prevents him from communicating daily,
You'd imagine being him, and forgive readily.
Forgiving someone you care for comes so easily
When you know they're human and cherish shared memories.
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"I love him for Allah," recall that repeatedly,
"I wish to be from the reasons why my zawj succeeds
In both worlds, and prove our love since day one remains real."
With trust in Allah, whilst having Sabr, empathy,
And Shukr, your marriage can stand strong eternally.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1159
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi
Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."
Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātih 5/2125
📖 Umm Salamah RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Any woman who dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah (Paradise)".
[At-Tirmidhi, who classified it as Hadith Hasan]
Riyad As-Salihin 286
In-book reference: Introduction, Hadith 286
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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