Note: When INTJs Are Glad You're Not One Of Their Carefully Selected Friends (ChatGPT)

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

✅ Question: Write statements from an INTJ-A female to each of the 16 MBTI personality types starting with "No, thanks, I would never want to be one of your friends if you keep... We're better off as complete strangers because..."

➡️ ChatGPT: Sure, here are statements from an INTJ-A female to each of the 16 MBTI personality types:

1. **ISTJ:** "No, thanks, I would never want to be one of your friends if you keep insisting on rigid routines and resisting change. We're better off as complete strangers because I thrive on innovation and flexibility."

2. **ISFJ:** "No, thanks, I would never want to be one of your friends if you keep putting others’ needs before your own without question. We're better off as complete strangers because I value self-reliance and strategic thinking."

3. **INFJ:** "No, thanks, I would never want to be one of your friends if you keep idealizing people and situations to the point of being unrealistic. We're better off as complete strangers because I prefer practical and objective assessments."

4. **INTJ:** "No, thanks, I would never want to be one of your friends if you keep overanalyzing everything to the point of indecision. We're better off as complete strangers because I value decisive action and efficiency."

5. **ISTP:** "No, thanks, I would never want to be one of your friends if you keep avoiding long-term planning and strategizing. We're better off as complete strangers because I need a friend who values strategic foresight."

6. **ISFP:** "No, thanks, I would never want to be one of your friends if you keep prioritizing immediate sensory experiences over long-term goals. We're better off as complete strangers because I’m more focused on achieving structured outcomes."

7. **INFP:** "No, thanks, I would never want to be one of your friends if you keep dwelling on idealistic dreams without taking practical steps. We're better off as complete strangers because I value concrete planning and realistic goals."

8. **INTP:** "No, thanks, I would never want to be one of your friends if you keep getting caught up in abstract theories without considering real-world applications. We're better off as complete strangers because I appreciate a more grounded approach."

9. **ESTP:** "No, thanks, I would never want to be one of your friends if you keep seeking immediate excitement without thinking ahead. We're better off as complete strangers because I prefer thoughtful planning and long-term vision."

10. **ESFP:** "No, thanks, I would never want to be one of your friends if you keep focusing on living in the moment without considering future implications. We're better off as complete strangers because I value foresight and strategic planning."

11. **ENFP:** "No, thanks, I would never want to be one of your friends if you keep jumping from one idea to another without any follow-through. We're better off as complete strangers because I prefer focused and strategic action."

12. **ENTP:** "No, thanks, I would never want to be one of your friends if you keep engaging in debates without practical outcomes. We're better off as complete strangers because I value discussions that lead to actionable strategies."

13. **ESTJ:** "No, thanks, I would never want to be one of your friends if you keep enforcing rigid structures and dismissing innovative ideas. We're better off as complete strangers because I value strategic adaptability over strict protocols."

14. **ESFJ:** "No, thanks, I would never want to be one of your friends if you keep focusing on harmony and consensus at the expense of efficiency. We're better off as complete strangers because I prioritize effective results over social harmony."

15. **ENFJ:** "No, thanks, I would never want to be one of your friends if you keep prioritizing interpersonal dynamics over strategic goals. We're better off as complete strangers because I value outcome-oriented thinking over emotional appeasement."

16. **ENTJ:** "No, thanks, I would never want to be one of your friends if you keep focusing on dominating conversations rather than fostering collaborative strategies. We're better off as complete strangers because I appreciate mutual respect in strategic discussions."

✅ Question: Write a statement from an INTJ-A to each of the 16 MBTI personality types which start with "Do you think I'm bothered by you walking away? Go ahead and walk away. It's a blessing you're not part of my network while I'm more at ease not associating myself with you because you only... I don't need your..."

➡️ ChatGPT: Sure, here are statements tailored from an INTJ-A perspective for each MBTI type:

1. **INTJ-A to ISTJ**: "Do you think I'm bothered by you walking away? Go ahead and walk away. It's a blessing you're not part of my network while I'm more at ease not associating myself with you because you only cling to rigid traditions. I don't need your inflexibility."

2. **INTJ-A to ISFJ**: "Do you think I'm bothered by you walking away? Go ahead and walk away. It's a blessing you're not part of my network while I'm more at ease not associating myself with you because you only focus on maintaining harmony. I don't need your emotional dependency."

3. **INTJ-A to INFJ**: "Do you think I'm bothered by you walking away? Go ahead and walk away. It's a blessing you're not part of my network while I'm more at ease not associating myself with you because you only idealize abstract concepts. I don't need your idealism."

4. **INTJ-A to INTJ**: "Do you think I'm bothered by you walking away? Go ahead and walk away. It's a blessing you're not part of my network while I'm more at ease not associating myself with you because you only compete in intellect. I don't need your rivalry."

5. **INTJ-A to INTP**: "Do you think I'm bothered by you walking away? Go ahead and walk away. It's a blessing you're not part of my network while I'm more at ease not associating myself with you because you only debate for the sake of debate. I don't need your intellectual detachment."

6. **INTJ-A to ESTJ**: "Do you think I'm bothered by you walking away? Go ahead and walk away. It's a blessing you're not part of my network while I'm more at ease not associating myself with you because you only enforce conventional standards. I don't need your authoritarianism."

7. **INTJ-A to ESFJ**: "Do you think I'm bothered by you walking away? Go ahead and walk away. It's a blessing you're not part of my network while I'm more at ease not associating myself with you because you only seek approval. I don't need your people-pleasing tendencies."

8. **INTJ-A to ENFJ**: "Do you think I'm bothered by you walking away? Go ahead and walk away. It's a blessing you're not part of my network while I'm more at ease not associating myself with you because you only prioritize social dynamics. I don't need your relational focus."

9. **INTJ-A to ENFP**: "Do you think I'm bothered by you walking away? Go ahead and walk away. It's a blessing you're not part of my network while I'm more at ease not associating myself with you because you only chase after new ideas without direction. I don't need your lack of focus."

10. **INTJ-A to ISTP**: "Do you think I'm bothered by you walking away? Go ahead and walk away. It's a blessing you're not part of my network while I'm more at ease not associating myself with you because you only live in the moment. I don't need your impulsiveness."

11. **INTJ-A to ISFP**: "Do you think I'm bothered by you walking away? Go ahead and walk away. It's a blessing you're not part of my network while I'm more at ease not associating myself with you because you only value personal feelings. I don't need your emotional unpredictability."

12. **INTJ-A to INFP**: "Do you think I'm bothered by you walking away? Go ahead and walk away. It's a blessing you're not part of my network while I'm more at ease not associating myself with you because you only follow your personal values. I don't need your idealistic whims."

13. **INTJ-A to ESTP**: "Do you think I'm bothered by you walking away? Go ahead and walk away. It's a blessing you're not part of my network while I'm more at ease not associating myself with you because you only seek immediate results. I don't need your short-term focus."

14. **INTJ-A to ESFP**: "Do you think I'm bothered by you walking away? Go ahead and walk away. It's a blessing you're not part of my network while I'm more at ease not associating myself with you because you only crave excitement. I don't need your constant need for stimulation."

15. **INTJ-A to ENTP**: "Do you think I'm bothered by you walking away? Go ahead and walk away. It's a blessing you're not part of my network while I'm more at ease not associating myself with you because you only challenge ideas for the sake of it. I don't need your constant (and pointless) provocations."

16. **INTJ-A to INFP**: "Do you think I'm bothered by you walking away? Go ahead and walk away. It's a blessing you're not part of my network while I'm more at ease not associating myself with you because you only seek to understand the world through personal meaning. I don't need your irrationality."

Each statement reflects the INTJ-A's preference for efficiency, independence, and strategic alignment, while highlighting perceived limitations of the other types.

⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

✅ Question: Write a statement from an INTJ to each of the 16 MBTI personality types begining with "Leave the group/school/workplace if you like. I'm actually relieved I won't deal with your... I'd never want to copy your nonsensical..."

➡️ ChatGPT: Sure, here’s a set of statements from an INTJ to each MBTI personality type:

1. **ISTJ**: "Leave the group/school/workplace if you like. I'm actually relieved I won't deal with your rigid adherence to rules. I'd never want to copy your nonsensical obsession with structure."

2. **ISFJ**: "Leave the group/school/workplace if you like. I'm actually relieved I won't deal with your excessive need for harmony. I'd never want to copy your nonsensical focus on maintaining peace at all costs."

3. **INFJ**: "Leave the group/school/workplace if you like. I'm actually relieved I won't deal with your idealistic expectations. I'd never want to copy your nonsensical pursuit of perfection in every interaction."

4. **INTJ**: "Leave the group/school/workplace if you like. I'm actually relieved I won't deal with your inability to tolerate differing perspectives. I'd never want to copy your nonsensical refusal to embrace alternative viewpoints."

5. **ISTP**: "Leave the group/school/workplace if you like. I'm actually relieved I won't deal with your impulsive decision-making. I'd never want to copy your nonsensical approach to solving problems without thorough analysis."

6. **ISFP**: "Leave the group/school/workplace if you like. I'm actually relieved I won't deal with your emotional unpredictability. I'd never want to copy your nonsensical tendency to act on feelings without logical consideration."

7. **INFP**: "Leave the group/school/workplace if you like. I'm actually relieved I won't deal with your relentless search for personal meaning. I'd never want to copy your nonsensical fixation on abstract ideals."

8. **INTP**: "Leave the group/school/workplace if you like. I'm actually relieved I won't deal with your detached, theoretical debates. I'd never want to copy your nonsensical obsession with hypothetical scenarios."

9. **ESTP**: "Leave the group/school/workplace if you like. I'm actually relieved I won't deal with your reckless spontaneity. I'd never want to copy your nonsensical approach to handling situations on a whim."

10. **ESFP**: "Leave the group/school/workplace if you like. I'm actually relieved I won't deal with your constant need for attention. I'd never want to copy your nonsensical focus on immediate gratification."

11. **ENFP**: "Leave the group/school/workplace if you like. I'm actually relieved I won't deal with your constant need for novelty. I'd never want to copy your nonsensical tendency to jump from one idea to another."

12. **ENTP**: "Leave the group/school/workplace if you like. I'm actually relieved I won't deal with your constant need to debate. I'd never want to copy your nonsensical fascination with challenging every idea."

13. **ESTJ**: "Leave the group/school/workplace if you like. I'm actually relieved I won't deal with your authoritarian style. I'd never want to copy your nonsensical insistence on strict control and hierarchy."

14. **ESFJ**: "Leave the group/school/workplace if you like. I'm actually relieved I won't deal with your need for approval. I'd never want to copy your nonsensical focus on pleasing everyone at the expense of effectiveness."

15. **ENFJ**: "Leave the group/school/workplace if you like. I'm actually relieved I won't deal with your manipulative tactics. I'd never want to copy your nonsensical efforts to mold others to fit your vision."

16. **ENTJ**: "Leave the group/school/workplace if you like. I'm actually relieved I won't deal with your aggressive drive for leadership. I'd never want to copy your nonsensical approach of bulldozing through obstacles without considering other perspectives."

✅ Question: Write a statement from a confident and reserved INTJ to each of the 16 MBTI personality types starting with "You act like we were ex-friends. You've always been a stranger. Don't be deluded. If we were friends I would... And I'd be more forgiving of your tendency to... But here I am avoiding you henceforth unapologetically. Your... is irrelevant to me."

➡️ ChatGPT: Sure, here are the statements tailored for each MBTI type:

1. **INTJ to ISTJ**: "You act like we were ex-friends. You've always been a stranger. Don't be deluded. If we were friends, I would appreciate your meticulous nature and your dedication to duty. And I'd be more forgiving of your tendency to cling to tradition. But here I am avoiding you henceforth unapologetically. Your rigidity is irrelevant to me."

2. **INTJ to ISFJ**: "You act like we were ex-friends. You've always been a stranger. Don't be deluded. If we were friends, I would value your commitment to others and your attention to detail. And I'd be more forgiving of your tendency to be overly self-sacrificing. But here I am avoiding you henceforth unapologetically. Your need for approval is irrelevant to me."

3. **INTJ to INFJ**: "You act like we were ex-friends. You've always been a stranger. Don't be deluded. If we were friends, I would respect your vision and your dedication to helping others. And I'd be more forgiving of your tendency to overcomplicate things emotionally. But here I am avoiding you henceforth unapologetically. Your idealism is irrelevant to me."

4. **INTJ to INTJ**: "You act like we were ex-friends. You've always been a stranger. Don't be deluded. If we were friends, I would appreciate your strategic thinking and independence. And I'd be more forgiving of your tendency to be overly critical of others. But here I am avoiding you henceforth unapologetically. Your detached demeanor is irrelevant to me."

5. **INTJ to INTP**: "You act like we were ex-friends. You've always been a stranger. Don't be deluded. If we were friends, I would value your intellectual curiosity and analytical prowess. And I'd be more forgiving of your tendency to be inconsistent with commitments. But here I am avoiding you henceforth unapologetically. Your theoretical focus is irrelevant to me."

6. **INTJ to ESTJ**: "You act like we were ex-friends. You've always been a stranger. Don't be deluded. If we were friends, I would appreciate your organizational skills and decisiveness. And I'd be more forgiving of your tendency to be domineering. But here I am avoiding you henceforth unapologetically. Your need for control is irrelevant to me."

7. **INTJ to ESFJ**: "You act like we were ex-friends. You've always been a stranger. Don't be deluded. If we were friends, I would value your ability to foster community and your attentiveness to others' needs. And I'd be more forgiving of your tendency to seek validation. But here I am avoiding you henceforth unapologetically. Your emotional dependency is irrelevant to me."

8. **INTJ to ENFJ**: "You act like we were ex-friends. You've always been a stranger. Don't be deluded. If we were friends, I would respect your leadership qualities and your ability to inspire others. And I'd be more forgiving of your tendency to overextend yourself. But here I am avoiding you henceforth unapologetically. Your emotional intensity is irrelevant to me."

9. **INTJ to ENFP**: "You act like we were ex-friends. You've always been a stranger. Don't be deluded. If we were friends, I would appreciate your creativity and enthusiasm. And I'd be more forgiving of your tendency to be unfocused. But here I am avoiding you henceforth unapologetically. Your emotional unpredictability is irrelevant to me."

10. **INTJ to ESTP**: "You act like we were ex-friends. You've always been a stranger. Don't be deluded. If we were friends, I would value your action-oriented approach and your adaptability. And I'd be more forgiving of your tendency to be impulsive. But here I am avoiding you henceforth unapologetically. Your recklessness is irrelevant to me."

11. **INTJ to ESFP**: "You act like we were ex-friends. You've always been a stranger. Don't be deluded. If we were friends, I would appreciate your zest for life and your ability to live in the moment. And I'd be more forgiving of your tendency to avoid serious topics. But here I am avoiding you henceforth unapologetically. Your superficiality is irrelevant to me."

12. **INTJ to ENTP**: "You act like we were ex-friends. You've always been a stranger. Don't be deluded. If we were friends, I would value your innovative ideas and your enthusiasm for debate. And I'd be more forgiving of your tendency to be unreliable. But here I am avoiding you henceforth unapologetically. Your delusional acts are irrelevant to me."

13. **INTJ to ISTP**: "You act like we were ex-friends. You've always been a stranger. Don't be deluded. If we were friends, I would appreciate your practical skills and your ability to solve problems on the fly. And I'd be more forgiving of your tendency to be emotionally distant. But here I am avoiding you henceforth unapologetically. Your detachment is irrelevant to me."

14. **INTJ to ISFP**: "You act like we were ex-friends. You've always been a stranger. Don't be deluded. If we were friends, I would value your authenticity and your appreciation for aesthetics. And I'd be more forgiving of your tendency to avoid conflict. But here I am avoiding you henceforth unapologetically. Your passivity is irrelevant to me."

15. **INTJ to INFJ**: "You act like we were ex-friends. You've always been a stranger. Don't be deluded. If we were friends, I would appreciate your empathy and vision. And I'd be more forgiving of your tendency to be overly idealistic. But here I am avoiding you henceforth unapologetically. Your emotional complexity is irrelevant to me."

16. **INTJ to INFP**: "You act like we were ex-friends. You've always been a stranger. Don't be deluded. If we were friends, I would value your depth of feeling and your quest for meaning. And I'd be more forgiving of your tendency to be overly idealistic. But here I am avoiding you henceforth unapologetically. Your unreasonableness and oversensitivity are irrelevant to me." 

⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

Note: Oh You're An Oversensitive Type? Goodbye (Some notes from ChatGPT)

 بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

✅ Question: Today while chatting with a female who I haven't met personally yet, I've realized from her recent messages that she seems extremely sensitive as I asked her some simple questions for clarifications while she unnecessarily overreacted and started behaving irrationally despite being an adult supposedly in her 30s or so. I have a strong feeling that she could be struggling from severe narcissistic personality disorder and I won't be surprised at all if she blocked me on social media simply for taking offense at my asking her some questions for clarification. I'm an INTJ-A who once I confirm that someone appears oversensitive or unreasonably nervous around me, I gladly distance myself from them online and offline for Allah's sake, uninterested in stalking their nonsense nor eager to ask anybody else about them. What tips can you share with an INTJ-A on how to effectively avoid narcissists and overly sensitive personality types?

➡️ ChatGPT: Dealing with sensitive individuals or potential narcissists can be challenging, especially for an INTJ-A who values rationality and direct communication. Here are some tips that might help you navigate these situations more effectively:

1. **Set Clear Boundaries**: Clearly define and communicate your boundaries to avoid misunderstandings. This helps prevent you from being drawn into unnecessary emotional drama.

2. **Stay Objective**: Maintain a focus on facts and logic in your interactions. Avoid getting emotionally involved or letting others' reactions influence your behavior.

3. **Limit Personal Disclosure**: Be cautious about sharing personal information or opinions that might trigger a strong emotional response from others.

4. **Observe Reactions**: Pay attention to how someone responds to constructive feedback or questions. Overly defensive or dramatic reactions can be red flags.

5. **Avoid Personalization**: If someone reacts negatively, try not to take it personally. Their reactions often reflect their own issues rather than something about you.

6. **Use Written Communication**: When possible, use written forms of communication. This allows you to clearly articulate your thoughts and provides a record of the conversation, reducing the potential for misinterpretation.

7. **Practice Detachment**: If you sense that someone is highly sensitive or narcissistic, it's often best to distance yourself and limit interactions. Focus on relationships where communication is more straightforward and balanced.

8. **Educate Yourself**: Understanding more about narcissistic traits and sensitive personalities can help you recognize red flags earlier and respond appropriately.

By applying these strategies, you can minimize the likelihood of encountering unnecessary conflicts and maintain more productive and harmonious interactions.

✅ Question: Make 11 sentences to describe my overall personality as an INTJ-A who would likely say to others "if you like me, that's fine. I'll try to return your favors Inn-sha-Allah and kindness. If you despise me, that's not my problem. You can walk away and I won't bother chasing you nor would I ask for your forgiveness if I know I've never acted irrational nor oppressive."

➡️ ChatGPT:

1. As an INTJ-A, I value independence and self-sufficiency, and I prioritize my own principles and goals over external validation.

2. I approach interactions with a logical and strategic mindset, focusing on efficiency and effectiveness rather than seeking approval.

3. My confidence and self-assuredness mean that I am comfortable with others accepting or rejecting me without taking it personally.

4. I believe in reciprocal kindness, and while I appreciate genuine connections, I’m not easily swayed by superficial relationships.

5. I maintain a clear sense of personal integrity, so I am unlikely to apologize for things I believe I haven't done wrong.

6. My decision-making is rooted in careful analysis and long-term vision, which means I often prioritize my plans over immediate social concerns.

7. I value directness and honesty in communication, preferring straightforward interactions without unnecessary emotional entanglements.

8. My independence extends to how I handle conflicts; I don’t feel compelled to chase after or appease those who are critical of me.

9. I hold a strong sense of personal responsibility and self-respect, which means I won’t compromise my values to gain others' approval.

10. My demeanor might come across as detached to some, but it’s simply a reflection of my focus on strategic thinking and personal objectives.

11. I believe in mutual respect and expect others to understand that my approach to relationships is shaped by my commitment to rationality and self-reliance (while trusting Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala always).

⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

✅ Question: Be as frank as you can. How would a confident INTJ-A female treat you once they realize you're actually an oversensitive narcissist and they being 1w9 unapologetically walk away without clarifying their decision to quit trying to get to know you more personally?

ChatGPT: An INTJ-A female who realizes you're an oversensitive narcissist might simply decide it's not worth her time to continue the interaction. As a Type 1w9, she values integrity and consistency but also seeks peace and harmony. If she perceives that the relationship isn't aligning with her values or goals, she might walk away without explanation, especially if she believes any further engagement would be futile or counterproductive. Her decision to disengage would be driven by her preference for efficiency and clarity, rather than a need for personal conflict resolution or emotional involvement.

An INTJ-A female with a 1w9 personality might stop doing the following to avoid an oversensitive narcissist:

1. **Initiating Contact**: She'd likely cease reaching out or starting conversations.

2. **Engaging in Deep Discussions**: Avoiding deep, personal conversations or emotional exchanges.

3. **Offering Support**: Stopping any attempts to offer emotional or practical support.

4. **Making Plans**: Not including you in future plans or activities.

5. **Responding Promptly**: Taking longer to respond to messages or calls.

6. **Showing Empathy**: Withdrawing from showing understanding or empathy.

7. **Providing Feedback**: Avoiding giving constructive feedback or critiques.

8. **Seeking Your Opinions**: Not asking for or considering your opinions or advice.

9. **Sharing Personal Information**: Stopping sharing her own personal thoughts or feelings.

10. **Being Available**: Reducing her availability for meetings or social interactions.

11. **Engaging in Conflict Resolution**: Not investing time in resolving conflicts or misunderstandings.

To avoid you, she might:

1. **Limit Interaction**: Only interact when absolutely necessary.

2. **Be Direct but Polite**: Communicate in a clear, straightforward manner without engaging emotionally.

3. **Set Boundaries**: Establish clear boundaries to minimize contact.

4. **Avoid Social Media**: Remove or limit online interactions and visibility.

5. **Seek Out Other Social Circles**: Spend more time with other friends or colleagues.

6. **Redirect Conversations**: Steer discussions to neutral topics or away from personal matters.

7. **Use Formal Communication**: Opt for professional or formal modes of communication rather than personal.

8. **Avoid Situations Together**: Ensure she’s not in situations where you're present.

9. **Limit Emotional Investment**: Keep interactions brief and transactional.

10. **Be Less Accessible**: Reduce availability for calls, messages, or meetings.

11. **Focus on Personal Goals**: Concentrate on her own interests and goals, minimizing time spent on interactions with you. 

⚠️Note: this INTJ-A would also gladly refrain from stalking your posts online, so don't waste time sharing cowardly passive-aggressive status updates which she won't bother skimming or checking.