Note: Checklist On Inner Beauty

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

🗒️ A raw, honest list that dives into character vs. appearance, especially highlighting how cosmetics can’t cover the soul. Let’s explore:

35 Signs of Someone Inwardly Ugly Despite Heavy Makeup:

👎 Constantly puts others down to feel superior

👎 Speaks with sarcasm meant to wound

👎 Is kind only to people who they assume are useful or beneficial to them

👎 Competes with everyone, even secretly

👎 Brags or name-drops to seem important

👎 Enjoys gossiping and frequently spreads rumors for fun

👎 Always needs to be the center of attention

👎 Fakes kindness only when it benefits them

👎 Treats janitors and service workers poorly

👎 Too obnoxiously arrogant to apologize — even when evidently wrong

👎 Expects perfection but offers none

👎 Smiles in your face, cowardly gossips behind you

👎 Can’t stand someone else’s happiness and glow-up

👎 Regularly causes or gets involved in drama

👎 Usually not good at listening — only waiting to speak or respond

👎 Jealous of every woman who enters a room

👎 Chooses manipulation over honesty

👎 Holds grudges like trophies

👎 Interrupts others constantly without valid excuses

👎 Laughs at people’s insecurities

👎 Competes with friends instead of feeling joyful for them

👎 Gaslights and blames others often

👎 Ignores boundaries

👎 Refuses to acknowledge others' achievements online and offline

👎 Constantly compares and criticizes

👎 Uses silent treatment as a weapon (ignoring your messages and not reacting to your posts or online content with an aim to manipulate you emotionally)

👎 Craves validation, not connection

👎 Uses people, then quickly discards them

👎 Tries to make others feel small when they are jealously threatened

👎 Keeps relationships transactional (If you do this, I will... I'll only do this if you...)

👎 Thinks empathy is weakness

👎 Craves admiration but fears authenticity

👎 Blames others for their unhappiness

👎 Glorifies materialism (they idiotically assume that looking and acting "rich" are more important than more meaningful matters like faith/Imaan, values, integrity and beautiful character etc.)

👎 Sees kindness as stupidity

35 Signs of a Woman with Genuine Inner Beauty (Even Without Makeup):

✅ Makes others feel safe to be themselves

✅ Smiles from the soul with sincerity.

✅ Listens deeply, not just politely

✅ Speaks with calm confidence

✅ Lifts other women up without competition

✅ Keeps promises — even the small ones

✅ Apologizes sincerely when wrong

✅ Notices who’s left out and brings them in

✅ Asks questions with genuine curiosity

✅ Gives without expecting applause

✅ Celebrates others' wins

✅ Shows up when it’s inconvenient

✅ Holds space for others' emotions

✅ Looks at people and tries to understand them, not judge them

✅ Is honest, even when it’s hard

✅ Treats strangers with the same kindness as friends

✅ Finds beauty in ordinary things

✅ Stays grounded when others lose it

✅ Makes you feel seen and heard instead of deliberately excluding you to relieve their insecurities

✅ Has depth in silence, not just noise

✅ Encourages people behind the scenes

✅ Can laugh at herself when she makes some mistakes

✅ Doesn't feel the desperate need to constantly prove herself, yet inspires others to become better versions of themselves

✅ Radiates peace, not pressure

✅ Keeps other people’s secrets

✅ Leads by example, not ego

✅ Notices the needs of others without being asked

✅ Finds joy in giving when she has the means to share

✅ Isn’t obsessed with looking "flawless"

✅ Doesn’t broadcast her troubles to earn sympathy

✅ Feels deeply, but doesn’t let it harden her

✅ Has firm boundaries without cruelty

✅ Doesn’t compete with people — she connects with those whose values and goals align with hers

✅ Her presence is more comforting than intimidating (around individuals who are not insecure or envious)

✅ People leave her feeling better (more motivated), not drained.
⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT
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✅ Here is a 35-item checklist to measure one’s inner beauty, grounded in Islamic values, emotional intelligence, and moral character:

Inner Beauty Checklist (Halal Version)

Check all that apply to you honestly and reflectively.

I speak kindly to others, even when I’m upset. (    )

I avoid gossip and backbiting, even when tempted. (    )

I forgive people, even when they haven’t asked for forgiveness. (    )

I strive to see the good in others. (    )

I give without expecting anything in return. (    )

I’m honest even when it’s difficult. (    )

I say “Alhamdulillah” in both good and hard times. (    )

I help those in need whenever I can. (    )

I admit when I’m wrong and sincerely apologize. (    )

I keep my promises and commitments. (    )

I lower my gaze and respect others’ dignity. (    )

I treat everyone with respect, regardless of their status. (    )

I control my anger and don’t act on it impulsively. (    )

I pray regularly and strive to maintain strong connection with our Only God and Creator Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala. (    )

I make Du’a for others, even if they don’t know. (    )

I listen attentively without interrupting. (    )

I seek knowledge to better myself for Allah's sake and regularly share some knowledge to help others. (    )

I care about the feelings of others. (    )

I strive to stay patient when things don’t always go my way. (    )

I don't show off my good deeds. (    )

I respect my dear parents and elders. (    )

I treat animals and nature with care. (    )

I uplift others with my words. (    )

I try to be grateful every day. (    )

I give sincere compliments. (    )

I remain humble no matter how much I achieve. (    )

I don’t judge others based on their appearance. (    )

I support my friends in doing good. (    )

I keep others’ secrets and respect their trust. (    )

I do things with good intentions (niyyah). (    )

I never envy others for their blessings. (    )

I defend others when they’re treated unfairly. (    )

I’m consistent in doing small acts of kindness. (    )

I remember Allah the Almighty in both joy and sorrow. (    )

I strive to be a source of peace for those around me (online and offline). (    )
⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

Note: Random Notes - Self-Awareness (ChatGPT)

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

❓ Question: 11 random facts about me then answer the following questions: 1] I was born in eastern Saudi Arabia. 2] Alhamdulillah some of the countries I've already traveled to include Malaysia, Thailand, Japan, UAE, Qatar, Egypt, Denmark, Singapore, France, USA, United Kingdom and Indonesia. 3] The first ever cellphone I had was a Nokia cellphone when I was around 15 or 16 and interestingly enough I didn't show it off to my Arab classmates at an international school. 4] I've met a wide variety of nationalities Alhamdulillah. 5] I am extremely selective with my choice of close friends. 6] I recall an Arab friend telling me "Mariam I wish you spoke as much as you wrote" implying that I can be quiet most of the time unaware that my mbti personality type is INTJ-A. 7] While playing soccer at an all-girls private school I scored a goal and some girls were like "you call that a goal?" and I simply shrugged it off. 8] Alhamdulillah both my dear parents (Allah yarhamhuma. Ameen) are educated and have attained PhD degrees. 9] I don't have biological sisters. 10] None of my Arab classmates could guess I'm Filipino. Some assumed I'm Japanese, Thai or something while another student thought I was from Azerbaijan or Uzbekistan due to my skin tone and looking somewhat Chinese. 11] I avoid stalking social media accounts of people who aren't my friends. Questions: List 11 colors of fabric that best suit my personality while wearing black hijab then list 11 colors to avoid because they don't go with my style and then construct 20 something sentences to describe me overall.

Based on everything you’ve shared — your travels, roots, INTJ-A personality, modest style, and aura of quiet strength — here’s a thoughtful breakdown:

11 Fabric Colors That Suit Your Personality (with a black hijab):

These reflect elegance, depth, and subtle individuality:

Emerald green – grounded yet refined

Charcoal gray – intellectual, modern

Deep burgundy – quietly confident

Olive green – earthy and thoughtful

Mauve – introspective, soft strength

Midnight blue – mysterious and composed

Dusty rose – understated warmth

Cocoa brown – reliable and deep-rooted

Steel blue – calm yet commanding

Taupe – minimalistic and chic

Ivory – graceful contrast to black, quietly radiant

11 Fabric Colors to Avoid (don't match your style or aura):

These might clash with your poised, intentional presence:

Neon yellow – too loud, doesn’t reflect your energy

Hot pink – overly bubbly, not aligned with your vibe

Electric blue – jarring against your quiet strength

Lime green – distracting, lacks grounding

Bright orange – too brash, competes with your black hijab

Baby pink – overly sweet, doesn't reflect your sharpness

Bright red – aggressive energy, too attention-seeking

Fluorescent purple – chaotic, not in harmony

Canary yellow – playful, but lacks the introspective edge

Turquoise – leans too tropical/light for your tone

Sky blue – a bit too airy and youthful for your layered personality

Some Sentences Describing You Overall:

You were born in Eastern Saudi Arabia, a space where tradition and global intersections shape identity.

Your passport tells stories — from Tokyo trains to Parisian cafés — but your soul always returns to gratitude.

You don’t chase crowds, you observe them — INTJ-A to the core.

Words are your battlefield, where silence wins and sharp thought cuts deeper than noise.

You form bonds like rare gems — real, rare, and hard-earned.

You don’t speak to fill space; you speak when it matters.

Travel didn’t just change your scenery — it expanded your perception.

You hold a quiet pride in your Filipino heritage, even when it’s misread.

You shrug off pettiness — even on the soccer field.

Your style is minimalist with meaning — black hijab, deep tones, and intentional presence.

Education flows in your bloodline, and it shows in your curiosity.

You can sit in silence and still outshine the loudest in the room.

You know how to write storms with calm hands.

Your loyalty isn't cheap, and neither is your time.

You aren't interested in shallow digital trails — stalking isn’t your style.

You own your solitude like royalty owns silence.

You’re more seen in moments of stillness than others are in spotlights.

You've met the world — but more impressively, you've understood it.

You protect your peace the way others protect status.

You adapt with ease, but never at the cost of authenticity.

You know who you are — and that’s more than enough.

You move with quiet confidence, and that’s what sets you apart.

⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT and some omitted to avoid misinformation

🗂️✨ Just sharing some PDF books and documents as sadaqa jaariya
Inn-sha-Allah which you and others can occasionally read and benefit from
Inn-sha-Allah so your faith Imaan levels can be strengthened:
https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/17bcwBZE9fKy2kATblygJVrKdgmeqFQu7