ุจุณู… ุงู„ู„ู‡. ุฑุจูŠ ุฒุฏู†ูŠ ุนู„ู…ุง. ุงู…ูŠู†

ุจุณู… ุงู„ู„ู‡. ุฑุจูŠ ุฒุฏู†ูŠ ุนู„ู…ุง. ุงู…ูŠู†
May Allah the Almighty grant us more beneficial knowledge, accept our good deeds, forgive our mistakes, protect us from fitna, and join us with the righteous believers in Jannatul Ferdaus. Ameen.

Saturday, March 26, 2022

Note: What Good Muslim Friends Often Discuss vs What Shallow People Find Interesting

๐Ÿ’ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 


๐Ÿ—’️ From the topics which shallow people and toxic friends discuss a lot:

1] People's flaws, disagreeable attributes and faults.
2] Recent rumors or unpleasant news about a mutual friend, acquaintance or celebrity.
3] The latest updates related to items and products on sale while finding most Islamic lectures unappealing.
4] Actually narcissistic and boastful talk about one's achievements or joys without any intention to motivate others to become better Muslims.
5] Pointless complaints regarding certain difficulties without aiming to solve problems, draining your energy by whining aimlessly.
๐ŸŒป✨ From the outcomes of minimizing and avoiding dialogues with shallow people:
1] Conserving your time and energy for more meaningful, rewarding and worthwhile activities, such as reading more pages from the Noble Qur'an and studying Islam through reliable sources.
2] Protecting your account of deeds from accumulating the sins of Muslims who are being criticized in their absence or discussed negatively.
3] Improved inner state, enhanced preservation of your emotional well-being, and avoidance of bad vibes.
๐Ÿ’ฌ ๐Ÿ—จ️ What righteous Muslims and the right kind of friends prefer to talk about:
1] Beneficial lessons they've learned from an Islamic lecture, class or gathering.
2] Sincere reminders to do more good deeds truthfully for Allah's sake like fasting Sunnah fasts and praying Taraweeh, Witr and Tahajjud / Qiyaam Al-Layl.
3] Helpful advice to relieve you from worries, words of encouragement, inspirational tips.
4] Ways to develop one's personality and strengthen one's faith Imaan, supporting one another to succeed in both worlds, with Allah's Will, as patient, faithful and dedicated Muslims.
5] Warnings against committing evil deeds and bid'ah (religious innovated acts), not feeling reluctant to correct each other's wrongs when necessary.
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๐Ÿ“– Ibn Umar RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer who mixes with the people and endures their harm with patience has a greater reward than one who does not mix with the people nor endures their harm with patience."
Source: Musnad Ahmed 22588
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Ahmed Shakir
๐Ÿ“– Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi
๐Ÿ“– Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu said: "A righteous companion is better than loneliness, and loneliness is better than an evil companion. A good writer is better than one silent, and one silent is better than an evil writer."
Source: Rawdat Al-‘Uqalā 56 

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