๐ Three signs that you're dealing with an insecure (unconfident) individual online:
1] They regularly post snide remarks, rude jokes indirectly referring to somebody whom they resent, and passive-aggressive status updates. Instead of confidently confronting the person whose actions upset them or sensibly keeping unpleasant thoughts to themselves, they feel the need to alleviate their injured pride by partaking in futile gossiping.
2] They purposely go out of their way to make you feel ignored, unappreciated or excluded, because someone else in the past caused them to feel worthless and devalued. "Seeing" your messages while deliberately refusing to communicate clearly with you online and offline is an awful habit which is characteristic of many insecure individuals.
3] They get all anxious when they notice you communicating with any of "their" friends. A person who wants to befriend you exclusively proves that their lack of confidence is undeniable when they're susceptible to inferiority complex and intense jealousy.
✅ Truly confident people:
1] Don't utilize social media as a virtual stage to demean any human being with the sole intention of relieving hurt emotions.
2] Avoid bullying, injustice, and acting like a disrespectful troll as much as possible.
3] Are not overly clingy or too selfish when it comes to networking. Whether you're amicable or hostile towards them, they remain emotionally stable, and they don't overreact if you display willingness to connect with their other friends or acquaintances.
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๐ 'Aisha RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, the believer may reach by his good character the rank of one who regularly fasts and stands for prayer (prays Tahajjud / Qiyaam Al-Layl often) at night."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4798
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase 'if only' opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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๐ Note: Reminder to recite Surah Al-Kahf every Jumuah Friday and include the Muslim Ummah in your Du'as.
