Travel Entry: Just Sharing A List Of Some Of The Countries I Traveled To

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1• Alhamdulillah. From the countries I went to include: Egypt, Bahrain, USA, UK, Denmark, Thailand, Japan, Malaysia, Indonesia, Singapore, Hong Kong, France, UAE and at the airports Oman, Bangladesh, Greece and Qatar.

2• Some of the tourist attractions my family and I have visited include: Disneyland Park in Anaheim, California; Walt Disney World Resort, SeaWorld, and the John F. Kennedy Space Center in Florida; Universal Studios Hollywood and Knott's Berry Farm in California; Audubon Aquarium of the Americas in New Orleans; Disneyland Paris in France; the Cairo Tower, the Egyptian Museum, and the Pyramids of Giza in Egypt; Tivoli Gardens in Copenhagen; Madame Tussauds museum, the Natural History Museum, Hyde Park, and the area around Big Ben in London; the Night Safari and Sentosa Island in Singapore; Dunia Fantasi in Jakarta, Indonesia; KLCC (Suria KLCC), the Petronas Twin Towers, Zoo Negara, and Genting SkyWorlds Theme Park in Malaysia; Ocean Park in Hong Kong; and various places in Manila, Philippines etc.
3• Although I've traveled with EgyptAir, Gulf Air, British Airways, Scandinavian Airlines, Thai Airways, Malaysia Airlines, AirAsia, Lion Air, Tiger Airways / Tigerair, Cathay Pacific, Emirates Airline, Etihad Airways, Qatar Airways, Philippine Airlines, Cebu Pacific, Singapore Airlines, Saudia (Saudi Arabian airlines) etc. I haven't tried business class yet.
4• Alhamdulillah. I've tried the following: MRT and LRT trains, as well as various buses in Manila; subway and underground trains in several European cities; monorail trains in Malaysia; horse riding somewhere in Davao; riding a calesa (a horse-drawn carriage) or a carriage pulled by a carabao at Malagos Garden Resort; horse-drawn carriages in Egypt; camel rides in Saudi Arabia; elephant rides in Thailand; a submarine voyage at Disneyland; and boat rides and log flumes in the UAE and Malaysia, among others.
5• I'm one of those travelers, Alhamdulillah, who — if given the financial means — would gladly buy souvenirs and tokens for several family members and loved ones as a form of sadaqa.

Question: From the above information, describe what type of traveler I am and list 13 fun facts about me which can be derived from the above truths. How much percentage would you say I am well-traveled Alhamdulillah compared to most Filipinos versus most Saudis? Then construct 11 quotes with some valuable advice on how to stay contented as a Muslimah regarding the places we've visited and how our actual destination is Jannah Paradise. Ensure your answers are devoid of negative words and the tips you share are undeniably wholesome.

📱💻 ChatGPT: Here’s a thoughtful, positive, and spiritually uplifting response based on what you shared:

🌍 What Type of Traveler You Are

You are a grateful, family-oriented, spiritually mindful globetrotter who finds joy in discovering new places, sharing experiences with loved ones, and reflecting on the blessings of travel. You enjoy a balance of fun, education, and cultural exploration — from theme parks to museums to historical sites — and you approach travel with a heart full of shukr (gratitude).

13 Fun Facts About You (Based on What You Shared)

You’ve been to at least 14 countries — from Asia to Europe to North America — and several airports around the world.

You’ve explored both Disneyland and Disney World — not everyone can say that!

You appreciate science and history — having visited places like the Kennedy Space Center, the Egyptian Museum, and London’s Natural History Museum.

You’ve tried a variety of transportation modes, from subways to monorails, horse rides, camel rides, and even a submarine experience.

You love theme parks and family attractions, including Universal Studios, Knott’s Berry Farm, Tivoli Gardens, and Genting SkyWorlds.

You value family bonding — your travels are often with your loved ones.

You enjoy shopping for souvenirs as sadaqa, turning a simple act into a meaningful gift-giving practice.

You’ve experienced multiple cultures firsthand — from Arab hospitality to European charm to Asian warmth.

You’ve flown with more than 13 different airlines, showing a wide range of air travel experiences.

You’ve enjoyed both city life and nature, from big cities like London and Tokyo to unique places like Davao and Malagos Garden Resort.

You appreciate animals and nature, having visited zoos, aquariums, and gone horse, camel, and elephant riding.

You’ve made memories across continents, from California theme parks to Paris landmarks to Cairo’s ancient wonders.

You travel with gratitude — always saying Alhamdulillah and reflecting on the blessings of being able to see a wide range of Allah’s beautiful creations.

📊 How Well-Traveled You Are

Compared to most Filipinos 🇵🇭: You are easily in the top 5–10% of well-traveled individuals, as many Filipinos may only travel domestically or within Asia if they travel abroad at all.

Compared to most Saudis 🇸🇦: You are around 30–40% well-traveled compared to them, since many Saudi families travel frequently (especially during summers) and often fly in business class or explore more countries.

Either way, Alhamdulillah, you are very well-traveled and blessed to have seen much of the world.

🌻 11 Quotes & Pieces of Advice for a Muslimah Traveler

Here are some wholesome, heartwarming reminders that tie your love for travel with your ultimate destination — Jannah Paradise:

"Every sunrise in a new land reminds the heart that the final sunrise we seek is in Jannah Paradise."

"Let every landmark you visit remind you that the greatest destination is the Home that never fades — Jannah Paradise."

"Travel with gratitude to Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala, so each step becomes a form of Dhikr."

"Souvenirs may fade, but the Dua you sincerely make to Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala while traveling lasts forever."

"As you marvel at the wonders of Allah's beautiful creation, whisper: 'Ya Allah, make me among those who see Your Face in Jannah Paradise. Ameen.'"

"Be a traveler who carries sabr, shukr, and salaah as essential luggage wherever you journey on earth towards Jannah Paradise."

"Every airport is a reminder that this dunya too is just a transit lounge before the real arrival in Jannah Paradise
Inn-sha-Allah takes place."

"A true traveler is one whose heart travels closer to Allah the Almighty with every trip."

"Pause in every place to say Alhamdulillah — it turns the whole world into a place of gratitude."

"Let the beauty of every country increase your yearning for the eternal bliss and peace in Jannah Paradise."

"Travel light in this world — for the heaviest baggage you carry should be good deeds done to please Only Allah Subhaanhu wa Ta'aala with Ikhlaas sincerity."

⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

💠 Gemini AI: Based on the information you provided, here is a description of the type of traveler you are, some fun facts, and a comparison of your travel experience.

Type of Traveler:

You are an adventurous and culturally curious family traveler who prioritizes memorable experiences and connections with loved ones. You enjoy visiting a mix of thrilling theme parks, iconic landmarks, and natural attractions, and you appreciate diverse modes of transportation. Your travels are also a beautiful expression of your generosity, as you seek to bring joy to others through thoughtful souvenirs.

13 Fun Facts About You:

You've traveled to at least 14 countries.

You have visited two different Disneyland Parks—one in California and another in Paris.

You've been to four major Disney and Universal theme parks in the United States.

You've enjoyed amusement park experiences in at least five different countries: the USA, France, Denmark, Singapore, and Malaysia.

You have a strong appreciation for nature and wildlife, having visited places like Audubon Aquarium, Zoo Negara, and a camel and elephant ride.

You have a fondness for unique forms of transport, including horse-drawn carriages, a carabao-pulled carriage, and a submarine.

Your travels have taken you to significant cultural landmarks, from the Pyramids of Giza to the KLCC Twin Towers.

You've experienced the convenience of public transportation in major cities across multiple continents.

You are a generous traveler who enjoys giving gifts to family and friends as a form of charity.

You've traveled with a wide variety of airlines, having tried at least 15 different carriers.

You've spent time in both the Philippines and Saudi Arabia, two distinct and meaningful locations for you.

You have a love for both bustling city life and serene natural environments.

You have experienced layovers in at least four different airports, which further expands your exposure to different cultures.

Percentage of Being Well-Traveled (Alhamdulillah):

Compared to most Filipinos: You are exceptionally well-traveled. The opportunity to visit so many diverse countries and attractions is not common for the majority of Filipinos. Therefore, you are likely in a high percentile, perhaps in the top 10-15%.

Compared to most Saudis: Saudi Arabian citizens often have greater ease of international travel due to geographical location and economic factors. While many Saudis travel frequently, your wide range of destinations, from the United States and Europe to Southeast Asia, still places you as a very well-traveled individual. You are likely in a high percentile, perhaps in the top 20-30%, given the breadth and variety of your travel experiences.

11 Quotes with Valuable Advice:

"Every new place we see on earth is a gentle reminder of the boundless beauty and power of our Creator Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala, and a hint of the magnificent Jannah Paradise which awaits us Inn-sha-Allah."

"The joy of our travels and the marvels we encounter are blessings from Allah the Almighty; may we use them to deepen our gratitude for His gifts. Ameen."

"Let the fleeting wonders of this world, from the Pyramids to the theme parks, inspire us to seek the eternal delights of Jannah Paradise."

"Our adventures here are beautiful stepping stones, preparing our hearts for the ultimate and everlasting destination of Jannatul Ferdaus."

"A contented heart finds peace in every journey, knowing that our true home is not a place on a map but
Inn-sha-Allah in the gardens of Jannah Paradise."

"Just as we collect cherished souvenirs from our travels, let us strive to collect good deeds done sincerely for Allah's sake that will be our most treasured possessions in Jannah Paradise."

"Let the memories of our worldly travels be sweet, but let our ultimate hope and longing be for the eternal bliss of Jannah, where every desire is fulfilled."

"The excitement of exploring new lands is a beautiful echo of the profound joy we will experience when we finally reach our permanent abode
Inn-sha-Allah in Jannah Paradise."

"Our travels teach us to appreciate the present moment, just as focusing on our faith Imaan helps us to build a future
Inn-sha-Allah in the highest level of Jannah Paradise, Jannatul Ferdaus."

"The breathtaking sights of this world are but a glimpse of Allah's amazing artistry; imagine the splendor which He Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala has prepared for us in Jannah Paradise."

"Travel with a heart full of gratitude, for every step and every sight is a gift, leading us on a beautiful path toward our final and most perfect destination
Inn-sha-Allah in Jannatul Ferdaus."

⤴️ Some notes from Gemini AI

https://abukhadeejah.com/what-is-a-journey-that-allows-you-to-shorten-the-prayer-and-requires-a-woman-to-take-a-mahram/

Note: Some Reminders From An INTJ Muslimah (100)

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Note: Some Signs You're Regarded As A Friend To An INTJ

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Tone Analysis of the Comment

The tone of the shared post is:

Selective but loyal → Highlights careful discernment in relationships.

Firm yet warm → Clear boundaries, but affection where commitment is established.

Unapologetic → Shows INTJs don’t feel guilty for withdrawing from unreliable people.

Affectionate exception → Reveals deep unconditional love towards her ESFJ husband.

So, it balances rational detachment with emotional devotion.

11 Examples of INTJ Muslimahs

(How they might act while combining faith and INTJ personality traits):

Selective in Sisterhood – Chooses a very small circle of sisters to confide in, but invests deeply in them.

Purpose-Driven Worship – Approaches Salah and Dhikr methodically, striving for khushoo’ with intentional focus.

Strategic Charity – Instead of random giving, ensures sadaqah reaches impactful causes (very selective regarding which halal businesses to promote and support for Allah's sake on social media and offline).

Protective Modesty – Sees hijab/niqab not just as a duty but as a shield of dignity.

Knowledge-Oriented – Loves attending Islamic lectures and analyzing lessons with a logical lens.

Guarded in Friendships – Won’t open up emotionally unless someone proves they are reliable, consistent in communicating and sincere.

Planner of Ramadan Goals – Has structured ibadah plans for Qur’an recitation, Tahajjud, and charity.

Silent but Observant – Rarely speaks loudly in large gatherings, but notices many things which others don't always notice.

Loyal Marriage Partner – Gives 100% commitment and protection to her spouse.

No-Tolerance for Hypocrisy – Distances from individuals who gossip, backbite, or lack integrity.

Deep Thinker in Du’a – Crafts specific and thoughtful supplications for chosen people whom she sincerely cares about.

Why Some INTJs Behave Like “People-Pleasers” Toward Certain Individuals

INTJs are not naturally people-pleasers, but they may appear this way toward select people because:

They’ve evaluated the person as worthy of long-term investment.

They see strong potential or purpose in the connection.

They admire certain traits (loyalty, intelligence, sincerity).

They feel spiritually or emotionally connected for Allah's sake.

They’ve committed to them (spouse, family, rare friends).

For these individuals, INTJs override their natural reserve and may behave humbly towards — but only for an elite few.

17 Signs an INTJ Regards You as a Friend (Even if You Rarely Chat)

They remember tiny details about you.

They silently check in (a short “are you okay?” means a lot).

They defend you in your absence.

They give you strategic advice when needed.

They pray for you privately and regularly.

They share resources (books, lectures, opportunities).

They tolerate your flaws longer than most people’s.

They open up about personal struggles.

They invite you into their inner plans or projects.

They’re honest with you, not sugarcoating.

They respect your boundaries.

They forgive you faster than outsiders.

They respond quickly when you’re in crisis.

They enjoy comfortable silence with you.

They make long-term promises (and keep them).

They show loyalty even if months pass without talking.

They include you in their Du’a consistently.

17 Signs You’re Not Friends Yet

They keep conversations strictly surface-level.

They give very short, polite replies.

They don’t ask about your life beyond necessity. (No questions or no curiosity at all about how your Hajj/pilgrimage or vacation went etc.)

They don’t volunteer personal information.

They avoid making long-term commitments with you.

They don’t initiate contact. (If within 3 months you never received a direct message from them - one on one message, not in a group chat - despite working in the same place or residing in the same neighborhood then they most likely don't perceive you as a friend)

They take long to reply or don’t bother at all.

They keep interactions purely functional (study, work, etc.).

They don’t share emotional states with you.

They don’t seem invested in your problems or personal matters.

They don’t defend you in tough situations.

They never open up to you about their values, dreams, beliefs, likes or dislikes etc.

They seem distant or formal, even after time passes.

They won’t prioritize your needs.

They easily forget your preferences.

They show no signs of integrating you into their future plans.

They’re willing to let the connection fade without resistance.

⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

🔹 Some Signs You Are Considered a Good Friend to an INTJ-A Female

(Online + Face to Face)

She often messages you without needing a reason.

Occasionally she checks in on your well-being, even briefly.

She shares personal thoughts or struggles with you.

She gives long, thoughtful replies (not one-liners).

She keeps your secrets absolutely safe.

She shares resources tailored to your interests.

She listens deeply and remembers what you told her.

She shows patience with your flaws.

She speaks to you with direct honesty.

She responds quickly when you’re in crisis.

She prays for you regularly.

She includes you in her long-term plans.

She introduces you to some of the people whom she trusts.

She forgives your mistakes more than others’.

She respects your boundaries without judgment.

She allows comfortable silence with you.

She invites you to share in meaningful activities.

She discusses her goals and visions with you.

She confides in you when stressed.

She shows loyalty even when you’re absent.

She values your advice and asks for it.

She defends you in your absence.

She smiles/laughs frequently in your presence (very rare for her).

She’s more forgiving if you forget to reply.

She sometimes engages in deep topics, not simply asking about the current weather.

She subtly expresses affection through small gestures.

She tags you in things she knows you’d love (online).

She shares her vulnerabilities.

She opens up about family, relationships, or struggles.

She allows you into her inner circle.

She shows consistency in reaching out.

She invests time in your growth and success.

She never lets you feel like a burden.

🔹 35 Signs You’re Not Friends Yet (But It’s Neutral)

(You’re more of an acquaintance)

She keeps the chat formal and polite.

Replies are brief and delayed.

Conversations stay on surface topics.

She doesn’t ask about your personal life.

She rarely shares about herself.

She doesn’t initiate contact.

She forgets details you mention about yourself.

She avoids emotional conversations.

She doesn’t involve you in personal projects.

She avoids introducing you to trusted people.

She interacts with you out of courtesy, not interest.

She uses generic responses like “ok” or “noted.”

She doesn’t invite you to events or lectures.

She doesn’t ask your opinions.

She only talks when necessary.

She avoids deeper topics.

She doesn’t open up about personal struggles.

She doesn’t joke or banter with you.

She keeps conversations brief and/or professional.

She doesn’t prioritize your messages.

She avoids making promises.

She doesn’t check in when you’re absent.

She never asks follow-up questions.

She doesn’t share recommendations/resources directly with you.

She never reacts to your posts or comments online.

She avoids complimenting you.

She doesn’t treat you differently from strangers.

She’s generally polite as a good person but clearly distant when it comes to interacting with you in most gatherings.

She avoids physical warmth (smiles, hugs, etc.).

She doesn’t remember your preferences.

She shows no excitement to see you.

She lets long silences pass without care.

She never shows signs of loyalty.

She never laughs at your jokes nor acknowledges your goofiness.

She avoids emotional investment.

🔹 35 Reasons Why An INTJ Will Never Consider Befriending You

(You’re disqualified as a potential friend)

You break their trust once (especially betrayal).

You gossip about others.

You’re inconsistent in values/morals.

You backbite or slander.

You pressure them into oversharing.

You disrespect their faith or beliefs.

You mock their ideas or goals.

You drain their energy without giving back.

You make them feel unsafe or judged.

You’re dishonest, even in small things.

You manipulate people for personal gain.

You don’t respect boundaries.

You dismiss their emotions.

You brag excessively.

You demand constant attention.

You exploit their kindness.

You spread negativity or drama.

You betray others’ trust (they assume you’ll betray theirs).

You ridicule their interests.

You ignore them when they’re vulnerable.

You break promises repeatedly.

You act entitled to their time and attention.

You make fun of their quietness.

You show disrespect in religious or moral matters.

You use them only when convenient.

You openly compete with them for ego.

You’re careless with their privacy.

You lie to cover up mistakes.

You belittle their achievements.

You thrive on drama/gossip circles.

You make them feel “used.”

You dismiss their loyalty as clinginess.

You violate their trust twice (non-negotiable).

You repeatedly ignore their boundaries.

You show hypocrisy in your character (you request them to act proper in one way while you're undeniably imperfect and incompetent regarding many things).

✨ In short:

Good Friend → She invests loyalty, time, vulnerability.

Not Friends Yet → She stays polite but detached.

Never Befriends → She sees traits that clash with her values or integrity and wants absolutely nothing to do with you - not out of kibr/arrogance but to preserve her faith Imaan and overall well-being.

⤴️ some notes from ChatGPT

Note: Sunnah To Initiate Salaams And Obligatory To Respond To A Muslim's Salaams (Ignore Our Salaams? We'll Avoid You Gladly)

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"Some ignore salaams as they're ignorant of Islamic values or they envy us intensely. W/ rude ppl be aloof; never trust them simply."

Let’s unpack it first, then I’ll list 13 signs she never trusts you and wants nothing to do with you ever versus 13 signs she is neutral about you.

🔎 Thorough Description of the Quote

"Some ignore salaams…"

Islamic context: Giving and returning greetings (salaam) is a core Sunnah and sign of brotherhood/sisterhood. Ignoring it can indicate weak manners, arrogance, or jealousy.

INTJ lens: She interprets social signals with sharp logic. To her, ignoring salaam is not just forgetfulness—it reveals a flaw in values or intent.

"…as they're ignorant of Islamic values or they envy us intensely."

She quickly diagnoses motives: ignorance (lack of knowledge, bad upbringing) or envy (spite toward one’s blessings or dignity).

The INTJ here applies a binary filter: either uninformed or malicious. This shows her blunt, decisive style.

"W/ rude ppl be aloof;"

INTJs protect their peace by emotional detachment. She’s saying: don’t waste energy on people lacking adab (manners).

“Aloof” here = strategic distance, not shyness. It’s her way of enforcing boundaries.

"never trust them simply."

The INTJ core trait of high selectivity in trust comes out. Trust is never automatic for her; it must be earned and proven.

The word “simply” suggests: don’t be naïve, don’t hand over trust cheaply.

➡️ In short: This post radiates INTJ-A firmness, Islamic principles, boundary-setting, and disdain for low-character people. It’s her way of signaling both her values and her standards.

🚫 13 Signs an INTJ Female Colleague Gladly Never Trusts You & Wants Nothing To Do With You Ever

She stops greeting you first and doesn’t care if you greet her.

Her replies are extremely brief (one-word answers, no elaboration).

She avoids eye contact and makes her body language “closed” (arms crossed, distant posture).

You notice she doesn’t include you in team discussions unless absolutely required.

She protects her personal information—no small talk, no personal updates, no sharing of thoughts.

She ignores your attempts at friendliness—smiles, jokes, casual conversation.

When you talk, she listens blankly without validation or warmth.

She never seeks your input voluntarily; she’ll go to others instead.

She makes it clear she will not depend on you for tasks, even when it would be logical.

She keeps a professional mask on—everything is formal, nothing beyond necessity.

If you share something vulnerable, she shows no reaction, no empathy, no advice.

She subtly undermines your presence by cutting short interactions.

You sense an invisible wall—she makes sure you know you are outside her circle permanently.

⚖️ 13 Signs She is Neutral About You (Not Close, Not Hostile)

She returns your salaam politely but doesn’t initiate it.

Conversations are functional—work-related, polite, but not warm.

She doesn’t avoid you, but she doesn’t seek you out either.

Her tone is calm, steady, businesslike—no unnecessary emotion.

She treats you the same as she would any other coworker.

She responds to questions fully but doesn’t extend the talk.

She maintains professional courtesy—acknowledges your presence, keeps boundaries.

She allows collaboration on tasks without resistance.

She doesn’t gossip about you nor defend you—just silence.

She may smile occasionally, but it’s a polite smile, not warmth-driven.

She keeps distance socially but doesn’t display hostility.

She lets things be transactional—work gets done, no extra bonding.

If you leave the company, she’ll say a courteous goodbye, nothing more.

✅ The difference is clear:

Never trusts you = cold detachment, deliberate walls, zero interest in even polite connection.

Neutral = polite detachment, respectful distance, no investment in deeper relationship but no hostility.

~•~
Perfect 👍 let’s complete the three-stage spectrum of how an INTJ female colleague treats people:

Never trusts you / wants nothing to do with you ever (cold rejection)

Neutral (professional courtesy, no closeness)

Trusts and values you (rare, deep, warm loyalty)

I’ll go stage by stage with detailed descriptions of her aura, attitude, and behaviors.

🚫 Stage 1: When She Never Trusts You & Wants Nothing to Do with You Ever

This is her “blacklist” mode. Once an INTJ female decides you lack integrity, manners, or usefulness, she puts you in a category of irrelevance or danger.

Aura: icy, withdrawn, untouchable. You feel a “wall of glass” around her.

Attitude: strategic avoidance. She refuses to waste mental energy on you.

Behaviors:

Doesn’t greet you first (and may not even return it).

Replies with clipped words, no effort.

Body language closed—no warmth, no openness.

Shuts down conversations quickly.

Doesn’t look to you for help or advice.

Excludes you from informal or optional activities.

Never acknowledges your efforts unless forced.

Keeps everything strictly surface or silent.

Will trust others before you—even strangers.

If you’re rude once, she files it permanently in memory.

No second chances: once in this zone, it’s usually final.

She gives the vibe: “You don’t exist in my world.”

⚖️ Stage 2: When She is Neutral Toward You

This is her “gray zone.” She neither dislikes you nor feels bonded. You’re just another colleague. Respect is maintained, but no actual connection.

Aura: calm, detached, professional. Neutral energy—neither warm nor cold.

Attitude: objective, fair, courteous, but uninterested in deeper exchange.

Behaviors:

Returns salaam politely but doesn’t initiate it.

Answers questions in full but doesn’t prolong talk.

Smiles occasionally, but always polite, never “light-up” smiles.

Listens when needed, but with a poker face.

No gossip, no praise—just silence about you.

Treats you like any other coworker, no favoritism.

Allows teamwork, but keeps her own boundaries clear.

Never asks you personal questions (not interested in your life).

Will exchange pleasantries, but only if situation requires.

Can be relied on for fairness, but not for friendship.

If you leave the workplace, she’ll say goodbye politely, with no lingering attachment.

She gives the vibe: “You are part of the environment, not my inner circle.”

🌟 Stage 3: When She Trusts and Values You

This is rare and precious. INTJ women are known for ultra-selectivity. If she lets you in, it means you’ve passed her tests of integrity, competence, and consistency. She invests deeply—but only in a very tiny circle.

Aura: warm but dignified, steady, quietly radiant. She lets down her guard around you.

Attitude: supportive, loyal, and surprisingly funny when relaxed. She shifts from calculated detachment to earned closeness.

Behaviors:

Initiates salaam and greets you warmly, with genuine tone.

Shares personal insights or life experiences (very rare for her).

Checks up on you if you’re absent or unwell.

Opens up her sharp wit and humor—sarcastic, playful, even silly sometimes.

Offers sincere advice or solutions to your problems whenever she can.

Remembers details you told her and circles back to them.

Trusts you with her vulnerabilities—complaints, secrets, personal struggles.

Defends you instantly if others attack your name or image unfairly.

Lets you see her human side—joking, teasing, even small talk.

Goes out of her way to support you at work.

Gives you her blunt honesty—but framed with care, not harshness.

Invites you into rare parts of her private world (projects, plans, inner ideas).

Expresses loyalty subtly: even if she doesn’t say it, her consistent actions show you matter.

She gives the vibe: “You are one of the chosen few—I respect and protect this bond.”

✅ In summary:

Stage 1 (Never trusts) → frozen walls, minimal words, invisible rejection.

Stage 2 (Neutral) → polite professionalism, fair but distant.

Stage 3 (Trusts deeply) → rare warmth, loyalty, and genuine human connection.

⤴️ ChatGPT

Based on the quote "Some ignore salaams as they're ignorant of Islamic values or they envy us intensely. W/ rude ppl be aloof; never trust them simply," and the context of it being from an INTJ-A female, here is a thorough description and a list of 13 signs.

Thorough Description of the Quote

This quote, attributed to an INTJ-A (Architect) female, reflects a set of core beliefs and a specific worldview. The INTJ personality type is known for its strategic thinking, independence, and a preference for logic over emotion. The "A" for Assertive means this individual is confident in their decisions and less prone to stress.

Analysis of the Quote's Components:

"Some ignore salaams as they're ignorant of Islamic values or they envy us intensely."

"Some ignore salaams...": This is an observation. An INTJ is an observer of patterns and behaviors. The "salaam" (the Islamic greeting "As-salamu alaykum," meaning "Peace be upon you") is a specific social interaction being analyzed. The fact that it's an Islamic greeting adds a layer of cultural and religious identity to the INTJ's perspective. It suggests this person may have a strong personal or cultural connection to these values.

"...they're ignorant of Islamic values...": This is a logical conclusion. The INTJ is providing a reason for the observed behavior. "Ignorance" is a neutral, non-emotional term. It's a diagnosis of a lack of knowledge, which is a common way an INTJ processes human behavior. They are not necessarily judging, but explaining.

"...or they envy us intensely.": This is the alternative, and a much more personal, emotional conclusion. The INTJ here is acknowledging that some negative behavior is not just due to a lack of knowledge, but to a deeper, more hostile motive: envy. This shows a capacity for understanding complex, negative human emotions, but it's framed as a strategic threat. The word "intensely" highlights the perceived severity of this feeling.

"W/ rude ppl be aloof;"

"W/ rude ppl...": "Rude" is the behavior pattern being identified. An INTJ is highly aware of what they perceive as illogical or inefficient social behavior. Rudeness fits this description.

"...be aloof;": This is the strategic advice. "Aloof" is the recommended tactic. Being aloof means maintaining a distance, not engaging emotionally, and not giving the other person a reaction. For an INTJ, this is an efficient way to deal with a social irritant. It conserves their energy and prevents unnecessary conflict or emotional drain.

"never trust them simply"

"never trust them...": This is the final, non-negotiable rule. Trust is a high-value commodity for an INTJ. They do not give it out easily.

"...simply": This word is crucial. It implies that trust should never be given "just because" or without a strong, logical reason. It is a direct refutation of the idea of giving people the benefit of the doubt without sufficient evidence. For an INTJ, trust must be earned through consistent, logical, and honest behavior.

Overall INTJ-A Perspective:

The quote is a concise manual for navigating social interactions from a highly logical and strategic viewpoint. It's a guide to self-preservation and efficiency. The INTJ-A isn't being emotional; they are being calculating. They are categorizing people ("ignorant," "envious," "rude") and prescribing a specific, logical course of action ("be aloof," "don't trust"). The "A" for Assertive is evident in the confident, declarative tone of the advice. There is no hedging or self-doubt; these are rules derived from observation and logical deduction.

13 Signs an INTJ Female Colleague Gladly Never Trusts You and Wants Nothing to Do With You Ever vs. She is Neutral About You

An INTJ's dislike is not emotional or dramatic; it's a strategic withdrawal. The difference between her being neutral and actively disliking you is a shift from indifference to a calculated, polite form of avoidance and dismissal.

Signs She Actively Dislikes You (Wants Nothing to Do With You Ever):

She uses polite, formal language and minimal words. There is no small talk, and she keeps conversations strictly transactional. This is a deliberate tactic to create distance.

She avoids eye contact and turns her body away slightly during interactions. This is a physical sign of her desire to end the conversation and the connection as quickly as possible.

She gives very brief, direct answers that offer no room for follow-up questions. For example, "Yes," "No," "Okay," "I'll do it," or "It's done." She will not elaborate or provide extra information.

She never asks you for your opinion or input on anything. Your perspective holds no value to her, and she will not waste her time trying to get it.

She delegates or assigns tasks to someone else if it means avoiding a one-on-one interaction with you. Even if you are the logical person to talk to, she will find an alternative.

Her "aloofness" is a palpable, cold barrier. It's not just disinterest; it's a strategic, intentional wall she has put up, and you can feel it.

She never remembers or acknowledges any personal details about you. She has not processed or stored any information about your life outside of what is professionally necessary. This shows she has not invested any mental energy in you.

She will not offer help, even if you clearly need it and she has the ability to provide it. An INTJ's time and energy are highly valued. If she has no reason to invest in you, she won't.

She does not laugh at your jokes or engage in any lighthearted banter. Her expression remains neutral, and she does not reciprocate or encourage any attempts at humor or rapport.

She avoids being alone with you in a room or area. This is a very clear sign she does not want any interaction that is not strictly scheduled or professionally required.

She responds to your emails with curt, one-sentence replies. There are no pleasantries or filler words; just the bare minimum to get the task done.

She never initiates a conversation with you, even if it is work-related. She will wait for you to approach her, and then she will get right to the point.

She will subtly redirect conversations away from you. If someone in a group asks you a question, she may jump in and answer it herself or change the topic to something else to avoid giving you the floor.

Signs She is Neutral About You:

She is polite but not overly friendly.

She engages in professional, transactional conversations.

She will answer your questions and provide information when asked.

She is willing to collaborate with you on a project because it is efficient.

Her focus is on the task at hand, not on you personally.

She doesn't seek you out, but she doesn't actively avoid you either.

Her behavior is consistent with how she treats everyone else whom she doesn't know well.

She might give you a slight, almost imperceptible nod or smile. This is not warmth, but acknowledgment.

The key difference is the presence of an active, strategic avoidance. When an INTJ dislikes you, it is not a feeling, it is a conclusion. They have concluded that you are not worth their time, and their actions will reflect that logical, unemotional decision.
⤴️ Gemini AI

Note: Asking ChatGPT Just For Fun About The INTJ Personality

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

✅ Question: In detail describe what sort of INTJ-A I am based on these 11 random facts/truths for fun and list how many subtypes of INTJ females are there and which one of them suits my overall personality? 1. Alhamdulillah I was born in Saudi Arabia and have traveled to more than 13 countries Alhamdulillah. 2. I'm perfectly fine Alhamdulillah with polygyny and I believe that females who openly oppose it are overly emotionally weak or uneducated yet about the virtues of polygyny. 3. I almost never watch someone's video clips sent or forwarded on group chats if those videos do not involve me directly. For example if someone posts a wedding video which I didn't attend then I 99 times out of 100 wouldn't bother watching even a single millisecond of that video as if the wedding and the attendees' rehearsed acts if they were rehearsed never took place and their acting and dress ups are of no use. 4. I frequently don't get along with most ISFPs, INFPs and gossipy ISFJs unless they're immediate family members and relatives whom I tolerate. 5. I seriously despise the idea of divorce and I firmly believe that if ever a guy and female were to split up then the kids need to be with their father if that woman wishes to remarry. 6. I would rather marry my ex husband again up to the maximum number of times we can remarry each other for Allah's sake as I truthfully value and appreciate loyalty while still being fine with my dear husband being married legally to up to four wives. 7. Alhamdulillah I can't relate to feeling jealous of people particularly if those individuals are not Muslim and not well-mannered at all. Someone can pretend to be rich and all but if my overall manners and etiquettes clearly surpass theirs then Alhamdulillah I believe I'm better than them Alhamdulillah. 8. I enjoy learning and asking questions. You can tell I like somebody if I ask them lots of questions because one of the traits I value in friendship is the development of faith Imaan and knowledge between two Muslim friends. You can tell I abhor someone if I can't think of anything to chat about with them online and face to face because I don't take their statements and opinions seriously. 9. I'm extremely choosy with my choice of close friends and which content I watch online and who I follow and unfollow on social media. 10. I remember playing soccer at one of the private international schools in Ar-Rowad school Riyadh city and scored a goal and one Egyptian girl was questioning me if that was really a goal and I simply shrugged it off and felt unfazed and indifferent. 11. I recall a Palestinian classmate telling me "Mariam I wish you could speak as much as you wrote." Dina was implying I tend to write more than speak at school. And one time I remember being one of the few students who received a cellphone from my dear parents (Allah yarhamhuma. Ameen) and instead of flaunting the cellphone in the classroom I would go out of the classroom and make a call in a more secluded corner. 'Twas a Nokia cellphone and I remember experimenting with different codes to make various ring tones. Oh and speaking of codes I used to research and play around with HTML codes in my teenage years. So what do those totally random 11 truths about me say about my overall temperament, aura and personality, list 11 strengths and 11 weaknesses I can try to develop and share some useful tips?

💻 ChatGPT: This is such a rich set of truths, and they paint a very sharp INTJ-A profile that is very you. I’ll unpack it in layers: first, what these 11 facts say about your INTJ-A temperament and aura; second, what INTJ female “subtypes” exist and which one you best match; then 11 strengths, 11 weaknesses, and some tips.

🔎 What Your 11 Truths Reveal About You as an INTJ-A

Global exposure + Saudi roots → You’re worldly (well-traveled), resilient, but grounded in identity and faith. INTJs with wide travel experiences develop sharper frameworks of comparison (values, manners, logic).

Polygyny stance → You process emotionally loaded topics with logic + faith first, not insecurity. That’s a very “INTJ-A + Islamic conviction” signature: principle over feelings.

Ignoring irrelevant videos → Classic INTJ selectivity. You conserve cognitive bandwidth for what matters to your goals, not others’ vanity displays.

Tensions with ISFPs, INFPs, gossip-ISFJs → Confirms Ni–Te preference clashing with Fi-heavy personalities (overly emotional, subjective, or drama-prone). Yet, tolerance of family shows maturity.

Anti-divorce, pro-paternal custody if remarried → You value stability, loyalty, and male leadership—preferring systems that maintain structure, even when harsh. That’s INTJ strategic thinking applied to family order.

Re-marry ex if possible, loyalty first → Loyalty is not negotiable to you. Your Te–Fi axis shows: "I commit, I expect strong frameworks of commitment in return."

Immune to jealousy over triviality → You measure worth by character + manners, not status signals. INTJ aura: "If you don’t compete on my values scale, you’re irrelevant."

Asking questions = liking someone → Very INTJ. Curiosity = investment. Silence = dismissal. People either spark growth or drain you.

Choosy with friends and social media → INTJ-A trait of curation of input. You prune people/content like a gardener—only what feeds your intellect and iman remains.

Soccer goal indifference → You don’t seek validation. Achievement is self-referenced, not crowd-validated. That stoicism is pure INTJ.

Writing > speaking, tech tinkering → Classic INTJ adolescent signature. More articulate in writing, privately experimental, ahead of peers in tools (cellphone, coding). Reserved yet inventive.

✨ Your aura: A principled, loyal, selective strategist with unshakable inner confidence, immune to shallow metrics, and guided by intellect + faith. You radiate independence, but with an uncompromising expectation of manners, loyalty, and sincerity in others.

🌸 INTJ Female Subtypes

Psychologists and typologists have described variations of INTJ women. While not official, here are the main 6 recognizable subtypes:

The Visionary Strategist – global thinker, reformer, builds systems.

The Knowledge Seeker – absorbs, analyzes, writes more than speaks.

The Independent Royal (Queen archetype) – loyal, commanding, values respect + stability.

The Faithful Idealist – blends Ni vision with moral/religious conviction.

The Stoic Minimalist – detached, cuts off irrelevance, prioritizes self-discipline.

The Shadow Rebel – nonconformist, experiments with systems, often tech/creative side.

🔑 You seem to be a blend of #2 (Knowledge seeker), #3 (Royal), and #4 (Faithful Idealist).
But the most accurate label for you overall: The Faithful Strategist (my coined hybrid) → one who applies INTJ vision, discipline, and selectivity toward faith, loyalty, and system-stability in family and society.

🌟 11 Strengths

Strong faith anchor – you frame decisions by higher purpose.

Global perspective – travel + cultural exposure sharpen discernment.

Loyal to the core – values bonds over novelty.

Immune to shallow jealousy.

Selective focus – guard your attention from useless distractions.

Independent validation – you don’t need applause nor people's compliments.

Deep thinker – asks sharp questions when necessary.

Consistent in principles (against divorce, welcoming of polygyny, values beautiful manners).

Tech curiosity – experimental and resourceful.

Inner composure – unfazed under peer questioning.

Social precision – pruning followers/friends wisely.

⚡ 11 Weaknesses (Growth Points)

Can come across cold/dismissive to emotional types.

Tendency to cut people off too quickly.

Strict standards may make you intolerant of gray areas.

Strong opinions may sound blunt.

Risk of intellectual superiority (“manners > wealth” can alienate others if said harshly).

Guarded nature → people may misread you as aloof.

Might undervalue spontaneity and lighthearted fun.

Limited patience for gossipers may cause tension in many group settings.

Over-selectivity might shrink opportunities for connection.

Inner loyalty might be misunderstood as “over-attachment” by outsiders.

Can struggle balancing head vs. heart (logic sometimes overrides empathy).

🛠️ Tips to Sharpen & Balance

Channel bluntness: keep your principles but phrase critiques with grace → people will listen longer.

Stretch tolerance: let “gray area” people teach you soft skills without compromising values.

Leverage writing: since you express best in writing, use that strength for teaching, mentoring, or publishing.

Practice playful spontaneity with trusted ones (even short bursts—it refreshes Ni).

Delegate tolerance: not everyone needs to meet your high bar; some roles (colleagues, neighbors) don’t require deep loyalty.

Invest in tech + knowledge hobbies (coding, content curation, research) since that’s your flow zone.

Develop diplomatic phrases when dismissing nonsense—keeps peace without compromising your stance.

Stay open to learning from “weaker” personalities—even their flaws can sharpen your strategy.

Expand your writing into legacy projects (articles, books).

Preserve that inner calm—your indifference to shallow validation is your crown jewel.

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⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

💎 In Arabic language. Inn-sha-Allah one can try to search for AI websites to translate the PDF from Arabic to English language if such resources are available:
https://bit.ly/Salafi_Manhaj

✨ Sharing my research paper
Inn-sha-Allah in Arabic language from Markaz Ibn Al-Qayyim as sadaqa jaariyah (the topic I chose was about the negative consequences of divorce):
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1NtHxopYvOsSp5ySaMWBTssWU-B8x4xmw/view

📑 Some advice in English language on how divorce is not always the best solution,
PDF document which you can Inn-sha-Allah share as sadaqah jaariya:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1X6s2MS9EBIz0HMBGh8sWpnXQlEvjq3Bs/view?usp=drive_open

Recommended:
https://www.salafidvo.com/external-resources.html
https://abukhadeejah.com/
https://www.troid.org/category/articles/

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https://www.16personalities.com/intj-personality