💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Some aspects about people we can't control:
1] While we can't control people's decisions and we can't force everyone to agree with our beliefs, opinions and perceptions, we can control our reactions to their wrong choices, misinterpretation and mistakes by having patience. Someone's incorrect way of seeing something shouldn't influence us to be like them.
2] While we can't control their behavior and enforce everybody to maintain good character, we have the ability to control how we react when they demonstrate bad manners. A person's rudeness and disrespectful conduct towards us should train us to be more patient, not hatefully bitter.
3] While we can't control how some people make us feel, whether they've triggered feelings of sadness, hurt, jealousy, anger or attraction, we have the freewill Alhamdulillah to control our actions, refusing to act wrongly on any intense emotion.
We can't control people, but we can control how we deal with them.
Don't let something that you can't control stress you out or distract you from your life goals.
When certain circumstances get out of hand or become unmanageable, always seek guidance and help from Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala Who has full control over everyone and everything.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu ‘anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.’ Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills.” Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan.“
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim