💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 From self-care is to choose friends who bring you near Allah,
Those whose righteous deeds remind you to strive for Jannah,
While avoiding toxic companions who cause fitnah,
Who try to guilt-trip you or who insist on bid'ah.
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The kind of people whom you should distance yourself from
Are the jealous who see you like you're competition,
The hateful who mistreat or question your intention,
And liars who can't promise they can be relied on.
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You cannot trust someone who envies you secretly,
Who plays passive-aggressive tricks, frequently deceives,
Often rolls their eyes when you speak to confirm envy,
And keeps comparing their life to your unique journey.
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Detach from those who suspect your good traits constantly,
From habitual gossipers, from the untrustworthy,
From critics who don't add value to your piety,
And whose negative mindsets deplete your energy.
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Still maintain noble manners with them. Smile when they greet.
Their lack of morals mustn't lower your dignity.
Simply disengage from souls who act like enemies.
Just focus on being whom Allah wants us to be.
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📖 Abdullah Bin Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "The Muslim is the one from whose tongue and hands the Muslims are safe."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 10
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi
📖 Aisha RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, the believer may reach by his good character the rank of one who regularly fasts and stands for prayer at night."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4798
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Al-Ahwas narrated: Abdullah Ibn Mas’ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu said, "Remember Allah the Almighty often. You must not accompany anyone unless they help you remember Allah the Almighty."
Source: Shu’ab Al-Imān 8998