💌 Six types of people who make effort to ignore you,
And a seventh group of souls whose love for you stays true,
Oftentimes preoccupied with loads of things to do:
One - The disinterested, who can't relate to you,
Like bears that bypass jewels not knowing their value.
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Two - The jealous, who can't stand what makes them insecure.
They'd rather flee than compliment those who've acquired more.
Three - The careful and self-aware secret admirer.
Of their strong feelings for you they're scared yet fully sure.
They seek to guard their faith, so you both wouldn't be lured.
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Four - The incompatible, whose values clash with yours.
They've freewill to decide, just as you take your own course.
Five - The confused, who got you all wrong, who still feel hurt.
Distance is their shield from recalling your past insults.
To like someone they can't not everyone can be forced.
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Six - The scared or stressed out who can't handle too much work,
Like students who look away when they'd hate to be heard.
Avoiding your orders, your distrust of their self-worth,
Desire to change them, or zeal that brings them discomfort,
Could be why their actions sometimes make you feel ignored.
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Seven - The busy, distracted, focused on their goals,
Who seldom check their inbox or abhor making calls.
While they're not purposely trying to leave you alone,
They're overloaded with tasks, ideas to think of,
Or they savor solitude like withdrawn introverts.
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To deal with moments when you feel unjustly ignored:
Say Du'a, talk to Allah with Whom you can't be bored,
Read often the Noble Qur'an, to attain rewards,
Increase Adhkaar, research writings or vids on self-help,
And spend some time with loved ones who recognize your worth.
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Recall you're not the only human being on earth.
Don't oblige anybody to always put you first.
Let others contact you, respond, and freely approach
Only when they're ready, when their mood is undisturbed.
Love Allah most, and His slaves' apathy won't provoke.
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📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Ali Ibn Husayn RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, part of perfection in Islam is for a person to leave what does not concern him."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2318
Grade: Sahih li ghayri (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
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