💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Any female con artist and sex worker can claim that she loves a man or describe how much she enjoys frequent sexual intimacy with him when, in reality, she's only pretending to care as she selfishly wants his money and/or children.
🔹 Nine clear signs that a Muslim wife truly loves her husband for Allah's sake, and her love isn't a lie:
1] She trusts him, or at least shows that she doesn't constantly suspect him. Just because he occasionally interacts with other females for necessity, particularly his female customers if he manages a store, female patients if he's a medical doctor, and female students if he teaches, doesn't mean he's guilty of adultery.
2] She patiently accepts it when her husband is unable to provide sufficient money at times, especially whenever he is financially struggling. She didn't marry him for his wealth but she wants him to join her in a loving journey to Jannah Paradise.
3] She tries her best to treat their children well, doing whatever she can to educate them about Islam and good manners. A woman who despises her husband may take out her frustration and anger on his kids once in a while, if he can't always meet her expectations.
4] When her husband temporarily loses his job or he has tons of debts, a loyal wife goes out of her way to assist him, finding a decent profession for him, or kindly allowing him to spend from her salary if she is much wealthier than he is.
5] She's capable of practicing unlimited empathy with him, understanding why and when to give some space when he requires to chill with his male friends and colleagues, while avoiding unnecessarily whining about his delayed replies to her messages, indifference to her missed calls, or certain personality disorders which he may be struggling with momentarily.
6] She lovingly makes effort to harmoniously get along with his parents, siblings, relatives, and other wife/wives if she's in a polygynous marriage.
7] She has enough patience and bravery for Allah's sake to allow her husband to remarry. She doesn't oppose his right to be married to up to four wives, as she understands that Allah the Almighty legislated this with infinite wisdom. She'd rather be a co-wife than have him disappear from her life.
8] When eating and drinking, she enjoys taking bites or sips from where her husband ate and drank from, as though she savors receiving his kisses indirectly.
9] Numerous times she has dedicatedly written love poems or letters to him. A woman who has zero interest in a guy would never bother writing for him a lengthy message.
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📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best wealth is a tongue that remembers Allah, a grateful heart, and a believing wife to help one in his faith."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3094
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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