🗒️ How most individuals with the INTJ personality type treat people according to the kind of connection they have:
1] If you are only an acquaintance, they:
• are mostly very brief and businesslike with you.
• may occasionally greet you.
• show no interest in your background, aren't curious about your past, or they do what they can to avoid asking you personal questions.
2] If you are a casual friend, they:
• have invited you to go out with them for shopping or an outing more than once.
• seem to enjoy talking to you online and face-to-face.
• try their best to support your halal business, projects, and hobbies, lovingly supporting you without wanting anything in return.
3] If you are a close friend, they:
• may have fought or argued with you once in a while but you always end up forgiving each other for Allah's sake.
• regularly go out of their way to reach out, visit, communicate, ask how you're doing, and they're able to patiently wait for your delayed replies.
• requested for your advice or borrowed items from you multiple times.
• often give you freebies, edibles, drinks, books, or gifts not necessarily for a special occasion but they simply felt like giving something they can offer to demonstrate their love for Allah's sake.
• are capable of joking around with you, so you're one of the carefully selected few who get to see their less serious side of their personality.
4] If you're a spouse, family member or relative, they:
• tolerate your differences and flaws with patience.
• will staunchly assist or defend you if they saw you in trouble, as long as attempting to help you doesn't conflict with their values and goals.
• don't permanently hold grudges no matter how many times you've scolded, mistreated, or insulted them. They readily forgive, while being slightly distant to protect you both from pointless arguments.
5] With strangers whom they are uninterested in befriending, they:
• never stalk their social media accounts nor bother reading their comments entirely.
• can appear socially awkward, unapproachable, or somewhat snobby. Most conversations feel forced, uncomfortable, or don't flow smoothly.
• don't make much eye contact, as if the stranger is a mosquito or fly buzzing around their personal space bubble temporarily.
A person's choice to be cautiously selective regarding who gets to enter their circle doesn't make them "arrogant". It's your right to maintain connection with those whose vibes align with yours and minimize problems by staying away from distractions.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his best friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi
📖 Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu said: "A righteous companion is better than loneliness, and loneliness is better than an evil companion. A good writer is better than one silent, and one silent is better than an evil writer."
Source: Rawdat Al-‘Uqalā 56
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