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ุจุณู… ุงู„ู„ู‡. ุฑุจูŠ ุฒุฏู†ูŠ ุนู„ู…ุง. ุงู…ูŠู†
May Allah the Almighty grant us more beneficial knowledge, accept our good deeds, forgive our mistakes, protect us from fitna, and join us with the righteous believers in Jannatul Ferdaus. Ameen.

Thursday, October 7, 2021

Poem: My Response To "How Happy Are You With Your Husband?"

๐Ÿ’ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
๐Ÿ’Œ "How happy are you with your husband?" if I were asked, 
"How contented are you with him if he's out a lot, 
And you can't spend time together as much as you love?", 
I'd say, without sugarcoating, and Allah Above 
Sees my heart, "happy enough to spoil him with Du'as, 
~•~ 
Praying that Allah protects him as he's out a lot, 
And asking Allah that He guides him to be pious. 
Happy enough to not wish he looked like hot actors, 
To never cheat on him, to not desire another, 
And happy enough to not compare him with others. 
~•~ 
Alhamdulillah. I believe I'm happy enough 
With the man whom Allah selected as my spouse that 
I would never want my care and loyalty to stop. 
If ever he asks for divorce, I wouldn't give up. 
I'd still want him back, wait for him, and love from afar. 
~•~ 
I'm happy enough, Alhamdulillah, to state that 
My zawj is the only soul I romantically love, 
Fully aware he's not perfect but he's good enough, 
Good enough to value and appreciate the fact 
He's my husband, I'm his wife, and we're grateful enough."
~•~ 
Marital bliss isn't based on how often you touch, 
But how many blessings your marriage actually has 
And how long your patience with one another can last. 
Your marriage is a gift if it leads to Allah's Love 
And it moves you to confess, "Yes, I'm happy enough.".
~•~ 
๐Ÿ“– Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1159
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi
Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."
Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātih 5/2125
๐Ÿ“– Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/08/poem-love-your-husband-patiently-for.html 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/06/poem-five-signs-that-youre-tough-wife.html 
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/09/note-how-happy-are-you-with-your.html