๐ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
๐ The bigger one's ego, the harder it is to say
"I'm sorry", "forgive me for what I did yesterday",
And "please accept my apology. I'll compensate
For any loss or damage that was clumsily made."
Connections can weaken when ego gets in the way.
~•~
Three reasons why some people can't admit their mistakes:
The level of contentment with their lives is small-scale,
So their eagerness to sadden you stems from self-hate,
Or pride causes them to presume they're flawless always,
Or they're driven by intense envy to misbehave.
~•~
If someone's response to your messages was delayed
And why they answered late isn't tactfully explained,
Or a rude shopper's cart collided with yours one day,
And some sellers didn't give the right amount of change,
Let Allah deal with them, and move on for Allah's sake.
~•~
For people's apologies it's better not to wait,
As most are insecure and immersed in dismal states.
Don't expect those with bad ethics to enunciate
That they regret behaving badly and straight away
They'll correct their errors when from pride they're not yet saved.
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Pardon their shortcomings and choices, for Allah's sake.
Through encounters with them we're trained to never betray
And act improperly with any of Allah's slaves.
When mistreated by souls who carry around self-hate,
Thank Allah. "Sad" and "insecure" aren't from your traits.
~•~
๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Charity does not decrease wealth, no one forgives another but that Allah increases his honor, and no one humbles himself for the sake of Allah but that Allah raises his status."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2588
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said:
"The supplications of three persons are never turned away (rejected): A fasting person until he breaks his fast, a just ruler, and the supplication of the oppressed which is raised by Allah above the clouds, the gates of Paradise are opened for it, and Allah the Almighty says: 'By My Might and Majesty, I will help you in due time.'"
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3598 Grade: Sahih
Umar Ibn Al-Khattab RadhiAllahu 'anhu said:
"Beware of the supplication (Du'a) of the oppressed, for the supplication of the oppressed is answered."
Source: Al-Muwaṭṭa 1890
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