๐ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
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๐ Eleven ways to respond to a delusional narcissist or jealous bully who claims "nobody loves you. Why don't you do the world a favor and kill yourself?"
1] Is that your name, "Nobody"? Or is that your parent's name? Because I'm not interested in "Nobody".
2] FYI (for your information), I'm not a mirror. Deliver those words of affirmation to your reflection someplace else, please.
3] Are you talking to me? What makes you so certain that I value your nonsensical statements and irrational opinions?
4] You say that as though you're aware of how every single living being on earth thinks and feels. Quit acting as if you are omnipotent. Stop overestimating yourself. It's not attractive.
5] So by stating that, are you training yourself to be the next Adolf Hitler? If so, that would make you an imbecile. You should be ashamed of yourself.
6] Why are you terribly concerned about me being liked or disliked by people? Are you that infatuated with me? If so, the feeling is not mutual.
7] Is that the title of your future autobiography? It's ludicrously lengthy.
8] And? Are you going to grant me a million dollars or the world's treasures if I act as though your empty words mean anything to me?
9] Are you sure you know me? The only thing you prove by saying such nonsense is your absolute ignorance or lack of good manners. I feel sorry for you, that your parents failed at bringing you up well.
10] Is that your special mantra which you tell yourself on a regular basis? No wonder you're morally pathetic.
11] Am I supposed to award you with a certificate that congratulates you on being "the most obnoxious and unethical person on earth"? You print it yourself.
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Confidently staying silent or indifferent to a bully's offensive jokes, while seeking Allah's Guidance, could be a wiser and more effective reaction. The less you pay attention to what your enemies babble about you, the more inner strength and calm you obtain, and
Inn-sha-Allah you receive rewards for striving to have patience with insecure individuals who are at war with themselves.
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๐ Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith (Imaan)."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albaani
๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
