๐ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
๐ Five signs that a person whose MBTI personality type is INTJ only appears to be maintaining courtesy (especially to avoid drama), and they don't regard you as a close friend:
1] They are reluctant to send you a "Facebook friend request" and don't bother stalking your status updates despite their awareness of the link to your online profile.
2] They remain unaffected if they notice you "unfriended" them, blocked their account, left a group chat or forum which they usually participate in, or excluded them from a gathering.
3] It is obvious that they ask other individuals more personal questions than when briefly interacting with you. If an INTJ already made a conclusion about you, for instance they realized that you're not reliable at all or they can sense that you feel so intimidated by them, they'd purposely desist from asking you random queries about yourself because they're uninterested in connecting with you on a much deeper level.
4] All in all they're serious (aloof or emotionally detached) when you're around and they don't easily show you their goofy side.
5] Although they're aware of where your room or residence is located, they haven't paid you a single visit within three or more months or they don't go out of their way to initiate meaningful conversations with you.
✅ Five signs they actually like you for Allah's sake even though they seem distant most of the time:
1] They regularly check your online posts or ask how you're doing even if it's done once a year.
2] They make effort to pay regular visits to you, if they know where you reside, at least once every two or more months.
3] When texting or chatting with you, a lot of their messages tend to be long as they enjoy communicating with you.
4] They quickly defend you in your presence or absence when you're being treated or mentioned unfairly.
5] They find many of your jokes funny and/or they're capable of patiently tolerating your dissimilarities.
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๐ Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith (Imaan)."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
Al-Azimabadi said, “That he hates for the sake of Allah does not mean he harms the one he hates. Rather, the hatred is for his unbelief and disobedience.”
Source: 'Awn Al-Ma’būd 4681
๐ Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his best friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi
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