💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 11 signs that someone with an INTJ personality type cares about you and loves you for Allah's sake:
1] They care enough to point out your mistakes and correct your errors, not to dishearten you but because they want you to improve and see you do well, thrive and succeed in both worlds.
2] They're apparently more tolerant, lenient and forgiving towards you than to strangers or mere acquaintances. They give you plenty of chances before regarding you as another stranger again.
3] They genuinely smile or laugh at your jokes, as long as your efforts to share laughter doesn't involve childish gossip and ridiculing others for how Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala created them.
4] They often take initiative to call, visit or send a text message asking how you're doing.
5] If you were absent from a gathering or meeting, they ask the attendees if they know why you didn't show up or they contact you, check if you're alright, and inform you of any important announcement.
6] They occasionally invite you to join them in outings, Islamic seminars, or at least make it clear they're okay with you accompanying them when they are going out.
7] Without hesitation they approach you for your advice, opinions and ask you questions about matters which they believe you are knowledgeable of.
8] They're enthusiastic about getting to know you in a more personal level. You know an INTJ isn't a close friend if they don't bother trying to familiarize with you besides knowing just your name.
9] They like to say your name or nickname a lot. When an INTJ isn't interested in getting to know further about someone or something, they want absolutely nothing to do with them, almost never think of them or show eagerness in accentuating the word those strangers like to call themselves by.
10] They readily defend you and back you up if they notice you're being treated unjustly.
11] If you've received some gifts, free offers, dishes, words of encouragement, or observed any kind gesture from them, even a sincere hug which they initiate, at least three times, you're probably included in their circle of trusted companions.
Note: Whether you're close to one or not, INTJs in general intensely abhor gossiping. As Muslims especially, they'd rather focus on what can contribute to their betterment as Muslims than indulge in emotionally driven talks and obnoxious backbiting.
📖 Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Nothing is heavier upon the scale of the believer on the Day of Resurrection than good character. Verily, Allah hates the vulgar, obscene person."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2002
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut
📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “Whoever loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith.”
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
Al-Azimabadi said, “That he hates for the sake of Allah does not mean he harms the one he hates. Rather, the hatred is for his unbelief and disobedience.”
Source: ‘Awn Al-Ma’būd 4681
