๐ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
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๐ Checklist to determine if you're emotionally immature (or insecure) and you seriously need to work on developing your good character - if you are guilty of at least three of these, you aren't a mature adult:
1. A lot of times whatever emotion you feel inside gets outwardly expressed in the form of morally inappropriate acts or negative statements. It's obvious that you let silly emotions control you most of the time. [ ]
2. You're obnoxiously nosy, frequently spying on others' lives instead of minding your own business. Regularly stalking the online profiles of those whom you secretly envy or despise is one of your strange obsessions. [ ]
3. You stupidly assume that it's alright to steal, scam and deceive others. [ ]
4. Like an oversized bully whose gigantic ego gets hurt easily, one of the weird things you usually do is giving instructions to similarly ignorant or naive people to misbehave and mistreat others just so you can feel better about your discontented self (e.g. "when so-and-so arrives, pretend to ignore her. I want her to feel as awful as I did when she told me such and such. Don't answer her messages so she can feel how I felt when she chose to boycott my YouTube channel etc.". [ ]
5. In many instances, particularly at several social events, you've displayed how terribly greedy and selfish you are. It would be an absolute lie to describe yourself as genuinely helpful, kind and generous. [ ]
6. You always insist on being liked or admired by certain individuals. It's difficult for you to detach and move on from an indifferent person who clearly isn't willing to start any connection with you. [ ]
7. Idiotically you believe that it's okay to invent lies just to inflate your gargantuan ego and make others feel "jealous". [ ]
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๐ Abu Dharr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Fear Allah (The Almighty) wherever you are, follow a bad deed with a good deed and it will erase it, and behave well with good character towards the people."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1987
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to At-Tirmidhi
๐ Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Nothing is heavier upon the scale of a believer on the Day of Resurrection than his good character. Verily, Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) hates the vulgar and obscene person (prone to wicked conduct and vile speech such as knowingly telling lies, backbiting, spreading rumors)."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2002
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut
๐ Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "Verily, among the best of you are those with the best character."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3366
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi
